[Elliot]

Youtube video

[AnnieK]

Quite sad but not an unusual story. Lots of kids had little or no affection growing up. I can't remember any affection from my mum, she never said I love you or was a hugger, I never thought bad of her or felt particularly unloved, she just wasn't that kind of person. Only time she ever told me was when she was dying. With my son, on the other hand she was soppy as **** and poured love on him. With Anamelia, I think she says things for effect, not buying those tears either.

[rusticgal]

Is she looking for an excuse for the way she behaves?.... I'm not buying it either because you become a better person for your experiences surely??

[Toy Soldier]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Is she looking for an excuse for the way she behaves?.... I'm not buying it either because you become a better person for your experiences surely??

Hmmm well it's not an excuse but it is a likely reason. She's an angry narcissist and one of the most common causes of that is growing up without much affection from family.

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Hmmm well it's not an excuse but it is a likely reason. She's an angry narcissist and one of the most common causes of that is growing up without much affection from family.

Everything about her seems too rehearsed to me. What you have said may be so.....I grew up with limited affection and don't believe I'm narcissistic but I guess that can be a cause.....but anamelia probably knows that's a root cause of narcissism, did that conversation happen before or after kenaly pulled her on everything being me me me?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Everything about her seems too rehearsed to me. What you have said may be so.....I grew up with limited affection and don't believe I'm narcissistic but I guess that can be a cause.....but anamelia probably knows that's a root cause of narcissism, did that conversation happen before or after kenaly pulled her on everything being me me me?

Before I think because Kenaley referred to it when she was talking to her

[smudgie]

🎻🎻🎻 my heart bleeds.🎻🎻🎻

[BBDodge]

And then the rest of the housemates gang up on her.

She should just keep quiet.

[Alf]

What a depressing bitch she is. She just brings the mood down to depressing all the time.

[Pro Sniper]

The sour faced bitch should go on I'm a Celebrity...Get Me Out of Here. The eating trials should be a breeze for her..

[mr rochester]

All imaginary...

[DrunkerThanMoses]

I am crying tears for her just like she is.... Which is none

[Jessica.]

Leave her alone, she's been through so much. I feel the same about my mother.

[GoldHeart]

Maybe Ana has had a tough childhood but she ISN'T the only one , and she milked that moment and she loved the attention .

How do we really know she's telling the truth? and she's basically scolded her mother on national telly , her mother could be lovely person who tried her best to provide for her for all we know? .

Everything is a theatrical moment , and she always takes the spotlight it's always the Anamelia show .

[jyunga]

She's tried to be on reality tv before.. now she's on BB trying to milk the sympathy and seem like the victim imo.

[Ammi]

...she was born and raised in Brazil, I think..?...and possibly in poverty...so everything she says is quite plausible and I think probably true...but I would guess that a Brazilian single mother would be working her body to the bone as well and probably didn’t have the energy for affection that some childhoods would have had...so her childhood probably didn’t stand out as being anything ‘unique’ in comparison to those around her...except that she obviously had a single parent, which would have made it a little more difficult, I would think...that’s not an excuse from taking the conversation from the others when talking about their own families and the close bonds they have...

...Cian... the first to go and hug her, though.....he’s just totally gorgeous.....

[Ammi]

...maybe she wasn’t born and raised in poverty in Brazil by a single parent...a different world and childhood completely to so many of us..maybe I’m just imagining that or making it up...I’m putting two and two together and coming up with thirty seven...

[Jessica.]

I agree with you Ammi and you're right, even in her VT she said she was the result of a one night stand. I don't think her story was far fetched.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Well if her mother is anything like her she must be a right bitch

[Vanessa]

It sounds like she was raised without affection. That's quite sad, but it's no excuse.

[sungrass]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Is she looking for an excuse for the way she behaves?.... I'm not buying it either because you become a better person for your experiences surely??

Oh I agree - she is playing the victim now for sympathy votes before she faces nomination. She might not even be aware she is doing it - she does remind me of a 4 or 5 year old in general.

Im torn as to whether I want her leave because she is a talking point and I think Sian is very bland and Im not bothered if she goes.

Id like to see more of Anamelia - I wish she got to hear others perspectives like she did tonight - again and again and again and maybe just take note of what people saying. We all have sob stories so I thought that was pretty cheap of her. Infront of a whole group - not close friends... so showy.

[sungrass]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...maybe she wasn’t born and raised in poverty in Brazil by a single parent...a different world and childhood completely to so many of us..maybe I’m just imagining that or making it up...I’m putting two and two together and coming up with thirty seven...

I dont know if this counts but I had friend from Brazil - and she was a Leo and quite a selfish cow - haha

but anyway - Brazil is now not considered a developing country - there is rich and poor -

but come on how many kids in the UK dont know their mum or have lost a parents. She stole the time - sucked up the energy. But its crazy - its that maddness I kinda love in a housemate - shes not my winner by far, but she is entertaining.

[sungrass]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...she was born and raised in Brazil, I think..?...and possibly in poverty...so everything she says is quite plausible and I think probably true...but I would guess that a Brazilian single mother would be working her body to the bone as well and probably didn’t have the energy for affection that some childhoods would have had...so her childhood probably didn’t stand out as being anything ‘unique’ in comparison to those around her...except that she obviously had a single parent, which would have made it a little more difficult, I would think...that’s not an excuse from taking the conversation from the others when talking about their own families and the close bonds they have...

...Cian... the first to go and hug her, though.....he’s just totally gorgeous.....

Brazil is now a member of the BRICS - Brazil, Russia, India and China - these countries will be richer than the west within 50 years. This is from my sisters economics studies.

But dont forget her -'' I went to a sex party in L.A - I chose the black guy and he was like'' - and she pointed to herself and then told everyone in detail that she started the sex party off.

Its anything for the spotlight with her. She has the negative traits of a Leo for sure.

[Robodog]

Whatever truth may be in the story, it was ruined by her 'look at poor me again' delivery

[sungrass]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Hmmm well it's not an excuse but it is a likely reason. She's an angry narcissist and one of the most common causes of that is growing up without much affection from family.

People do through around the personality disorders these days like they re a dime a dozen - they re actually VERY rare and theres no way a true narc would have made it through - she is just an attention seeker - you can be an attention seeker without being a Narc. I think she has had unstable attention given to her - so she doesnt have a calm and relaxed contentment within herself.

She doesnt know which angle to play to get the spotlight - but thats all she is doing, playing. This is a game for her. I think all she wants is to get the past the eviction.

A real narc, if you watch some documentary's about them - cant function at all in social groups.