[Marmalite]

I just think she's just gone through life never having to bother about the consequences of her actions or her attitude and therefore has no idea that what she says or does can have a big affect on those around her or her life in the future.

She messed up in school, doesn't care about furthering her education and has never had a decent job or a job she's managed to keep. My feeling is she's never had to take responsibility for anything... ever, which has resulted in why she is like she now. When she does get questioned or pulled up for anything then she just does the reverse phycology or half-hearted sorry and it all gets forgiven and forgotten. It's always worked for her in the past and it will probably always work for her in the future.

A good case of tough love by her parents and everyone else would sort this out pretty quickly!