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16-02-2012, 03:13 PM | #51 | ||
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I dont get hurt when people say/do things to me. But I do get very angry when people upset my family/gav
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16-02-2012, 03:16 PM | #52 | |||
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Although I guess that's empathy rather than conscience... interesting though. Either way, I think you'd probably make a good assassin LOL... a job I've always fancied myself.
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16-02-2012, 03:18 PM | #53 | |||
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16-02-2012, 03:21 PM | #54 | ||
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I'll keep an eye out on the jobcentre website for that one. pretty well paid too I would imagine
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16-02-2012, 03:27 PM | #55 | |||
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16-02-2012, 03:33 PM | #56 | |||
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16-02-2012, 03:36 PM | #57 | ||
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I scored 16 on the quiz thing...which I thought was bad, but according to the second link its not. I was probably overthinking the questions though
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16-02-2012, 03:46 PM | #58 | |||
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..ok...*feels embarrassed*...well, I have this 'hate' of people putting things on high shelves or on top of cupboards so that I can't see them properly or reach them easily...it's one of those silly things that makes my blood boil and that's not really rational...it's no big deal, is it?
Through cognative behaviour therapy I realise that this is because, when I was around two, my mum put a jug of boiling hot fat (she was purifying it) onto a high shelf, so that we couldn't reach it. My brother was not put off and dragged a table to stand on because he wanted to see what was in the jug. He still couldn't see in but he could reach it, so he tipped forward, I was standing on the floor below and he tipped boiling fat onto my arm. I don't actually remember this happening, I've just had the story retold, but the subconscious mind remembers everything..like a photographic memory.....so whenever I can't see something on a shelf and have to reach for it...my mind remembers the pain. Because I can't remember the incident..it manifolds as anger or irritation. ...of course, now that I know that.....I don't have a problem with it anymore because I realise the object on the shelf won't hurt me. ...hope that makes sense |
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16-02-2012, 03:49 PM | #59 | ||
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Now that kinda thing makes me wish I had gone to CBT when the docs wanted me to go(was for anxiety attacks/depression a few years back for the nosier ones amongst us ). I thought it was a load of rubbish, but sounds fascinating
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16-02-2012, 03:51 PM | #60 | |||
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I don't think this strictly counts, its more the emotional side, but I don't think I've ever cried at someones death, be it celebrity or friend, I just..stay shocked (sad yes, but not visibly emotional)
I think I would only be able to cry if it was a close family member..I don't get it when people cry over celebrities they don't really know or didn't really care about until they died That's not conscience though ..but then I can cry with happiness when Zambia won the Africa Nations Cup.. Last edited by King Gizzard; 16-02-2012 at 03:57 PM. |
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16-02-2012, 04:04 PM | #61 | |||
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16-02-2012, 04:05 PM | #62 | |||
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16-02-2012, 04:06 PM | #63 | |||
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16-02-2012, 05:40 PM | #64 | |||
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The CBT thing is fascinating and really makes so much sense. I have a friend who suffers from depression and went through CBT following a string of massively high peaks and desperately low troughs. He still suffers from depression but is much more able to cope with it and manage it without taking meds. It really did change him and the way he thought about things. I'm a believer.
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16-02-2012, 05:41 PM | #65 | |||
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I start that soon..apparently
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16-02-2012, 06:00 PM | #66 | |||
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CBT?...I really recommend it...so long as you're honest with yourself and your therapist it could make a huge difference....look at me, I'm reasonably normal...kind of |
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16-02-2012, 06:05 PM | #67 | |||
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I was given an online course and reading to do via referal from my GP... you know cutbacks
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16-02-2012, 06:08 PM | #68 | |||
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16-02-2012, 06:10 PM | #69 | |||
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That's not beyond the realms of possibility, sadly..
Although it already seems like that at the appointment these days anyway Last edited by King Gizzard; 16-02-2012 at 06:11 PM. |
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16-02-2012, 06:18 PM | #70 | |||
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Find a good book on CBT Nathan...it's something that's really easy to 'self help' with, once you understand it and it's not difficult to understand...I'll have a look online and see what books I can find
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16-02-2012, 07:09 PM | #71 | |||
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My sis is really into NLP (neuro lynguistic programming) at the mo its a kind of self-hypnosis, it sounds really interesting, i stopped smoking through self hypnosis 9 years ago. It might be worth looking into as a way to get in touch with your emotional side?
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16-02-2012, 08:26 PM | #72 | |||
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http://moodgym.anu.edu.au/welcome ? Have a pop at the e-couch as well further down the page Last edited by Shasown; 16-02-2012 at 08:28 PM. |
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17-02-2012, 12:30 AM | #73 | |||
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