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Old 10-10-2013, 12:49 PM #13
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Aww Vicky!

I second your posts and those of Verbal in here. I've had very strong attractions in my life to people who wouldn't be considered conventionally good looking or stand out, which tbh is the majority of the population, I'm happy to be ordinary/average looking myself, I know it's trite and cliched, but I genuinely believe it's what's inside the counts.

Also another cliche - beauty is in the eye of the beholder - is pretty much something I live by. If I get to know someone and am attracted by their personality then I'll find them attractive anyway. A so called 'stunner' or 'hunk' will completely leave me cold if there's no substance. Which there so often isn't cos as Vicky said, they just get by in life on their looks, everything comes easy to those fortunate enough to be 'good looking'.

True story. I remember when I was at college and myself and this other girl both liked the same lad. We all used to socialise together on Friday's at a pub. She was blonde, big blue eyes, very pretty, very girly. She'd get a 10! Lol. I was a 4, 5 on a good hair day

Anyway he asked me to go the pics one night and I swear to God she just could not take it in. She actually asked him why? (She was up herself). His answer was this... Because she's nice. I went out with him for nearly a year. Whenever I despair of the shallowness of people these days (shallowness isn't a word is it??) I think of that and it restores my faith just a little bit.
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