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View Poll Results: What type of partner are you?
Secure 5 71.43%
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Anxious 2 28.57%
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2 28.57%
Avoidant 0 0%
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Old 05-11-2019, 04:30 PM #1
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Default Relationships: are you a secure, avoidant or anxious partner?

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“It’s not you, it’s my attachment style,”

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Said I was secure, but those questions were like:

Would you boil your partners rabbit?

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Said I am anxious and my partner is secure.
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Your attachment style is: Secure
Being warm and loving in a relationship comes naturally to you. You enjoy being intimate without becoming overly worried about your relationships. You take things in stride when it comes to romance and don't get easily upset over relationship matters. You effectively communicate your needs and feelings to your partner and are also strong at reading your partner's emotional cues and responding to them. You share your successes and problems with your mate, and are able to be there for him or her in times of need. Even though you have a secure attachment style, it is likely you have (or will have) relationships with people with other attachment styles.
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Your attachment style is: Secure
Being warm and loving in a relationship comes naturally to you. You enjoy being intimate without becoming overly worried about your relationships. You take things in stride when it comes to romance and don't get easily upset over relationship matters. You effectively communicate your needs and feelings to your partner and are also strong at reading your partner's emotional cues and responding to them. You share your successes and problems with your mate, and are able to be there for him or her in times of need. Even though you have a secure attachment style, it is likely you have (or will have) relationships with people with other attachment styles.


You joined in 2009...so you must be well over 20...




Imo, if you cut all that crap down, all it is saying is you like a shag.
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Oops I voted before even looking at the link.

I'm too oblivious to be insecure tbh
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