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10-11-2013, 08:00 AM | #26 | |||
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she was quite thin and glamorous wasn't she?
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10-11-2013, 08:06 AM | #27 | ||
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tv and internet are filling young girls head's with its all about image, they are not giving a balanced point of view. your parents did not want you to watch the simpsons because they thought it was a bad influence, but you still watched it! you don't know what your daughter would be worried about, because like you she may get the information from someone else. |
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10-11-2013, 08:09 AM | #28 | |||
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..you mean Audrey Hepburn..?...yeah, that's what I mean, 'image' is not a new thing at all/it's just the internet that is new... |
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10-11-2013, 08:12 AM | #29 | ||
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10-11-2013, 08:15 AM | #30 | |||
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10-11-2013, 08:18 AM | #31 | |||
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But the point is, when my parents didn't let me watch the Simpsons, they explained it to me, they told me it's because it's about a boy who is misbehaved and who doesn't do well in school, and doesn't respect his teachers. so when i did actually watch the simpsons at my friends house, i saw exactly what they meant, and they were right, i should;'t want to be like Bart Simpson.
So even though i watched it at my friends house, at least my parents talked about it with me before hand, and i knew that bart simpson was a bad role model, and i shouldn't want to be like bart simpson. I was able to think about it, and realize that Bart is not a cool kid that i should emulate, he's just a comedy character on TV. this is in the early 90's i must say, i realize that now there is much more pressures on kids, but i'm just using an example from my childhood.
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10-11-2013, 08:23 AM | #32 | |||
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lol of course. this forum is 90% gay men and str8 women. so of course we all know Audrey.
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10-11-2013, 08:23 AM | #33 | |||
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Not too surprised Ammi as many people have been looking for validation online with sites such as hot or not and also when girls posts selfies on facebook, instagram their mood that day can be based on how many likes they obtain from that picture.
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10-11-2013, 08:23 AM | #34 | ||
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lets just say, its just another part of the messed up world we live in. |
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10-11-2013, 08:26 AM | #35 | ||
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10-11-2013, 08:27 AM | #36 | ||
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I had this debate with someone recently, who was adamant that advertising should be kept away from children at all costs. I argued that, if you do that, they will be naive and unaware when they encounter advertising as an adult. Its important that they DO see advertising, and that their first experiences of it involve discussion, because the only way to be immune to advertising (and any other subliminal messaging, such as the vanity issue of this thread) is to be completely aware of it and have the ability to view it critically. |
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10-11-2013, 08:45 AM | #37 | |||
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Since they going through puberty sexual attractiveness is probably the highest thing on the agenda for them and all their friends. Inner confidence and a developed personality will arrive later but at this age unfortunately it's all about the looks. Everything is traded on looks as the prettiest girls do get the first pick on just about everything. It shouldn't be like this and although to a large part it is human nature, things are not helped by the modern consumerist, voyeuristic society we now live in.
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10-11-2013, 08:51 AM | #38 | |||
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It's not just about girls anymore, men can be just as pre-occupied with their appearance.
Like I've said on here I suffer from a mental illness called Body Dysmorphic Disorder where I can't even leave the house most of the time because I'm so obsessed over my appearance. This mental illness is split right down the middle between genders. |
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10-11-2013, 09:08 AM | #39 | |||
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10-11-2013, 09:11 AM | #40 | |||
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10-11-2013, 09:15 AM | #41 | |||
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10-11-2013, 09:17 AM | #42 | |||
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Quite a harrowing song and video Alex it's actually got me welling up a bit.
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10-11-2013, 09:21 AM | #43 | |||
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Also worth noting that these girls are making a big mistake doing things like this. The internet is a great hiding place for mean spirited individuals who would quite happily say something to ruin one of these poor young girls life. And you know that they say, it takes 10 compliments to negate an insult. |
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10-11-2013, 09:26 AM | #44 | |||
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10-11-2013, 09:27 AM | #45 | |||
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What you were saying made me think of that song right away, one of my favorite songs. I thought you could relate to it. Sorry if it made you sad.
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10-11-2013, 09:31 AM | #46 | |||
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It's ok Alex, I meant it in a good way like I understand him completely. I've looked up the singer from that band and it looks like he had depression issues too. He sounds like he's body dysmorphic, talking about he can never see himself how others see him.
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10-11-2013, 09:35 AM | #47 | |||
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Adolescence is a major trigger for setting off point for appearance concerns I just hope some sadistic fu*cker doesn't set these poor young girls off on a perpetual spin of self destruction. I don't condone what these girls are doing, it's not good and maybe some are looking for attention but I can imagine some of them are just desperately seeking reassurance. |
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10-11-2013, 09:35 AM | #48 | |||
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hey, here's the other side of it. (sorry they took all of them off of youtube so i only have a vimeo link)
dedicated to you
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10-11-2013, 09:40 AM | #49 | |||
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10-11-2013, 09:42 AM | #50 | ||
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