[y.winter]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

You used the word "abuse" not her.

You're generalising. Not her.

But, now you also wish she had described her relationship differently, as though you know it better than she does?

She's using the terminology of it ("free", "controlling"), it's enough to understand how she has experienced it. And to be honest, I'm not quite bothered about it - if it what it is, then fine.
It's that projecting her personal experience on to something big and turning to "any woman out there". It doesn't have to always be about women as a whole... Not every personal experience is an invitation to become "inspirational" to mankind. Good for you for moving away from your idiot boyfriend, but yeah... that's about it.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by y.winter

She's using the terminology of it ("free", "controlling"), it's enough to understand how she has experienced it. And to be honest, I'm not quite bothered about it - if it what it is, then fine.
It's that projecting her personal experience on to something big and turning to "any woman out there". It doesn't have to always be about women as a whole... Not every personal experience is an invitation to become "inspirational" to mankind. Good for you for moving away from your idiot boyfriend, but yeah... that's about it.

Yeah, what a cow for getting out of what appears to be a bit of a controlling relationship and telling other people in the same boat "Believe in yourself. You can do it too!" Who does she think she is being all nice.

You just took what she actually said and took it to extreme proportions because for some reason it offended you.

[TomC]

I think he should leave bc it will just bring a horrible awkward attitude to the show.

And i don't like him.

[Strictly Jake]

I think after this they will step down from the show they won't have anyone on their side especially after Rebecca's tweet

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Sean(n)

He needs to just withdraw now, no fuss and go away.

no, just stay in for the fun and entertainment

[Cherie]

Not sure if they will let them carry on, pardon the pun , they have put the producers in an awkward position, it is a family viewing show

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Not sure if they will let them carry on, pardon the pun , they have put the producers in an awkward position, it is a family viewing show

if they are forced to withdraw then strictly deserves to be axed

[Alf]

His Mrs has left him

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

if they are forced to withdraw then strictly deserves to be axed

hardly forced, they brought it on themselves, I mean I don't care but and the Beeb don't have to satisfy advertisers so they may let them continue, I can see them bottom 2 and booted off though, will be interesting to see how it plays out.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Alf

His Mrs has left him

and taken the cat

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Cherie

hardly forced, they brought it on themselves, I mean I don't care but and the Beeb don't have to satisfy advertisers so they may let them continue, I can see them bottom 2 and booted off though, will be interesting to see how it plays out.

if he dances well, judges will either way just make sure he is bottom of the leaderboard, and then rigging the voting lines so no one can vote for him, making sure he is bottom 2 and goes home (even with a good dance)

[Amy Jade]

It's gross that when she confronted him he tried to make her out to be a psycho.

I hope Neil leaves Katya too, he can do much better.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

It's gross that when she confronted him he tried to make her out to be a psycho.

I hope Neil leaves Katya too, he can do much better.

Neil is a really lovely guy


what he mostly does now for strictly, is assist some of the dance couples in training, he used to do that for Katya and her celeb partners but i'm sure because of this snog-gate thing he might no longer do that for her

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Riley.

Good for her

Originally Posted by y.winter

"I'm not a victim" but will begin with a dramatic sentence and then go to portray herself as a victim of abusing relationship for 6 more paragraphs.
You were dating and idiot that wasn't right for you - stop with the whole demonizing bs. Not everything is a perpetrator/victim crime scene.

He cheated on her and tried to make out she was crazy for having suspicions and then apologised to the media but not to his long tern partner.......the only one he actually betrayed............... he deserves demonizing

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Good for her



He cheated on her and tried to make out she was crazy for having suspicions and then apologised to the media but not to his long tern partner.......the only one he actually betrayed............... he deserves demonizing

I wonder if this will lose them support. Shame, because he was doing so well.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

I wonder if this will lose them support. Shame, because he was doing so well.

I would hope so yeah

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Good for her



He cheated on her and tried to make out she was crazy for having suspicions and then apologised to the media but not to his long tern partner.......the only one he actually betrayed............... he deserves demonizing

Her dragging his use of the second 'n' Sean (n)

what a girl, imagine doing that to her and on her birthday....snake..

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I would hope so yeah

I think the judges may score them less also.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Her dragging his use of the second 'n' Sean (n)

what a girl, imagine doing that to her and on her birthday....snake..

and then trying to make out she was a crazy bunny boiler on top of it, snake is right

[Livia]

Who hasn't had a drunken snog at some point, and regretted it?

I like Seann. I hope he stays. It's no one else's business but those involved. Unless we're suddenly going to be the conscience of everyone who ever takes part in Strictly.

For an enlightened, accepting society, when it suits, we're right back to being po faced Victorians judging other people when really, it's no one else's business than the two involved and their partners.

[Livia]

having just read his girlfriend's post.... he sounds like he's well rid of her.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Livia

having just read his girlfriend's post.... he sounds like he's well rid of her.

Are you kidding me? bloody hell. And I can't speak for anyone else but no I never had a drunken snog while I was with Gav (unless it was with Gav)

[Jase.]

Originally Posted by Livia

having just read his girlfriend's post.... he sounds like he's well rid of her.

What on earth are you talking about?

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by Livia

Who hasn't had a drunken snog at some point, and regretted it?

I like Seann. I hope he stays. It's no one else's business but those involved. Unless we're suddenly going to be the conscience of everyone who ever takes part in Strictly.

For an enlightened, accepting society, when it suits, we're right back to being po faced Victorians judging other people when really, it's no one else's business than the two involved and their partners.

Agree.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Livia

Who hasn't had a drunken snog at some point, and regretted it?

I like Seann. I hope he stays. It's no one else's business but those involved. Unless we're suddenly going to be the conscience of everyone who ever takes part in Strictly.

For an enlightened, accepting society, when it suits, we're right back to being po faced Victorians judging other people when really, it's no one else's business than the two involved and their partners.

If the pair of them weren’t gracing Saturday night prime time tv I might agree, they have humiliated their partners in front of a huge audience