[Denver]

Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

Doesnt explain why he cheated on his bf with a guy

[Daniel.]

Originally Posted by Jake.

And at the same time you're biased because you know it's him/you already dislike him so you're upping the hate

I don't dislike him from the forum, but I am disliking him on the show and I will say if I want

[Drew.]

Originally Posted by Daniel.

But you lot are being bias because you knew him before, I bet you wouldn't defend if you hadn't met him, and it's making BB annoying to discuss because it's like walking on eggshells

Imagine yourself in the same situation had one of your friends gone in, you'd be supporting him/her no matter what. None of us are applauding him for cheating though

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

I'm sure being cheated on feels the same regardless though. If you want to explore stay single

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Doesnt explain why he cheated on his bf with a guy

True lol. At least he seems remorseful, I guess.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

It still hurts to be cheated on, he could have explored when he was single.

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Daniel.

I don't dislike him from the forum, but I am disliking him on the show and I will say if I want

As will we all

If your pal was in there you'd be in the same position, it's luck of the draw

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Daniel.

It's not gonna be fair discussing BB when Raph's friends get defensive every time someone makes a comment about him :/

It does seem like some people want to bring him down on anything just because he is from TIBB.

No wonder not many Forum members ever try to get on BB.

[Locke.]

Hearing reports that Chanelle was the cheat and they edited it to make it look like Raph, can't believe they'd do this

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Drew.

Imagine yourself in the same situation had one of your friends gone in, you'd be supporting him/her no matter what. None of us are applauding him for cheating though

This,there's nothing wrong with supporting friends. all of the housemates have friends who will support them so why is it different for Raph?

[Ant.]

I think they were probably applauding him for being honest. He could've easily just said "oh my partner was cheating so I cheated on revenge" or some bull**** lie, and he could've just not included the fact he cheated on his boyfriend

He was honest and put himself out there and the whole nation/all BOTS audience + 2 people watched and know that he's cheated, and that may affect future relationships (maybe not romantic, since he doesn't 'believe in love', but regardless he was under the impression the nation's gonna define him as a cheater)

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Locke.

Hearing reports that Chanelle was the cheat and they edited it to make it look like Raph, can't believe they'd do this

[Black Dagger]

Originally Posted by Locke.

Hearing reports that Chanelle was the cheat and they edited it to make it look like Raph, can't believe they'd do this

Excuse me I dont lie

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by Withano

True lol. At least he seems remorseful, I guess.

He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

It still hurts to be cheated on, he could have explored when he was single.

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Withano

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

Um no

[Marc]

Originally Posted by Withano

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

Not sure, still hurts I guess

[Braden]

Once is an instance, twice is a hobby.

I don't actually care that he did it tbh, but I'm just ****-stirring.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Um no

Oh lol. I would have thought it would be less of a blow. I've not been on either side.

[Lostie!]

Originally Posted by Adam.

But it is true TIBB slag fake criers of till the end of the earth but soon as it is one of their own they can do no wrong

What's also true is the fact that Raph is the only TiBBer in the house so all these bitchy comments about his friends on the site (and there's been a few) aren't really called for.

[EspeonBB]

Yeah the applause after was inappropriate (but in a funny way). I don't know the full story but cheating isn't something to be applauded imo

[reece(:]

Messy tho since wasn't Natalie on BBUS being condemned for allegedly cheating on James and called the devil incarnate etc

[Drew.]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.

He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Oliver_W

Weren't most of them highschool "relationships"? They don't really count, so who cares? Especially as he was working out his gayness.

We're not talking about mistakes though or cheating that was regretful. He said as much in his VT that monogamy is not his thing.

[reece(:]

Originally Posted by Braden

Once is an instance, twice is a hobby.

I don't actually care that he did it tbh, but I'm just ****-stirring.

Rebecca to investigate?