….she would have felt your love for her, Scarlett…I can feel it so I know that she will have so much……that would have brought so much to her life and her heart….

……I hope that the day was one that reflected her well in the memories of you all…it’s always difficult because of the sadness we feel …but we feel that because that person gave so much happiness and warmth and smiles…and those are the things that will stay with us and that we don’t lose……

…I know it’s a strange thing to say but one ‘positive’ of a funeral is seeing family that you rarely see because of lives going in different directions, you know…?..it’s a bittersweet thing because it does have some things that are of great value too…

…and it’s a celebration for her also…?…for all of those whose lives she touched and who knew and loved her to honour that time they’ve shared together and the memories they hold for her…?…it’s kind of a bittersweet thing, I always think…because it’s impossible also not to feel how loved someone was and that’s fairly special……

…that’s perfectly fine, you be as quiet as you feel that you need to be…just know that I’m thinking about you……

……just saying hey…

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……I’m thinking of you…

…and she took those memories also, they were locked in her heart…how we remember people is how we carry them with us…..

……I’m just thinking about you right now and giving you a hug……