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Old 05-12-2018, 10:17 PM #1
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So we have only been official for about 2 weeks and he only met my family last week at a friends birthday and my mum hates him she thinks he is cocky and she keeps saying don't bring him in when he drops me off at home.

I heard her on the phone to her friend aswell slagging him off and it's her house I respect her not wanting him in but to be so against him after meeting him only once has annoyed me. Should I talk to her or am I just baiting an argument?
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So we have only been official for about 2 weeks and he only met my family last week at a friends birthday and my mum hates him she thinks he is cocky and she keeps saying don't bring him in when he drops me off at home.



I heard her on the phone to her friend aswell slagging him off and it's her house I respect her not wanting him in but to be so against him after meeting him only once has annoyed me. Should I talk to her or am I just baiting an argument?


Maybe tell your boyfriend to try and win her over ??

Otherwise the next 60 years could be awkward ..


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Your mum is probably a betterr judge of character
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Talk to her you might not get another boyfriend
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Well if your happy your mum should be happy for you

My advice is wait 2 months if your still with him and you mum still dont like him then have a talk with your mum
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Known him ages, just been properly together a few weeks. Not like I've moved him in but not going to hide him either
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Known him ages, just been properly together a few weeks. Not like I've moved him in but not going to hide him either
What the age gab and what dose he do (job wise)

Just trying to think why your mum don't like him
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Is he cocky?

I'd say it is a little judgemental after only one meeting, but he must have made quite an impression.

I'd say it's your mum and probably nobody will be good enough for her daughter, but if this relationship lasts the course there will come a time she'll give him more of a chance and get to know him better. Now, whether that will lead to better or worse results depends on your boyfriend.

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What the age gab and what dose he do (job wise)

Just trying to think why your mum don't like him
Not Amy taking Nick Knowles home
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What the age gab and what dose he do (job wise)

Just trying to think why your mum don't like him
She already said. Her mum thinks he's cocky.
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Who takes a boyfriend to meet the family after 2 weeks?
Well, it's not as if she's had an official "meet the parents".

I imagine they're going to meet him at some point. Just so happened to be at a birthday party everybody was attending.

Did you want her to keep them in separate rooms like Rachel does with her parents on Friends?
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Probably tryed it on with her mum.
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She said cocky not camp
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Is he cocky Amy?

I ask because when I was younger I made an awful first impression on anyone I met, I was terribly shy and so everyone thought I was moody and a bit ****ty....I wasn't but thats how it cane across.

If you really like him and he's not a cocky arse, talk to your mum. Ask her to trust your judgement and try again, one on one he will probably be a different person than meeting him on a night out etc...

No boy is really worth falling out with your mum over....unless you're really serious about him but saying that...it's your life too.

God, I'm no help am I?
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Not Amy taking Nick Knowles home
Yes he going to build her a door so he can kick her out of it
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You are young it’s not going to marriage and babies is it Amy
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There he's going to drop a egg on her
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Yes he going to build her a door so he can kick her out of it
More like smash her back doors in
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You are young it’s not going to marriage and babies is it Amy
Who knows, plenty longterm couples got together as teenagers/early 20s.
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Any ways amy thought you said you would rather have a rub.
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Who knows, plenty longterm couples got together as teenagers/early 20s.
I’d have a bet with you that they are not together in less than six months.
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