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Old 22-04-2018, 02:57 PM #1
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The misogyny in the comments is ****ing unbelievable.
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I feel sorry for these sadsacks who have clearly gotten into relationships with people who have screwed them over, and left them feeling so bitter towards all women. That's all really. When I see this guy sat there ranting about "women getting peoples houses boohoo make them sign a contract"... that's honestly all I think . "What a sad, sad little man".

When this happens, invariably any outside observer could have seen it coming; one partner in it for looks, the other for money. Both pretty hollow reasons to be with someone. And these days, it can just as easily be a woman with the cash and a gym-ripped younger guy. Either way, they bring it on themselves to be honest.
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Well it's youtube so... not really unbelievable.
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yeah youtube comments are horrible when it comes to women/gays/etc.

just toxic as ****
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Well it's youtube so... not really unbelievable.
True.
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Funny though because most of the time you imagine the men bleating in the comments are the ones who will never have this problem because they have nothing to offer a woman in the slightest.
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It makes sense from a man's point of view to want to create a contract when entering into a living situation with someone else. Especially from someone who is rich and especially famous...

Though I laughed pretty hard at 75 page contract. That is pretty awesome.

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It makes sense from a man's point of view to want to create a contract when entering into a living situation with someone else. Especially from someone who is rich and especially famous...

Though I laughed pretty hard at 75 page contract. That is pretty awesome.
That's just it. It makes sense from a rich and famous persons point of view if they allow such untrustworthy people into their life.

Got bugger all to do with gender however. That side of it is just misogynist rubbish imo. A famous woman is just as likely to get bottom feeders lurking around her too.

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I sympathize from both points of view.

I can sympathize with Cena for doing something like that, after seeing what happened to Hulk Hogan.

But I can see that it wouldn't make her feel very wanted or trusted, which is a bad kick off to a relationship.

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That's just it. It makes sense from a rich and famous persons point of view if they allow such untrustworthy people into their life.

Got bugger all to do with gender however. That side of it is just misogynist rubbish imo. A famous woman is just as likely to get bottom feeders lurking around her too.
It's sexist (not you, Marsh) to think that there aren't specific issues for men when it comes to dating, relationships and moving in together. Men face very specific pressures that aren't usually an issue for women.

I do think that contracts should be the norm for more people, because there is no one-size-fits all relationship model anymore... people have even stranger financial arrangements now. There are people who also share bank accounts, credit cards and finances/living expenses just to make it easier... and if they're not married, then a contract should be drafted in place of a marital contract... because otherwise, if it does end up in court, that's very difficult to clear up and it becomes a case of hearsay and he said/she said... and if prejudices are to get involved in the courts or the court of public opinion, then it sort of defends against that from ever becoming much of a problem.

I also notice that if someone is rich, particularly a man, as soon as they announce a major break up or divorce from a long-term relationship, mags and tabloids are like... "Oh, she's gonna clean up house"...

If they have a pre-nup, it tends to nip in that kind of bull**** in the bud. So all the articles of "Oh, she's gonna clean him out..."... they can't get away with writing that, and it does give trolls at one less reason to target the woman on social media... which I think, as far as the extremeness of it,is a bigger problem for females.

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I sympathize from both points of view.

I can sympathize with Cena for doing something like that, after seeing what happened to Hulk Hogan.

But I can see that it wouldn't make her feel very wanted or trusted, which is a bad kick off to a relationship.
Yeah, Hulk Hogan was put through the wringer. He did however manage to get Gawker put out of businessafter the fact... and they were pretty terrible for doxing people and enabling cyber abuse imo. So +1 for Hulk Hogan there... and I think preemptive for Cena to learn vicariously from that predicament.

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...’most women only see dollar signs’...if that’s what is felt about women then don’t have the relationship...if that’s the low opinion that’s held...’if a woman stays with you even for one night, charge her for the stay’...if that’s what is felt then don’t have a women stay then...there is a choice in that ...why would you have someone stay if some kind of ‘contract’ was felt necessary for ‘protection’...if protection of money is the forefront when you meet someone who you feel you could have a meaningful relationship with...then don’t have the relationship...


...I only watched the first half of the vid as it was such a downer on women, showed a really low opinion of females...I don’t know anything about this couple../...don’t follow celebrities or wrestling...but they had a 6 year relationship and they had intended to marry...she gave their relationship 6 years of her life, as he did...that surely isn’t a ‘using’ relationship...but genuine feelings that just haven’t worked out for whatever reasons...these things happen...but the view of her in this is just awful...that she’s some kind of ‘taker’ because he’s wealthy...it’s very unbalanced, the vid ...and just feels like a ‘woman hating’ thing...’make sure she cannot take anything from me when she goes, she was just a guest’...etc etc...well don’t have her in your life in the first place then if that’s how you feel, there is a choice in that...the choice to believe in someone and your mutual feelings...(...and didn’t she sign it anyway, so why the ‘women are awful’ rants....

....anyways, I agree with Marsh...this seems like a mo’ money, mo’ problems specific type thing...(..fitting in with the thread from TS..)...not a male specific thing...it could be a wealthy female just as easily...I just think, consider relationships more carefully if you feel such protection is needed for your wealth when entering that relationship...
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I think if some one was rich before you met you have no right to their money or property,
If you then have long term relationship in which you live together and you helped them incresas their wealth or had a child or children with them you should get some money based on that time together should you split up.

Men tend to rip woman off by lying and scamming
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Depending on the individual but for most of the time we enter into a relationship with our hearts it only when things go bad do we think with our heads.
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Depending on the individual but for most of the time we enter into a relationship with our hearts it only when things go bad do we think with our heads.
..that would be men then who enter a relationship with their hearts, sheriff..because ‘most women only see dollar signs’.....not some women, not a few women or specific individual women...but ‘most women’...it’s all about the dollar, baby...
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..that would be men then who enter a relationship with their hearts, sheriff..because ‘most women only see dollar signs’.....not some women, not a few women or specific individual women...but ‘most women’...it’s all about the dollar, baby...
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It's sexist (not you, Marsh) to think that there aren't specific issues for men when it comes to dating, relationships and moving in together. Men face very specific pressures that aren't usually an issue for women.
This isn't one of them.
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