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Old 29-07-2009, 02:37 PM #1
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Default Is it acceptable for a girl to want a fling in the BB house

Because that's what Noirin obviously want's and i'm not sure it matters who it is with, i.e Siavash, or,Tom aslong as she is attracted to them.

You can predict all day long why she only want's a fling, i.e because she want's to keep the door open on the outside for her ex to walk through, but that does not answer the question.

She want's kisses, attention, hug's and in all but name a BB relationship. fake relationship even.

But as a single woman, does she have the right to say to Siavash, Tom, or anyone else, are you up for a BB fling.

She keeps describing it clumbsily by saying we're just friend's i think out of a fear she think's the answer to my question here is NO, saying she just want's a fling is just socially un-acceptable. But we are the Society so what do we think.

If you think it is acceptable, would she still be accused of leading the Men on, or would it be accepted by sensible people that the Men new the rules when they accepted the job.

Is it Acceptable for her to want a fling in the BB house?

And even if acceptable, would she still be attacked for this acceptable behaviour. I.e society, us, have to un-hypacrit ( i know that's not a word) ourselves?
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its acceptable but if its hurting people in the process then its not acceptable!
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If they and the person they want a fling with are both single and have no other romantic/sexual involvements then yes, I don't see why not.
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I don't see why not
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No it isn't.
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She doesnt want a fling though, she is getting people interested, then backing off.

Playing mind games.

Totally different to wanting a fling.
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She doesnt want a fling though, she is getting people interested, then backing off.

Playing mind games.

Totally different to wanting a fling.

Nah that is a total mis-conseption of her clumbsy way of seeking a fling.

Well no wonder people hate her guts if people think that's what she is doing, how snidey is that. They are the actions of a Sociopath, a desire to tease, tease, and tease, and then say NO. No way i prefer my theory, based off the fact's.
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I would have no problem with her if she went to Siavash and said "Listen, I'm feeling a bit froggy. What do you say we have a no-strings fling?" Then no one would be leading anyone else on. And when it was over it was over and no one should have hurt feelings.

But she didn't. Before their relationship was made public. She would sit there and talk about how what they were going to do in the YEARS to come. Even when she was trying to sort of break up with him the day after they kissed so that she could chase Tom, she said that they had the future to be together.
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She doesnt want a fling though, she is getting people interested, then backing off.

Playing mind games.

Totally different to wanting a fling.

Nah that is a total mis-conseption of her clumbsy way of seeking a fling.

Well no wonder people hate her guts if people think that's what she is doing, how snidey is that. They are the actions of a Sociopath, a desire to tease, tease, and tease, and then say NO. No way i prefer my theory, based off the fact's.
So...where are these FACTS that you are refering to that say she is only after a fling?

It is blatantly obvious what she is doing, and has been doing from the start.

And if she did want a fling, why was she discussing her future years with siavash a few days before telling him she didnt want a relationship?
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If you have ever seen a cat hold a mouse by its tail and let go time and time again before it eventually eats it.



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It is always about pussy
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She doesnt want a fling though, she is getting people interested, then backing off.

Playing mind games.

Totally different to wanting a fling.
Yes it is ,she admits herself she is manipulative ,and by God has she proved herself right
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It's all a depressing cycle now. She has hogged the attention of the house for long enough. She has made the house tired and lethargic. She really has to go.
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She doesnt want a fling though, she is getting people interested, then backing off.

Playing mind games.

Totally different to wanting a fling.
This ^.
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No it isn't.
Really - is it acceptable for men then?
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It's all a depressing cycle now. She has hogged the attention of the house for long enough. She has made the house tired and lethargic. She really has to go.
Hmn - correction - THEY - have hogged the attenton of the house long enough!! Noirin and Marcus.
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No it isn't.
Really - is it acceptable for men then?
Thought you wouldn't answer this one!!

Thankfully - women aren't bothered by your double-standard opinion anyway!!!
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No it isn't.
Really - is it acceptable for men then?
Thought you wouldn't answer this one!!

Thankfully - women aren't bothered by your double-standard opinion anyway!!!
You gave..like..10 minutes to answer.

And the user is currently offline...
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No it isn't.
Really - is it acceptable for men then?
Thought you wouldn't answer this one!!

Thankfully - women aren't bothered by your double-standard opinion anyway!!!
You gave..like..10 minutes to answer.

And the user is currently offline...
Wasn't offline at time!
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I don't see why it wouldn't be acceptable, if they meet somebody that they instantly click with then it is quite natural.

If they went in with the actual intention of having a fling then I would have to question it. Can they not have a fling in the real world? Do they really have to resort to going on TV to get one? Do they not want to win the show, knowing that relationships on BB are generally unpopular with the viewers?

Regardless of the intent, it is quite a dumb move to have a fling in the BB house though.
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