[Livia]

That's very sweet but it would be foolish in my opinion. When my first husband died I wanted to die too. It was knowing that my family would have to cope with that, and knowing the raw, hopeless, endless feeling of having lost someone you love, I didn't want them to go through it. And it took me a good few years to feel in a normal way, to stop feeling guilty if I smiled, or if I was having fun without him. But like everyone knows, time is the best healer... and now I have a new life, and a new husband... Of course, if they both felt this is really what they want, that's up to them. But it will be harder on their kids x2.