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Old 13-02-2010, 09:27 PM #1
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Default How much do looks matter?

Do you think the line has to be drawn somewhere?

Say, for example, you where completely in love with someone one of these people, would you still go out with one of them?






I honestly think there's a line.
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Theirs a big line for me, they need to be hot and have a nice Personality.
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Yeah but your talking extreme in them pictures..
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it's only natural to think someone's good looking or cute, so i think it's acceptable to draw a line at something - but personality is just as important for me, because i'd like to love being around them.

them examples obviously draw the line LOL
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Those pictures are just distrubing! You can't be with someone if you don't feel attracted to them,simple as.
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no, for me, the 'right' one would be very fit
And have a lovely, funny, crazy personality
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There's a line, yes, and for the most part I would say everybody has to find their partner at least a bit attractive. I think if you truely love someone, you love them for who they are and their personality etc, because that's what attracts you to them. Looks are just a bonus, but still needed really in this case.

For example, there are plenty of girls that I know that I would shag their brains out, but that's just lust. I'm not attracted to them personality wise. On the other hand, I did have a best friend in which it started out as just a friendship, but then I realised I'd fallen in love with her, and not her looks, though that was just a bonus. Sadly, I didn't do anything about it, and now we've drited apart.

But do you see what I mean now? There's a different between love and lust.
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I fcking love Anne Widdecombe
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Secondary to personality - but reasonably important!
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See all this, well Mr/Miss Perfect would be very fit, I dont agree with. A nice, cute girl with a lovely personality would be perfect for me, I dont need some WAG looking girl to make me happy. They are just eye candy, for a relationship it wouldnt matter.

Anyway, too hot and they would seek other guys attention, lmao.
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Also, I think when you're younger and prepubescent, you generally don't care about personality. But as you get older you realise that it's not just looks that count.
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They just need to be fit and willing to fuck, and thats it.
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Yeah but your talking extreme in them pictures..
Not really. They're just excellent examples.
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Also, I think when you're younger and prepubescent, you generally don't care about personality. But as you get older you realise that it's not just looks that count.
It works in this way for me: If I think I love someone, I DO find them physically attractive. People complain about Joe's teeth, but I love them. But if I don't find them physically attractive I will not love them, and I'm not forcing myself out of love or anything, it's a system where it's either all (looks and personality) or nothing.
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Not really. They're just excellent examples.
Yeah that fat girl is obese, but some normal chubby/fat girls can be quite attractive and have fun personalities, she just looks like a beach wale and is the extreme of being fat and is of course yuckety yuck yuck!
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As long as people are clean, In good shape and take some form of pride in there looks (What ever they do to feel good) then people are ok.
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tbh i can't even be friends with ugly people
they just gross me out
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What a sad comment!
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when i say ugly i mean proper ugly, like 1 in every 100th person
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u dnt want to go out with sum1 uglyy lolz
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I can be friends with somebody ugly,
but if me and my friends were to hate someone ugly the thing we would properly mock them for the most is there looks.
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one only needs to witness all the fat and or ugly tv presenters, newsreaders and game hosts we have to answer your question.
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I do sort of agree with that! lmao.
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Suppose it matters a bit but the personality rules over everything <3
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