Infractions should NOT come as a private message?
 

When you look up at your private message and its in bold and you think "oh what lovely message is this :amazed: "and then its an infraction or a profile warning or a ban :oh: that is not right.

These type of messages should come in another way and a member should not think "oh God what have I done now" every time he (or she) gets a private message :skull:


As a member who rarely understands what it is I have actually done wrong (but am sure i have broke the rules ) I find this constant state of anxiety not good and i think we can all agree this needs to be sensitively addressed in this inclusive time in which we live??


I cant be the only member who suffers from "Private message inbox infraction anxiety disorder" ?


https://i2-prod.mirror.co.uk/incomin...the-office.jpg

I wouldn’t mind having an infraction thread or something, I don’t care who knows about my infractions and I think most people are the same, so I don’t care if they aren’t private

or as I like to call it PMIIAD....

This :worship:

Yup, let's have transparency

A certain mod usually outs the infracted person in random threads anyway.

Yeah a public infraction thread would be welcome. It would be interesting to see what people are infracted for so we know where we stand in rules, and it works for transparency reasons too.

This

No infraction thread. It will just encourage member baiting

Heres a plan.... this answers the other thread too I guess, how about at least trying not to get infractions :hee:

if there were a public infractions thread there is a chance someone could take advantage of it and bait someone to try and get them a ban.

Saying that I wouldn't be bothered if mine were public at all. We all make mistakes after all.

I think they should be handwritten by Josy and handed out to our parents at a TiBB Parents Evening

That or put out a notice in the member's local paper, informing their area that they've used a derogatory term about the disabled or whatever.

I will look into this

I know, I hate it as well. :laugh:

Please don't try and take what I have left of my life away from me josy

My parents are worst than me😱

Every time I get a PM, I assume its a well-thoughout out from-the-heart message from a close pal. What are these infractions?

Yeah, I assume every notification I get is an infraction/warning/ban.

When it's a wall message or actual PM I'm pleasantly surprised. Although that is only 5% of the time. :fan:

No need to close it

No way, i am still getting over being mistaken for Vicky's son at the last one

I’m not bothered as I don’t get them

You're like the perfect child :flutter:

Brightening up your day :flowers:

when will you brighten mine :fist:

When you stop reporting RileyH :oh: