Homosexuality: Are you REALLY born gay?
 

I somewhat disagree with people who say that you're "born" gay. While this is the case for some people, I think some people can "develop" homosexuality in their later life and begin to show an interest for the same gender over a certain period of time.

What are your thoughts on this?

"Born with it"?

It's not a disease.

I'm gay and I didn't choose it. from as young as I remember I've been attracted to guys and it's been out of my control

100% natural, any other suggestions are stupid imo

I'm not gay so I can't really have an opinion based on anything other than what I hear gay people say and the very big majority believe that they were born gay so I'm happy to take their word for it. Does it really matter that much either way anyhow?

dominant mother and no father figure?

i dont think you are born with it as such but it cant be just how you are raised and by who due to the numbers and the fact that it was the same 1000 years ago etc

its just a thing that you have 100 babies 5 will end up being a a gay and ending up on Tibb

I think it develops as you get older

You were the first to mention that word. I wasn't thinking about diseases when I wrote this.

of course its an interesting thing and it leads into other areas like the gay voice/accent debacle

I was raised by a lad like football loving dad and my uncles and cousins are boxers aswell so I really just think your born with it, I defo had a father figure

Nobody chooses their sexuality. You're born gay, straight or somewhere in between and nothing can impact or change that.

People coming out later in life will not have chosen to be bi/gay, they would have just repressed that side of themselves.

Most gays don't have this.

were you thinking along the lines of say an affliction or a curse?

I'm just purely going off what happens to me but I can't change my sexuality at all no matter what enters my head so how can I expect anyone else?

are you quite sure?

Yes

Your phrasing could have been better.

This, surely the only answer.

come off it kyle

£3000 quid and your ring would open like an unbolted barn door in a stiff breeze

well i have been around a bit longer than you and i would say you are wrong

:hee:

But is it possible that one can like the opposite gender all their life, and end up falling in love with someone of the same gender?

Whatever, it's just the loud minority that make it known with their voice and actions. I know plenty of gay people who you would only know if they told you.

I think that would be more down to the fact I have no scruples would it not? :laugh:

Done.
There's no incorrect answer to this question.

Yes its the Cells XY XX
you are born gay or bi
or normal


Sign Of The Times

Yeah, anything other than what Dezzy said is just wrong and kinda ignorant imo

Yeah, I agree with that, I reckon that's more of a gay lifestyle choice than just being gay if you know what I mean?