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26-04-2011, 05:26 PM | #51 | |||
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26-04-2011, 05:28 PM | #52 | |||
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If they are, I don't really see a reason why not...I just personally probably wouldn't because I have extremely neurotic friends.
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26-04-2011, 05:29 PM | #53 | ||
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26-04-2011, 05:35 PM | #54 | |||
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Even if I was over it though, as in, I no longer felt any emotional attachment to the ex, I still wouldn't be fine with it. I just couldn't hang out with that friend while the ex was there, for example, seeing them acting like a couple when that had been me with them previously; it'd be like watching Mean Girls in real life . If they ended up being together for life, then that's great for them, but I'd never get over that initial betrayal of friendship. I value my friends a lot.
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26-04-2011, 05:40 PM | #55 | ||
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26-04-2011, 06:18 PM | #56 | |||
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the point of Mean Girls greg was that they were emotionally insecure teenage girls... this shouldn't be the case as adults. I just think it's a bit arbitrary to treat things as irrationally taboo. Of course if the split ended not-so-amicably, and you hated the ex, and didn't want to see them again, I can understand - but you can't end things, be emotionally detached, and still hold some kind of upper hand.
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26-04-2011, 06:43 PM | #57 | |||
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26-04-2011, 08:47 PM | #58 | |||
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I agree
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26-04-2011, 08:51 PM | #59 | |||
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i thinks its fine i they are like in love but if its just like a easy shag then its disrespectful.
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26-04-2011, 08:54 PM | #60 | |||
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26-04-2011, 09:39 PM | #61 | |||
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I did in the past, they hadnt been going out long so it wasn't too difficult.
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26-04-2011, 10:11 PM | #62 | ||
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Depends how hard they (the friend) took the break-up and how long they've been broken up
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26-04-2011, 11:55 PM | #63 | |||
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well obviously it depends on the people involved and whether or not theyre bothered by it. Some will be more bothered than others. Obviously a lot depends on how the relationship ended and whether theres still resentment or jealousy issues etc.
But some people can move on and not really care who there ex is with even if its their BF. Indeed, some will even be happy for them and think theyre maybe a better match. So there's no definite answer. In principal it should be fine because theyre free agents and you can find love anywhere. Just because they were not right for you doesnt mean theyre not right for your friend. |
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27-04-2011, 12:10 AM | #64 | |||
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There is a difference between having sex with their ex partner and being in love with them though.
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27-04-2011, 12:12 AM | #65 | |||
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Well it all the depends on the friend and the ex, and whether your friend is ok with it. I'd feel weird personally but you can't say no for every single relationship.
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27-04-2011, 03:45 PM | #66 | ||
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27-04-2011, 03:56 PM | #67 | |||
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I still dont think its right.
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27-04-2011, 04:00 PM | #68 | |||
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You can't help who you fall in love with.
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27-04-2011, 04:02 PM | #69 | |||
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I believe you can. If you don't start something with someone then you won't fall in love.
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27-04-2011, 04:17 PM | #70 | |||
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But if it was your best friends ex, you would have got to know them at some point. I don't think it's a nice thing to happen, but if you are not together with that person then it's called life, things obviously didn't work for a reason between them.
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27-04-2011, 04:36 PM | #71 | |||
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27-04-2011, 06:43 PM | #72 | |||
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I would never regret not ruining a friendship
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27-04-2011, 07:53 PM | #73 | ||
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When my friends and I met, we became a strong group of alpha males and we all agreed that no hoe will ever compromise our friendship between the 7 of us.
That happened once. We kicked the bitch and that mother****er out once in for all. Fine if they're happy, but ain't nobody going to come and fuck with the peace. Both of them regret it badly as their relationship didn't last long afterwards but it's too late. Our male friend screwed with us and he learnt the hard way that no one should mess with us. We are not 14 y-o bitches to argue over somebody. We all have girlfriends but once a relationship is finished, we listen to what our friend had to say because "bros before hoes". Always. No matter what.
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28-04-2011, 01:10 AM | #74 | ||
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28-04-2011, 03:20 AM | #75 | |||
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It's always sad when your friend's relationship ends, but I think for me, on the basis that you got to know them through your friend, you should therefore steer clear of them post break-up. If anything, there's the worry that they just want to use you to get back with the friend. If they break up and the ex disappears out of everyone's conscience and you suddenly bump into them a couple of years later and you really hit it off - I don't think it would be held against you, but entering into a relationship with your friend's ex before your friend has had time to move on to someone new, I think that's what I take issue with. It really does depend on each individual case, there are so many hypothetical situations to consider.
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