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I don’t know how many of you have had experience with this line but it’s basically somewhere you can tap in to access psychological/basic mental health advice (not necessarily just for actively suicidal people) and I thought it’d be interesting to see how people feel about it (as far as helpfulness goes).
I personally haven’t had the best experiences with it (the advice they give is too general and in the handful of times I’ve tapped in I only rarely got the impression that the person on the other end truly cared) but that’s just me. |
Never used it or heard of it
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I find that they're closer to basic customer service than genuine therapy - volunteers can't go off-script in the same way a trained professional can.
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Is that “Shout”? They mean well and it’s better than there being nothing but they can’t give any sort of professional advice and their usefulness for people in real crisis is questionable.
But then, trained mental health staff right up to psychiatrists/psychologists can’t always help, or at least, not immediately with one phone call or conversation… so really I’m not sure what can be expected of what are essentially call centre staff. For anyone in acute mental health crisis, they’re going to be way out of their depth. Where it can help is people suffering from an anxiety episode with a specific cause; e.g. generalised health anxiety (“found a mole” etc.) or financial anxiety (lost a lot of money, can’t pay bills and starting to panic, something like that) - that’s when just talking it though and being encouraged to think about the most realistic scenarios can help people to stop spiralling. And yeah it’s always going to be basically pot luck whether you get connected to someone who is genuinely helpful or not. I also find they’re generally geared for people who have little to zero knowledge of psychology/anxiety management techniques and if you do already have any of that knowledge they can seem patronising. |
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I was thinking more in situations when someone is truly screwed financially - but the threat can seem amplified (I.e. sometimes it can help just to remind someone that even if they do default on a load of debts… they’re not going to die/starve… their credit rating will tank but life goes on) |
They might actually starve if no one’s willing to help them out financially though. I do hear and appreciate what you’re saying but even in those times of stress/anxiety with a specific non-psychological cause, concrete/practical solutions are always going to be more helpful than reassurance by strangers who can’t actually do anything in the way of addressing the root cause of the issue. I read a therapist state that most people’s (non-psychiatric, of course) ‘issues’ would be solved if they had more money and I have to agree with that. Even in those circumstances where the financial difficulties are part of a deeper thread of psychological issues it’s usually way beyond the purview and scope of what those call centre people can provide because they really don’t do anything other than give you a few links about how to cope with loneliness and stress (which might have some benefit but for people with deeper-rooted issues do very little indeed).
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I’ve kind of changed my mind about Shout. They do a cracking job with what they can a good chunk of the time and sometimes it’s just easier being able to talk to someone who doesn’t already know them, people find. I guess it’ll depend on what you need exactly. I have a lot of low-key qualms with them but some volunteers are more helpful than others. And the ones who are helpful can give good advice to people. Especially ones who aren’t in crisis and just need to sit through things with someone on the other end who’s a bit more impersonal. How seriously they actually take confidentiality I don’t know but they don’t know the people they talk to and vice-versa so that just adds a layer of anonymity that can’t be taken away or violated by some gossip.
There are people who have worked for the NHS who have breached confidentiality in other spaces so it’s not a guarantee that anyone’s going to take your privacy as seriously as you’d want them to but with Shout being the way it is by its very nature that just give people texting in a bit of protection, and that can make it easier to put a bit of trust in them for a minute. I definitely wouldn’t be quick to recommend it for someone who’s in more acute crisis (that’s part of the thing) but if you need to clock in every now and then just to talk about stuff, that’s perfectly allowed. Some people get met with a brick wall if they text in more than just the once or twice a week for a while by an automated text that basically tells people to go away, reflect even more and call 999 if they’re in an emergency though and that can put people off and discourage them. It can take a lot of courage to text in in the first place so when you’re told that they’re not actually there for people 24/7 in the way they say they are, that can do people damage and increase anxiety. It’s good to have a bit more of a realistic understanding and awareness of da peeps you gonna talk to so it helps to show a bit of that rather than going strictly by the generic script. You don’t do that and expect everyone to feel comfortable or that they’re actually, genuinely being listened to. You might not be fully in the loop but there’s a way to get in it to the extent that’s necessary to make someone feel genuinely heard. |
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I know a couple of people who have had their financial problems saved by Step Change .. One guy was in an extremely bad situation and it was effecting his mental state .. he had a huge debt ( credit cards) and he’s still paying them a TINY amount each month to this day ( it must be over 10 years already ) They never hassle him about anything .. https://www.stepchange.org/ Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro |
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I don’t know any real specifics apart from they are a non profit charitable organisation and one of the guys owed many thousands and still just pays £10 month .. the debt decreases slowly but they never add interest.. I have no idea how they are funded but they seem like angels from heaven in this cut throat society Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro |
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Why’s it called Shout anyhoo?
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As an addendum to what I said back when this thread was posted: I am quite glad that services like this exist, because actual official "Crisis" phone services can be absolutely SHOCKING. Really, really terrible. I thankfully haven't had cause to use them myself but some of the accounts I've heard are harrowing, and it's from too many people (and too high a proportion of people who have used them) to be exaggerated. I genuinely think they on some occasions cause people more psychological harm than good.
The charity/3rd sector based phone lines might not be hugely effective all the time but I at least very seldom hear about them being actively harmful. |
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As for Samaritans? They’re generally of a higher quality than other crisis lines but they’re not immune to hanging up the ’phone on people in crisis. That has happened with people here-and-there. Like you say it’s pot-luck whether you get connected to someone who’s genuinely useful or not. There’s always going to be a crap robot in the fray somewhere and if you’re unlucky, that’s who’ll pick up the ’phone on you. |
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I've never used it, so I don't know what it's like in execution.
But I don't believe that it's a bad idea as a concept. |
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