[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Probably sarah phoning the press in her quest for the limelight.

Every chance

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Why did his wife kick him out this summer over it ?

He was texting nude pics to a different woman just before they got married and she threw him out because he was involved with mate's who were bad influences

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

I don't like Sarah very much, but I think that this post is just a classic case of blaming the girl whilst excusing the man in the situation who is also playing up to the Showmance as only a few days ago he had feelings for Amelia, and was pissed off that she picked Sam over him. Chad is just in there for a Showmance and he will try with anybody in there, and I mean anybody.

Sarah is annoying, she does do the Showmance route, and the bias that she gets from the public is possibly even more annoying than the Showmancing as it's all because she was a background member of a girl group that was completely generic. But Chad is the biggest user out of the two imo as he is using her popularity to coast by with his pathetic Showmancing.

classic misandtrist sexism there mock, im very disappointed in you. the man and woman are EQUALLY guilty when cheating goes on. sarah is a notorious love cheat

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by the truth

classic misandtrist sexism there mock, im very disappointed in you. the man and woman are EQUALLY guilty when cheating goes on. sarah is a notorious love cheat

I would say the person with the partner is more at fault though (obviously if the person who they cheated with thought they were single as well they shouldn't be blamed either)

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I would say the person with the partner is more at fault though (obviously if the person who they cheated with thought they were single as well they shouldn't be blamed either)

I disagree. Theyre both equally at fault. The only grey area possibly would be if he told her a pack of lies about his situation. we always seems to excuse the women on this site, the excuses are endless, she was clearly a home wrecker

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by the truth

I disagree. Theyre both equally at fault. The only grey area possibly would be if he told her a pack of lies about his situation. we always seems to excuse the women on this site, the excuses are endless, she was clearly a home wrecker

It doesn't matter whether it's a man or woman, which ever one is actually in the relationship has to be worse imo they're the ones betraying a loved one but I agree that if the person they cheat with knows they're taken then it doesn't say alot about their character

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I would say the person with the partner is more at fault though (obviously if the person who they cheated with thought they were single as well they shouldn't be blamed either)

I disagree totally Niamh. If that was the case we could all just decide to go after whomever we want whether they're married or not just because we're single?

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It doesn't matter whether it's a man or woman, which ever one is actually in the relationship has to be worse imo they're the ones betraying a loved one but I agree that if the person they cheat with knows they're taken then it doesn't say alot about their character

So if your best mate went after your partner you wouldn't have any problem with her?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Paula D

I disagree totally Niamh. If that was the case we could all just decide to go after whomever we want whether they're married or not just because we're single?

You obviously aren't reading my posts fully. I said that the person with the partner was more at fault, I didn't say there was nothing wrong with going after a person with a partner

Originally Posted by Paula D

So if your best mate went after your partner you wouldn't have any problem with her?

Of course I would, she's supposed to be my friend, god knows how you came to that conclusion from what I posted I kind of said the total opposite to that

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

You obviously aren't reading me posts fully. I said that the person with the partner was more at fault, I didn't say there was nothing wrong with going after a person with a partner



Of course I would, she's supposed to be my friend, god knows how you came to that conclusion from what I posted I kind of said the total opposite to that

And I'm saying that there's no hierarchy of cheats. A cheat is a cheat is a cheat.

I don't even know why you would bother trying to put them on a table of blame unless you felt that a single person could do what they want.

Other than to defend Sarah of course.

[_baileys_]

I have to be honest I just hope she doesn't do again what she did in last nights show the
(complaining) 'I am confused must back off don't want to hurt anyone'
kiss chad - get into bed with chad - snuggle with chad
(changes her mind again) then back to:-

(back to complaining) 'I am confused must back off don't want to hurt anyone'
kiss chad - get into bed with chad - snuggle with chad
and repeat .. if we have to listen / see her lead him on / toy with his emotions the show will become stale very quickly and she will loose fans

Other than that get in there girl give him a big Snog (if you like him) but don't change your mind ... lol

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by _baileys_

I have to be honest I just hope she doesn't do the
(complaining) 'I am confused must back off don't want to hurt anyone'
kiss chad - get into bed with chad - snuggle with chad
(changes her mind again) then back to:-

(back to complaining) 'I am confused must back off don't want to hurt anyone'
kiss chad - get into bed with chad - snuggle with chad
and repeat .. if we have to listen / see her lead him on / toy with his emotions the show will become stale very quickly and she will loose fans

Other than that get in there girl give him a big Snog

That's exactly what she did last night. About 3 times. Did you see the show?

