[Kazanne]

Unforgiving with certain people , but forgiving for something trivial, I don't hate easily,but when I do it's with a passion.

[Eddie.]

Originally Posted by reece(:

I can forgive but not forget

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[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Mock still not forgiven his mum for taking a nap instead of putting the tea on?

At the time tbf she would tell me not to do the Food myself, nowadays I just ignore her and do it anyway.

But na over the last couple of years I've seen some really unforgivable things from people imo which is why I opened this thread.

[Nicky91]

i never really hold grudges on anyone

[Morgan.]

I need to know that hey have genuine intentions and aren't gonna spout the same **** again if I'm to forgive.

[Niamh.]

Totally depends on what it was and who it involved

[LeatherTrumpet]

I had a South African pal who had a big grudge


mind you, he had a big car

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

You see I was having this debate earlier with one of my friends who basically believes that people shouldn't hold grudges over issues from ages ago, and I personally believe that if someone does something really disgraceful against you that you have every right to hold a grudge against the person for how long it takes for you to not be angry anymore.

Basically do you hold grudges or can you forgive even the most disgraceful mistreatment?

Poll will be coming shortly.

I could not agree more.

[ethanjames]

genuinely depends. i don't think i haven't not forgiven anybody so far i think everyone deserves a second chance

[-Sue-]

It really does depend what happened.. I would love to say I 'never forget' but as a woman we seldom do

I can be nice when I need to be and I can break out a sting in my tail when they push me too far

PS eg I could never forgive someone for 'cheating' but can forgive for petty arguments (long as I don't catch them sla*ging me off behind my back.. it's like come on have the ballz to say it to my face) lol

[-Sue-]

I guess I can forgive but I can NEVER forget...

[waterhog]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

I could not agree more.

when you hold onto hate - it destroys you. why do you think I love you kirky baby

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by waterhog

when you hold onto hate - it destroys you. why do you think I love you kirky baby

Kirk stood on his garden deck when all his foes were dead
"I'm Glad" he mused, "That I held onto hate
And hadn't forgiven instead"

I love you too Hog.