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View Poll Results: Is an 18-year-old truly an adult (in your eyes anyway)? | ||||||
With what life experience? No, no and no. | 4 | 28.57% | ||||
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Teenagers might essentially be kids but I don’t think 18’s too young. Is what it is | 0 | 0% | ||||
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I do think at 18 you’re grown enough to be considered an all-round adult. | 3 | 21.43% | ||||
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Maybe (barely) but it’s all about stages. 18 isn’t 25 and 25 isn’t 40 (and so on). | 4 | 28.57% | ||||
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Individual maturity levels factor in more to me. | 3 | 21.43% | ||||
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Everyone’s a kid to someone but 18’s old enough. Just not in a house full of adult-adults | 0 | 0% | ||||
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03-11-2023, 03:01 PM | #1 | |||
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Big Brother ain’t going to turn away anyone 18+ if they do make it through the audition but the whole thing with Hallie struggling to fit in just got me thinking about this whole long-standing debate of whether you’re really developed and mature enough at 18 to be rightly considered anything more than a legal teenager or not. So here I am belting out another one of these threads.
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03-11-2023, 03:05 PM | #2 | |||
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03-11-2023, 03:07 PM | #3 | |||
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03-11-2023, 03:11 PM | #4 | |||
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ABSOLUTELY NOT
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03-11-2023, 03:22 PM | #5 | |||
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Yeah, kinda. Pretty much. 18’s legal and rightly so (if you’re of an age where you can go to uni you should have some rights anyway) but adolescence peaks and rounds off from 21 - 25 and you get more life experience with every passing year. Grow on it. At an age where you’re just starting off you’re too young to really know much of anything about anything that requires you to sort of stand on your own two feet, as smart and intellectually advanced as you might be (there’s a difference between having a high IQ and being street-savvy). It’s an arbitrary age is 18 and it’s in the thick of mid.-late puberty. You’re just old enough to go to uni and buy your own alcohol. You still have the brain of a kid.
Millennial and early Gen.-Z teens seemed to grow up a lot quicker though. I know they say with each passing generation that kids know more and more but the worst thing modern teenagers do is vape. They’re not allowed or encouraged to have the same vices (being able to buy ciggie-smokes at 16, tapping into the still-available opportunity to have a half-pint or snakebite in the pub at 16/17 so long as someone fully legal is there, being able to leave formal education at 16 should they choose to do so) so they’re kept infantilised and baby-ish.
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03-11-2023, 03:22 PM | #6 | |||
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03-11-2023, 03:28 PM | #7 | |||
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This weird need some people have to infantilise people into their adulthood is getting ridiculous, once you’re 18, you’re an adult, that’s just the basic fact, they’re not semi-adults, they’re not adults on training wheels, they’re adults, fully responsible for themselves by law, free to make all their own decisions, be who they want to be and do whatever they want to do with only the law as restrictions, it’s quite sad to see people willing to hold adults back and try and keep them mentally dependent
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03-11-2023, 03:36 PM | #8 | |||
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03-11-2023, 03:42 PM | #9 | ||
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Some 18 year olds, even 16 year olds talk more sense in my view than those many decades older. |
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03-11-2023, 03:46 PM | #10 | ||
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It depends on the individual and also on what life experiences they have had.
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03-11-2023, 04:02 PM | #11 | |||
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03-11-2023, 04:06 PM | #12 | |||
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Yes legally you are, ok you're still young . But also I don't like how people try to make excuses with " oh they're only 18" ie like with Hallie. But also 18 year olds might still act immature as they're still learning in life .
How many of us thought exactly the same way when we were 18 as we do now ? . I know for a fact as you get older ...you gain more life experiences,and you get wiser , obviously everyone is different though. Some people are already mature for their age . But overall out brain development changes when we reach our 20's . |
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03-11-2023, 04:08 PM | #13 | |||
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03-11-2023, 04:26 PM | #14 | |||
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03-11-2023, 04:30 PM | #15 | |||
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I was still watching kids TV at 18, so I'd say no.
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03-11-2023, 04:35 PM | #16 | |||
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Lots of people have tap into memory lane and revisit childhood TV shows to be fair (lockdown was a lot of people’s cue to do that) so that’s actually neither here nor there. But when you’re 18 (whether you’re in college, doing your A-Levels, a uni. noob or just an 18-year-old trying to navigate through life) you’re just not grown and that’s as much of a fact as it is that 18’s legal. You can’t even buy booze in America until you’re 21.
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03-11-2023, 04:38 PM | #17 | |||
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I didn't feel as if I had truly grew up until I was 40 which was last year. |
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03-11-2023, 04:41 PM | #18 | |||
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I’d dash you at least young adult at 21 anyway. These days 18-20-year-olds are essentially legal young-uns. Very young.
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03-11-2023, 04:46 PM | #19 | |||
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03-11-2023, 04:50 PM | #20 | |||
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Lol. I haven’t been “clean-shaven” since I was about 17 and a half (a ’tache started growing above my lips from 15 anyway) but that was partly because I had sensitive skin (still do) and all shaving was doing was giving me huge razor-bumps, so it wasn’t worth it. It helped that the facial hair helped make me pass for a bit older but that wasn’t the primary reason for me growing it out, just a bonus. People like me aren’t supposed to shave extensively. I just shave my throat and leave the rest to the barber when I go in for a trim/shape-up. I got one or two looks from some disapproving aunties who thought I was just some teenager trying to make a rebellious fashion-statement but it wasn’t even like that. It was just better for my health that I didn’t shave too much. I didn’t fancy looking young either, true, but it wasn’t just about that. The goatee had no reason to be cut out.
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03-11-2023, 05:10 PM | #21 | |||
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At 16 to 18 you’re far from fully developed but you’re not actually a child. I say kid but I say that colloquially, not literally. A lot of people see it literally and expect people to still almost believe in the tooth fairy until the day they turn 18, as if they’ve never experienced what it’s like to actually be a teenager.
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03-11-2023, 05:17 PM | #22 | |||
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I see your side of things although I don’t think my old mum would She was working long hours , 6 days a week in a cotton factory at 12 years of age Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Pro |
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03-11-2023, 06:03 PM | #23 | ||
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03-11-2023, 06:11 PM | #24 | |||
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I literal terms yes however I think 21 is a more sensible age to consider someone an actual adult - whilse still treating them like an adult from 18. I think that second part is vital TBH, because part of the reason I'd say 21 for measuring someone by the standards of a "full adult" is that they have been, for want of a better term, then been "living as an adult" for 3 years so they are an adult with ... experience of adulting.
Expecting someone to suddenly at 18 have the adult life experience to make reasonable adult decisions is insane. How? With what knowledge base? BUT you have to keep 18 as the legal adult age, so they people DO get that experience of "somewhere between teen and adult" before they get into their early 20's... at which point it's then reasonable to expect people to stop acting like teenagers. Otherwise you just end up with 20 year old teenagers, and "proper adulting" beginning at 24, and so on and so on. FWIW if we're talking about in the context of Big Brother and other similar reality shows (Love Island et al) - I do think it should be 21 to apply. |
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03-11-2023, 06:20 PM | #25 | |||
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Yes SB.
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