[_baileys_]

Originally Posted by Paula D

That's exactly what she did last night. About 3 times. Did you see the show?

yes I did thank you but what i mean and probably should have put on the post is 'hope she doesn't do what she did last night again'..

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Paula D

And I'm saying that there's no hierarchy of cheats. A cheat is a cheat is a cheat.

I don't even know why you would bother trying to put them on a table of blame unless you felt that a single person could do what they want.

Other than to defend Sarah of course.

oh my god I don't even like Sarah but surely the person who is actually betraying their husband or wife is worse than the person they cheat with who is single? I do think they're not very honourable people if they knew about the husband/wife but it's still not as bad as the one who is not only cheating but also lying to their partner too. Sarah said she thought he was single, if that's really the case then she's not really at fault, is she? But that could be a lie, i have no idea and neither do you really

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

oh my god I don't even like Sarah but surely the person who is actually betraying their husband or wife is worse than the person they cheat with who is single? I do think they're not very honourable people if they knew about the husband/wife but it's still not as bad as the one who is not only cheating but also lying to their partner too. Sarah said she thought he was single, if that's really the case then she's not really at fault, is she? But that could be a lie, i have no idea and neither do you really

We'll have to agree to disagree so, I like most others believe both are just as bad as each other.

I don't believe that she thought Danny Dyer was single, I'm not an Okay magazine reader and yet I've known about Danny Dyer for years. As people who mix in celebrity circles they would both have known the story with the other.

[Paula D]

Originally Posted by _baileys_

yes I did thank you but what i mean and probably should have put on the post is 'hope she doesn't do what she did last night again'..

Yeah, I can't bear another night of roundabouts.

[_baileys_]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

oh my god I don't even like Sarah but surely the person who is actually betraying their husband or wife is worse than the person they cheat with who is single? I do think they're not very honourable people if they knew about the husband/wife but it's still not as bad as the one who is not only cheating but also lying to their partner too. Sarah said she thought he was single, if that's really the case then she's not really at fault, is she? But that could be a lie, i have no idea and neither do you really

Well said I think that is a great reason why I haven't gotten into many of the discussions of her accused 'cheating' as we just do not know

Trust me I hate cheaters BUT she is not even sure of her single status lol

[_baileys_]

Originally Posted by Paula D

Yeah, I can't bear another night of roundabouts.

Agreed that would slowly drive us all bonkers I think...

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

oh my god I don't even like Sarah but surely the person who is actually betraying their husband or wife is worse than the person they cheat with who is single? I do think they're not very honourable people if they knew about the husband/wife but it's still not as bad as the one who is not only cheating but also lying to their partner too. Sarah said she thought he was single, if that's really the case then she's not really at fault, is she? But that could be a lie, i have no idea and neither do you really

I agree, if he was with his partner but told her he was not with her no more then he is to blame

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Paula D

We'll have to agree to disagree so, I like most others believe both are just as bad as each other.

I don't believe that she thought Danny Dyer was single, I'm not an Okay magazine reader and yet I've known about Danny Dyer for years. As people who mix in celebrity circles they would both have known the story with the other.

How do you know most others agree with you? I think most people would think that the person who has the partner is worse tbh

I knew who Danny Dyer was for years but I didn't know that he had a wife/family until he had that twitter feud with Katie Hopkins last year or the year before

[_baileys_]

Originally Posted by Paula D

We'll have to agree to disagree so, I like most others believe both are just as bad as each other.

I don't believe that she thought Danny Dyer was single, I'm not an Okay magazine reader and yet I've known about Danny Dyer for years. As people who mix in celebrity circles they would both have known the story with the other.

I think the whole Danny Dyer issue is different to the CBB Chad issue as Chad has said he is single (even if some tabloids say he is not)

ahh who knew celebrities lead such complicated lives eh

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It doesn't matter whether it's a man or woman, which ever one is actually in the relationship has to be worse imo they're the ones betraying a loved one but I agree that if the person they cheat with knows they're taken then it doesn't say alot about their character

so by that logic, are you saying sarah is a bad person and far more responsible than chad for this situation, to kiss chad when she is in a relationship?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by the truth

so by that logic, are you saying sarah is a bad person and far more responsible than chad for this situation, to kiss chad when she is in a relationship?

Absolutely

[Lostie!]

I'm a firm believer of the equal blame if you knowingly pursue something with someone in a relationship tbh. Neither deserves more or less blame, they're both doing it.

[Withano]

Stopped reading at homewrecker.. mostly because I was wondering if it still counts if its their own home. That seems more like a home-renovater.
My opinion on her has never really changed. I've always felt as if she would have been a good hm, if she had different hms.