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Old 08-01-2023, 09:13 PM #1
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Completely devastated.

Something terrible happened today.

First my Brother, now my Mother.

It's too much.
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My Mother passed away today.
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Oh buddy, i am so deeply sorry!!

How can i help? How can i be there for you?
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Oh Cald, I am so sorry for your loss. I've been there and know how completely devastated you must be. Are you with your family?
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Really sorry to hear that. LT recently lost his mother so he might be a good person to have a chat with in pm.

Honestly, don't know what to say, as nothing that is said can take away the pain, even for a second.
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Aw I'm so sorry!
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I don't know...

I am just crying.

This is worse than when my Brother went.
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Clad, would a voice call help, you can vent and cry, i would just listen, and be there?

Please don't go through this alone. You're such a brilliant person.
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Oh Cald, I am so sorry for your loss. I've been there and know how completely devastated you must be. Are you with your family?
I am with my father and my oldest brother.
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Wow Caldy i am really sorry to hear this news
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I don't know...

I am just crying.
I lost my mum in jan 2021 it’s truly heartbreaking
Just let it all out mate
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I am with my father and my oldest brother.
Be with them, stay with them. We're always here too. Don't go through this alone. I am so sorry buddy!
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My condolences to you and your family Cald.

I haven't gone through losing my mother yet but I know it's something that I and most of us will have to go through at some point in our lives, and it's not something I'm looking forward to.

I lost my best mate to tragic circumstances 8 years ago and that tore out a piece of my life from my body and was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with.

I'm not good with advice, but I'll just say, do your mourning, try to stay strong and never forget. As much as the present is the hard time, time is a healer.

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oh Caldy I am so sorry, was she ill or was this very sudden

Losing a parent is really tough, thinking of you xx
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Every single person on this forum is here for you. I know we're all bloody loons at times. But we do have a family on here. And you are such a nice bloke.

We are ALL here for mate.
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oh Caldy I am so sorry, was she ill or was this very sudden

Losing a parent is really tough, thinking of you xx
Alzheimers.

Along with elilepsy, which comes with it.

She had medications for both.

Me and my father took care of her in our home for these past almost 8 years.

We knew it was coming, but it still happened so sudden.
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Alzheimers.

Along with elilepsy, which comes with it.

She had medications for both.

Me and my father took care of her in our home for these past almost 8 years.
like my father, its not good but its what we have to do. No one can prepare you
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Condolences.

And true.
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Alzheimers.

Along with elilepsy, which comes with it.

She had medications for both.

Me and my father took care of her in our home for these past almost 8 years.

We knew it was coming, but it still happened so sudden.

Oh Caldy that is so tough, especially when it was so sudden, you know we are here for you, pm or on the forum, any time x
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