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17-06-2019, 09:49 AM | #76 | |||
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17-06-2019, 09:53 AM | #77 | |||
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..it also happens less in the reverse for instance...if a woman were to touch a man with familiarity and intimacy ...and then if anything non consensual was attempted etc..?...did she not ‘lead him to misconstrue..’...it really is very difficult for a woman in some situations but the focus is taken back to ‘difficult for men’...it would be nice to address a woman’s perspective without deviating and digressing...
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17-06-2019, 10:36 AM | #78 | ||
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I've been groped in clubs. I've thought "ffs go away!" on more than one occasion. I have literally never experienced fear or anxiety because of it because realistically, an adult male is not at anywhere near the level of real risk. What really got me thinking about this was something that happened pretty recently. My wife was on a train back from London on her own that got into Glasgow at 11pm. On the final leg of her journey, there was a table of guys in their mid-20's drinking (probably heading for the clubs) who started trying to talk to her / chat her up / telling her she should come out with them / started getting a bit "jeering" when she politely said no thankyou... and she had to move train carriages / was on the phone to me genuinely scared about being harassed or followed when she got off the train. And she is NOT someone who is easily intimidated. And that got me thinking. Because I've again been in similar situations with groups of drunk women on trains talking to me, and yes there have been times when it's been irritating / unwanted, but again, I have never felt scared or intimidated in that situation for even a second. Because realistically, I'm not at risk. And it's not even that this group of lads is LIKELY to have decided to attack her but the point is that it does happen, it could happen, there is a realistic risk, and they were being blissfully unaware of that in deliberately making her uncomfortable OR even in just not bothering to take care to make sure people around them WEREN'T uncomfortable. Another fairly recent example was a group of teenage girls asking if they could sit with me at the bus stop late at night (again something like 11pm) in town while I was waiting for the bus after work, because there was drunk middle aged man at the other stance trying to talk to them and generally being a weirdo, again probably not realising he was intimidating them but they were genuinely scared. AGAIN not something I ever experienced... having to feel anxious while just trying to wait for a bus . Anyway just a few things that helped me to realise that there are some massive differences in these everyday experiences for men and women and it's easy for men to saunter through blissfully unaware of these scenarios or declaring very valid fears as "unrealistic" or "over the top". Last edited by Toy Soldier; 17-06-2019 at 10:37 AM. |
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17-06-2019, 10:55 AM | #79 | |||
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whereas as you say...many men will never experience ...and it’s something that really does need addressing in society...and women will be often judged by other women also as a knee jerk ‘in the wrong’ without all facts being known etc...anyways, you obviously were a ‘safety’ to those young girls and that’s lovely and very much needed.....and you have daughters so you will give these things the much thought needed... |
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17-06-2019, 10:57 AM | #80 | |||
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thats grand TS and it dawns on most men that women will feel far more intimidated in certain situations as you describe but that has got diddly squat to do with this farcical situation - what is does relate to is:
I am amazed that no one has mentioned the man (the partner of the accuser?) who gyrates his cock in front of the accused GF - a much more aggressive and intimidating action?? Last edited by LeatherTrumpet; 17-06-2019 at 10:57 AM. |
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17-06-2019, 11:10 AM | #81 | ||
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The woman's boyfriend and 2 of his mates surround Cuba ,he must have felt very intimidated ,the more I watch the video the more convinced this was all planned
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17-06-2019, 11:10 AM | #82 | |||
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17-06-2019, 11:37 AM | #83 | ||
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To be clear it doesn't look like anyone in this situation was exactly at their most admirable but literally NONE of that cancels out the fact that there's a valid discussion to be had about people keeping their hands to themselves. An awful lot of "but, but, but". |
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17-06-2019, 11:43 AM | #84 | |||
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...whatever anyone else was doing...none of it takes away from the fact that Cuba has been accused of something because of his own actions, no one else’s...
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17-06-2019, 12:29 PM | #85 | |||
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If some guy who he/she does not find attractive its creepy Its also very very country specific and an Indian man would see touching in a totally different light and that is just beween 2 men. i mean look at this: https://www.aol.co.uk/living/2016/08...806bvQkgNLuxd5 grey lines |
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17-06-2019, 01:44 PM | #86 | |||
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