[LeatherTrumpet]

and ask yourself why red lipstick is so popular.....

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Lol

Its solely because they think it will make them more attractive

yes of course but you could argue the same about dying your hair any other colour, or wearing make up or whatever, its about feeling good about yourself, if I go to a meeting I always wear make up even if it is all women in attendence as it makes me feel more control and that works for both men and women, maybe I am a lesbian and I didn't know it..

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

and ask yourself why red lipstick is so popular.....

serious question would you be annoyed if TL went brunette? in other words are you really that shallow

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Cherie

yes of course but you could argue the same about dying your hair any other colour, or wearing make up or whatever, its about feeling good about yourself, if I go to a meeting I always wear make up even if it is all women in attendence as it makes me feel more control and that works for both men and women, maybe I am a lesbian and I didn't know it..

"feeling good about yourself"

is just a sterile way of saying exactly what i said


you feel good by feeling important and being attractive to the opposite sex because its a huge innate evolutionary desire that drives you.


although blonde does cover up grey hairs so their is that going on for women in their 40s

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Cherie

serious question would you be annoyed if TL went brunette? in other words are you really that shallow

She is a pure brunette and has never dyed her hair

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

She is a pure brunette and has never dyed her hair

Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

"feeling good about yourself"

is just a sterile way of saying exactly what i said


you feel good by feeling important and being attractive to the opposite sex because its a huge innate evolutionary desire that drives you.


although blonde does cover up grey hairs so their is that going on for women in their 40s

so by that reasoning I also want to be attractive to women which I don't

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

She is a pure brunette and has never dyed her hair

I don't believe you

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT

I have not specified a preference in this thread

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Cherie

so by that reasoning I also want to be attractive to women which I don't

no, you want to be MORE attractive than other women

again its an innate desire established through many hundreds of thousands of years

(you see this in BB all the time)

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

I have not specified a preference in this thread

Doesn't matter, she will think all men prefer blondes because of nature and animal instincts etc

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Doesn't matter, she will think all men prefer blondes because of nature and animal instincts etc

We were discussing this last night as we watched that Sex Doll docu (which was odd)

The blonde hair thing dates back to Viking times as they brought blonde women and us lot were dark haired or red haired and so they became unusual and sought after

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

We were discussing this last night as we watched that Sex Doll docu (which was odd)

The blonde hair thing dates back to Viking times as they brought blonde women and us lot were dark haired or red haired and so they became unusual and sought after

That only makes sense if you live in a country where Vikings invaded though

[JerseyWins]

Brunettes >>>>>

Blondes can be really hot too but usually I find more brunettes good looking. And redheads for some spice!

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

That only makes sense if you live in a country where Vikings invaded though

yes a lot of europe but then we brits exported this to the USA and Oceania

Its not a thing in Africa or South America i dont think, or India or china/Japan

[Marches]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Everything a woman does must be about pleasing men

Yeah women do up their hair and get nice make up not because they want to look nice and feel good about themselves, but because they want to appease the patriarchy

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

yes a lot of europe but then we brits exported this to the USA and Oceania

Its not a thing in Africa or South America i dont think, or India or china/Japan

Probably because those ethnicities wouldn't really have natural blondes

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Marches

Yeah women do up their hair and get nice make up not because they want to look nice and feel good about themselves, but because they want to appease the patriarchy

I don't fully understand patriarcy arguments if I am honest

But I do think a lot of things women do its because they are kind of pressured to do so by society. Stuff like shaving legs for example, of course some women may want to do it, some may do it to look more attractive, but some feel pressure to do it, because of the reaction they would get if they did not. If that makes sense.

Look at the reaction in the Lourdes pit hair thread tbh, for examples of this

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Then why do so so many women colour their hair blonde?

Blonde women change their hair colour too you know

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Lol

Its solely because they think it will make them more attractive

For me it's because I prefer blonde (in general and it suits me more imo). I certainly don't do it for the benefit of anyone else

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Clearly she doesn't like you enough to go blonde then LT

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by caprimint

For me it's because I prefer blonde (in general and it suits me more imo). I certainly don't do it for the benefit of anyone else

Its innate so you probably don't even realise

[Marches]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I don't fully understand patriarcy arguments if I am honest

But I do think a lot of things women do its because they are kind of pressured to do so by society. Stuff like shaving legs for example, of course some women may want to do it, some may do it to look more attractive, but some feel pressure to do it, because of the reaction they would get if they did not. If that makes sense.

Look at the reaction in the Lourdes pit hair thread tbh, for examples of this

The pressure from ‘society’, imo, is from both genders funnily enough lol some women get catty about this kinda **** and honestly Ik a lot of men who prefer women without make up, plastic hair and body features ect

But I don’t think there’s that much wrong with a little bit of work or bothering with your appearance. A lot of women enjoy getting dressed up and doing their hair and make up. People dye their hair certain colours and do different things to their body to make a statement and feel good about themselves. Of course this might imply a bigger problem with society. Maybe we are too dependant on looks. But this is a widespread problem with the modern day and social media that involves far, far more than wanting to impress those darn men that are holding women down,,l

[Kazanne]

I have had my hair all colours,it's blonde at the moment, but I do love it dark aswell,I just do whatever the mood takes me , seriously thinking of that gorgeous red colour that's about now,but not sure it would suit me,so not been that brave yet.As for men preferring blondes I think some might go along with that thought of blondes have more fun,but a lot of men I know prefer brunettes, but it could just be down to how blondes are perceived.

[T*]

I prefer dark haired guys oop