[Jords]

After some tension between them over the last day or so, Sunshine and Ben have decided that it is time for the two of them to sit down and work through their issues.

The two of them have been talking for around 30 minutes now and there is a definite back and forth feel to the conversation.

Sunshine got the ball rolling by saying that she felt Ben had been insensitive to the fact she had been upset over the last few days.

Ben replied by telling her that she never respects other people's opinions and that she can be very narrow minded at times.

Sunshine hit back by saying Ben takes pleasure in pointing out everybody's flaws

Things then got a bit silly when Ben started laying into Sunshine's constant singing around the house and called her an 'X-Factor wannabe'.

Only time will tell whether this conversation will prove to be a turning point for the better in their friendship or if these home truths will damage their relationship beyond repair!

http://www.channel4.com/bigbrother/a...it-out/view.c4

Nooooo! I really love these two, however I do think Ben might look down his nose at times, like when he suggested Shabby was acting (although I think he was right there). He tried bitching with Sunshine about Govan yesturday and she explained that she just wanted to have fun on her possible last day, so maybe he tried doing it again and that is why this started?

Hope they make up!

[GabrielleisLove]

Originally Posted by Jords

Nooooo! I really love these two, however I do think Ben might look down his nose at times, like when he suggested Shabby was acting (although I think he was right there). He tried bitching with Sunshine about Govan yesturday and she explained that she just wanted to have fun on her possible last day, so maybe he tried doing it again and that is why this started?

Hope they make up!

Ben is not a very good friend to Sunshine anyway, having nominated her. I can't help but to have become a bit disenchanted with him as of late-- with his comments about women. I am starting to dislike him, and it's a shame too because he was starting to win me over.

[Deanjam]

If Sunshine was an X-Factor wannabee, then she'd be on X-Factor. It's not like they're picky. It couldn't be *gosh!* that she just likes to sing! Like millions of ordinary people do around the house?

If Ben said that, then he's being a tart.

[Jords]

Originally Posted by GabrielleisLove

Ben is not a very good friend to Sunshine anyway, having nominated her. I can't help but to have become a bit disenchanted with him as of late-- with his comments about women. I am starting to dislike him, and it's a shame too because he was starting to win me over.

Yeah that is true, but I think he might have nominated Sunshine as he knew she would be up and he'd feel less responsible getting somebody else up kinda thing? Wouldnt nominate a friend myself whatever the case though.


Exactly Deanjam, I hate how housemates cant do anything without being accused of having a motive all the time, sometimes its fair others just daft.

[bettiepage]

Ben obviously doesn't really like her. he nominated her for God sake, and probably will next week.

[starry]

BEN was the one having a spat, he is the one who keeps wanting to talk to her (to score points as Sunshine stated at the start). Sunshine just wanted to keep away from him.

[Beastie]

Ben wants to be the only quirky one left in the house. Maybe even the centre of attention.

[bbfan1991]

I do like Ben but he and the male Coven he has formed is just as bitchy as the females...

Sunshine is annoying and is attention seeking although she has calmed that down a bit. Maybe he is upset that Sunshine is spending time with ohter housemates instead of him JJ and Dave?.

[Chels]

**** you Sunshine. I can see Benji's point. She's always me me me me me.

[Lostie!]

I'm slowly going off Ben. He bitches about bitching, and covers himself by saying "I'm not bitching, I don't do that"

I'm glad Sunshine made it clear that she doesn't want to be involved in it last night.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by GabrielleisLove

Ben is not a very good friend to Sunshine anyway, having nominated her. I can't help but to have become a bit disenchanted with him as of late-- with his comments about women. I am starting to dislike him, and it's a shame too because he was starting to win me over.

he has nothing against women!!! You'll find it's the witches coven(washerwomwen) type that annoy him,and rightly so.

[Jordan.]

I think Ben is two faced when it comes to Sunshine, He nominated her but yesterday was saying he'll miss her if she goes :////

[GabrielleisLove]

Originally Posted by kazanne

he has nothing against women!!! You'll find it's the witches coven(washerwomwen) type that annoy him,and rightly so.

Aye, so as long as a woman doesn't adhere to the "witch" type, she's in the clear with Ben. I see your point, but I still feel his comments were in bad taste.

[doive1231]

Ben is showing the classic signs of male disillusionment with women when they become too narcissistic and end up being cold and distant towards men.