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Originally Posted by DemolitionRed
If I ever found out that my man had, had an affair or even a one night fling, I could never trust him again and when trust has gone, so has the relationship.
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That's the thing isn't it. Maybe some people can get past it and that's up to them but surely deep down you have to wonder every single time they are somewhere else you don't know if they are up to the same old tricks.
How can you know for sure if someone is indeed truly sorry for what they have done and is it worth all the mental torture that it will put you through?
I don't envy people in long term relationships who have to make that decision, especially if there's kids and friends of the both of you involved.