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17-07-2018, 04:00 PM | #26 | |||
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No they shouldn't face criminal charges for what their child does at School.
However I'd consider letting the School fine the parents if their child is constantly in trouble, it might make the parents teach their child right from wrong if they're being hit financially by their child's bullying antics.
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17-07-2018, 04:06 PM | #27 | |||
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17-07-2018, 04:12 PM | #28 | |||
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If they've got a child who's constantly bullying kids (and I mean about 10 separate cases of bullying) then the parents (as well as the Teachers) have not done their jobs to make sure that the kid isn't a psycho and as it's very hard to punish the School, the only people that can be hit financially is the parents.
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17-07-2018, 04:45 PM | #29 | |||
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17-07-2018, 05:50 PM | #30 | |||
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Not being an actual psycho, but the child displaying characteristics of a psycho all because they have no discipline put on them by the parents or the Teachers.
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17-07-2018, 05:54 PM | #31 | ||
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17-07-2018, 06:13 PM | #32 | ||
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But children believe it or not are actually humans with minds of their own completely separate to their parents. Especially teens, which is when the worst bullying occurs. There are all sorts of circumstances that can lead to it. |
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17-07-2018, 06:15 PM | #33 | |||
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17-07-2018, 07:11 PM | #34 | |||
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For me I'm thinking of children who think it's okay to beat kids up because of how they look or what they might like, or the bully doesn't like what the child is wearing, and I am thinking of cases where bullies have been so awful that the victim wants to kill themselves because they can't bare the treatment any longer, if a child is making another child feel like that then the parents have to take responsibility for that as it's not like these incidences are normal for a child to display.
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17-07-2018, 07:15 PM | #35 | ||
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17-07-2018, 07:22 PM | #36 | |||
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Also a child misbehaving is not necessarily the fault of the parents. I was just pointing out that a fine wont have the same effect on all families. Last edited by armand.kay; 17-07-2018 at 07:23 PM. |
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17-07-2018, 07:27 PM | #37 | |||
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17-07-2018, 07:28 PM | #38 | |||
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17-07-2018, 07:56 PM | #39 | |||
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Again though, it isn't always the parents' fault, so it's complicated. Last edited by Ashley.; 17-07-2018 at 07:57 PM. |
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17-07-2018, 08:04 PM | #40 | ||
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I do think parents should take responsibility for their own kids, however there is only so much parents can actually do it they have a little shit. And yes, sometimes little shits come randomly, regardless of upbringing. I do think there could maybe be sanctions for parents who seem to not give a crap even when the schools tells them that their little cherub is a little shit though, but an unsure of quite how that would work as its obviously case by case... I have heard far too many tales of schools being informed of bullying and doing nothing though. Which is clearly very wrong.
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17-07-2018, 08:08 PM | #41 | |||
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Every parent reading this be like... if we could be charged for every wrong our child does, oh God.
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17-07-2018, 08:09 PM | #42 | ||
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'The law, in its majestic equality, forbids the rich as well as the poor to sleep under bridges, to beg in the streets, and to steal bread.'
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17-07-2018, 08:36 PM | #43 | |||
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With bullying, I think it would be difficult to tailor a system that is objective enough for what it's meant to dissolve. It may just cause those children being excluded even more hardship in it's interpretation, just because it limits the tools of the bullies. So it will just lead to further pervasive bullying by exclusion, etc, which is far worse... than if folk have a fight and then "work it out after". It's not like they can "compell" students to interact with one another in a friendly manner that isn't purposeful. It may actually worsen the situation for the student and make the bullying more deeply ingrained into the culture of the school... kind of like how it works at internet forums that have really heavy moderation, there is a lot of "exclusionary" behavior(s), etc to such a degree. Truancy is a bit different, it's pretty black and white when someone doesn't show up to their classes or are caught down the road by a Constable eating a hamburger at Burger King. |
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17-07-2018, 08:40 PM | #44 | ||
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I don't see what this has to do with parents tbh. Unless we are talking like 10 year old kids who are deposited in school and thats that, or schools with large high fences all around so the kids literally have no freedom at all and thus cannot leave after a parent brings them in I do not think truancy is black and white at all, again especially when it comes to teens..and is something else that a parent may be responsible for but most likely is not. So yeah, I disagree 100% that truancy is black and white.
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17-07-2018, 09:11 PM | #45 | |||
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However, when I said truancy is 100% black and white, I meant it in the sense that they would know for sure yes, their precious angel skipped school.. We caught 'em... it's absolutely clear in those instances whether or not trauncy has actually occurred and if there was any reasoning to justify it. With bullying, it's not necessarily immediately clear if the situation is/was a result of bullying or not. Sometimes things escalate, the fact of a child behaving like a child for one, that maybe what happens instead is that two kids don't get along, not necessarily that it is a case of bullying in the most generic sense. I think even with clearest of guidelines, it would probably just add more headaches for families of kids who are just going through the process of growing up... Last edited by Maru; 17-07-2018 at 09:12 PM. |
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17-07-2018, 09:28 PM | #46 | ||
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Ahhh right, yeah of course thats what you meant by the black and white thing My brain seems to be working very slow today
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