inthefade ive just read your post and do you know I totally agree with what youve just said there as you pointed out why blame the site for when the parents should watch what their children are going on the internet at certain ages now for inststance my sister wont allow her children to have a pc in their rooms its downstairs so she can keep an eye on them but there is children out there that have a pc in their rooms where mums dont know what they are doing so well thought of there inthefade