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I'm not forgetting it at all? My point was that because of the way she'd reacted previously to conversations like that you'd have thought it would be her reacting again, not Matthew...

Actually what he said was 'and that's why I'm not playing' straight after Jale answered a question quite happily, he piped up for no reason to throw an unnecessary dig in. If he'd have just kept quiet or walked off then Helen wouldn't have said anything. Her reaction was unnecessary, but so was his initial comment.