[ThaGazBoi]

Someone has imed me on MSN and there deeply depressed because they feel that a certain number of you are ganging up on them. I thought bullying was banned on this forum? I havent been here most of the day and if I saw something I would have said something. Im all up for a joke but some people take it to an extreme. Seriously these people need to stop what they are doing to this person as this person is depressed. Thats all im saying on the matter, but if it carrys on i wont continue coming on this forum as it used to be such a nice forum.

[Ella]

Thats nasty, well i hope this person is ok Gazza

[ThaGazBoi]

Yes this person is ok they just feel left out and victamised

[Ella]

Well thats not a nice way to feel, i hope it stops soon

[Dan_]

I think I know what this is about from a conversation I just had, won't mention the member.

Anyway if it is what I assume the topic's about then I was just sticking up for someone after a few unfair comments had been made over nothing at it just seemed that a bid deal was being made because of a previous argument which I didn't see.I wont gang up on anyone, just put my point of view across if something is annoying me or if somethings being made out of nothing like I thought was happening in this case.I might be a bit too honest at times and I'm sorry if that causes offence but I just call things as I see them and it's not attempt to gang up on anyone.

I don't think it's all one way though.

[xGemmax]

Yes its not nice at all

[ThaGazBoi]

Originally posted by BB fernzy
I think I know what this is about from a conversation I just had, won't mention the member.

Anyway if it is what I assume the topic's about then I was just sticking up for someone after a few unfair comments had been made over nothing at it just seemed that a bid deal was being made because of a previous argument which I didn't see.I wont gang up on anyone, just put my point of view across if something is annoying me or if somethings being made out of nothing like I thought was happening in this case.I might be a bit too honest at times and I'm sorry if that causes offence but I just call things as I see them and it's not attempt to gang up on anyone.

Well I didnt know this..

I only got told that people were calling this person names..I just dont like people bullying, but fair enough if you were sticking up for someone..I dont mind that..But from im told this person sounded like the victim.

[Dan_]

Originally posted by CrazyGazza

Well I didnt know this..

I only got told that people were calling this person names..I just dont like people bullying, but fair enough if you were sticking up for someone..I dont mind that..But from Im told this person sounded like the victim.

I just know of one thread where it seemed that a member had issues with another member from a previous argument and started picking at small mistakes they made which I thought was unfair and stuck up for them as they seemed quite upset by it all, it did go on a bit and it was a few people all having a go at one time so it might have looked like ganging up but I think it was more of that a few people just disagreed and it carried on from there.

I don't even know the full scale of the previous argument, I just went on what I saw and it went on from there.

[ThaGazBoi]

Originally posted by BB fernzy

I just know of one thread where it seemed that a member had issues with another member from a previous argument and started picking at small mistakes they made which I thought was unfair and stuck up for them as they seemed quite upset by it all, it did go on a bit and it was a few people all having a go at one time so it might have looked like ganging up but I think it was more of that a few people just disagreed and it carried on from there.

I don't even know the full scale of the previous argument, I just went on what I saw and it went on from there.

Thats cool, This person has really contradicted everything, made it sound like they were the victim.

[ThaGazBoi]

RIGHT..

Im sorry for posting this. I have now learnt the full extent of what happens and this so called victim only told me thier side of the story. Theres no point in hiding the fact that Scooby does that things to heart. Im sorry for this post- And i didnt mean to insult any of the members in anyway at all.

[Dan_]

No problems Gazza.I think it will all blow over soon enough, some people can give it out but just cannot take it though and it leads to these sort of things.

If I think somethings unfair or annoying I will say it, don't matter if I'm the only one who feels that way.

[Siouxsie]

I would just like to say It takes a lot to upset me but find what has happned over the last week was pathetic really.I was not all my fault.It was the fact that an argument occured over something trivial and blew out of proportion.I was mad at the fact that one or two members were butting in when it did not concern them. I have been a member of this forum now for about 2 years and have never had anything like this happen to me before. Thats all i have to say on the matter. Now can i get on with just having some fun on here instead of all this hassle. Thank you.

[Sticks]

If there is anything that is in breach of forum regulations the correct procedure is to report it to the moderators and let them handle it.

[MarkWaldorf]

If this is about the ' one ' argument I had with Scooby yesterday morning, U2U me about it. Im not going to mention what happened here (obvious reasons) but I can garuntee my side makes more sense.

[ChelseaFan]

Thumbs down to bullying

[JakeyBoy]

I have a vague idea who this "victim" may be

[Bells]

I know what this is about I think, and it was all just one big misunderstanding really. Hope it's ok now!

[JakeyBoy]

Well knowing them BOTH I'd hardly think so Ash

[Bells]

I know what you mean, I kind of know them too.

You should still be optimistic though!

[MarkWaldorf]

This member has completley the wrong end of the stick about this. It was never bullying

[Razmataz]

Bullying is a viscious act of the human life cycle.
It was never on this forum.
Then it happened to me at the beginning of this year.

It cooled down because a certain member was banned.
Now me and the member get on quite alrite.

It needs to stop before it blows up again.

Stupid arguements, cost time and oxygen.
Don't waste what time you have on this planet of ours, by making another human being be felt as if they're not wanted on it.

[Lance]

Originally posted by Sticks
If there is anything that is in breach of forum regulations the correct procedure is to report it to the moderators and let them handle it.

Exactly. We cannot stress enough the fact that if you have a problem let one of us know and we'd be more than happy to deal with things privately.

CrazyGazza, as thoughtful as it was to post this topic you really should make sure you know the full story before posting anything as strong as this topic. If you know about bullying in the future, try not to make any assumptions, U2U one of the Admin. Team and let us dea with things without broadcasting them on a forum. That's the best way to deal with these sort of things.

As we all know, bullying is nasty and can hurt a lot of people. It's not wanted nor needed here.

Please, everyone, remember that this is a Big Brother discussion forum. All this arguing, petty quarelling and insulting of other members isn't necessary on the forum.

Look, we only have a few nights of Big Brother left. Lets enjoy and chat about them in peace.

[Kore]

hope the persons ok gazza. im totally against bullies. :/

but gaz you cant leave the forum over 1 bully, theres loads of decent people here...

EDIT: if there is a 'bully'.

i obviously dont know the full details

[Red Moon]

Originally posted by CrazyGazza
Someone has imed me on MSN and there deeply depressed because they feel that a certain number of you are ganging up on them. I thought bullying was banned on this forum? I havent been here most of the day and if I saw something I would have said something. Im all up for a joke but some people take it to an extreme. Seriously these people need to stop what they are doing to this person as this person is depressed. Thats all Im saying on the matter, but if it carrys on i wont continue coming on this forum as it used to be such a nice forum.

Like Sticks says the best thing to do is inform the Moderators so we can deal with it or watch out for it and ban the people concerned

If we don't know about it then we are left in the dark.

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