Don't really see the comparisons. Jale is acting as if Chris knifed her in the back by not telling her he was the PHM when she knows full well the PHM was not allowed to say. She also went on about how awful if was for her to have to keep his secret, firstly he didn't entrust her with the secret, some random over the wall did and secondly she had been expressly told in the DR to keep it zipped.
With Danielle they were having a conversation, there was no agreement between either of them not to relay what the other one had said, and I'm pretty sure Chris is well aware that any conversation he might have with most people in the house will not remain private especially if he complains the other HMs are boring him
