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Originally Posted by Ammi
..I didn't understand that bit Sheriff..?...but the reason I said in my first post that people had the choice to act on attraction is also because the question was 'would you have an affair'..and that's generally people's perception of an affair but I do know 'being unfaithful' is defined by the individual couple's boundaries....I also think that people see things based on their own experience or the experience of people around them who they have seen hurt by such things, so I think my opinions are quite common...
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you make it sound like having an affair is black and white, its not, people stay in unhappy relationships all the time, and they test the water!,
people don't tend to jump out of one relationship into another its a lot slower.
affairs happen for different reasons and start in different ways.