[Daniel.]

https://dailym.ai/2DgMtOd

He didnt know her age, is this fair?

[Morgan.]

It’s a tough one. He didn’t know obviously, but 12 year olds and 19 year olds can have lots of differences and he probably could’ve done more checks. But she should be having consequences too - she knew what she was doing.

[Livia]

He broke the law, ignorance is no excuse. However, surely the mother must have wondered where her 12 year old child was? She would have known that she was registered on a dating site, because who lets their 12 year old free on the Internet? Maybe social services should be involved, if they're not already.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Blurryface

It’s a tough one. He didn’t know obviously, but 12 year olds and 19 year olds can have lots of differences and he probably could’ve done more checks. But she should be having consequences too - she knew what she was doing.

The 12 year old should have consequences? The child you mean, know what she was doing with all her vast experiences? Lock her up maybe? For what exactly?

Anyway ontopic, it's a tough one, if he genuinely believed she was older but I can't see how a 12 year old could look 18 (which tbf if you're meeting people through an app like that you should really make sure if they look borderline) Also sending naked photos of her to his friends, grim

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Livia

He broke the law, ignorance is no excuse. However, surely the mother must have wondered where her 12 year old child was? She would have known that she was registered on a dating site, because who lets their 12 year old free on the Internet? Maybe social services should be involved, if they're not already.

It says in the article :

The girl, who is known to regularly go missing from home,

[Liam-]

I’m of the belief that anyone underage that lies about their age to sleep with someone should face consequences, it can ruin people’s lives, especially if they have fake id’s to get into clubs and stuff, cause if you meet someone in a club and they’re drinking you’re bound to assume that they’re above 18.

However, in this case, I refuse to believe that you wouldn’t know that someone was 12 years old

[Morgan.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

The 12 year old should have consequences? The child you mean, know what she was doing with all her vast experiences? Lock her up maybe? For what exactly?

Anyway ontopic, it's a tough one, if her genuinely believed she was older but I can't see how a 12 year old could look 18 (which tbf if you're meeting people through an app like that you should really make sure if they look borderline) Also sending naked photos of her to his friends, grim

You don’t set up a dating profile posing as someone older, meet up with a guy and have sex for an after homework activity exactly though.

I’m not saying lock her up - but she’s not innocent in this.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

I’m of the belief that anyone underage that lies about their age to sleep with someone should face consequences, it can ruin people’s lives, especially if they have fake id’s to get into clubs and stuff, cause if you meet someone in a club and they’re drinking you’re bound to assume that they’re above 18.

However, in this case, I refuse to believe that you wouldn’t know that someone was 12 years old

At 12 though, they're only kids, 12 is too young to say they should "know what they're doing" etc If a 12 year old is doing this kind of stuff, they have issues that need dealing with, maybe a bad up bringing or mental health issues imo

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Blurryface

You don’t set up a dating profile posing as someone older, meet up with a guy and have sex for an after homework activity exactly though.

I’m not saying lock her up - but she’s not innocent in this.

She's a kid ffs If the age of consent is 17 (or 16 in the UK?) why is that? Is it because people under that age are deemed to not be old enough mentally or emotionally (and physically)? yet you think they should be old enough to be punished for some sort of sexual entrapment? If that's the case why have age limits on anything at all?

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

At 12 though, they're only kids, 12 is too young to say they should "know what they're doing" etc If a 12 year old is doing this kind of stuff, they have issues that need dealing with, maybe a bad up bringing or mental health issues imo

Oh no, I agree with you on this case, I don’t see how it’s possible for anyone to think a 12 year old looks 19, I was taking about in general

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It says in the article :

The girl, who is known to regularly go missing from home,

Then Social Services are involved. Someone's let this kid down, not just the man who slept with her.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Livia

Then Social Services are involved. Someone's let this kid down, not just the man who slept with her.

Yes definitely

[Morgan.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

She's a kid ffs If the age of consent is 17 (or 16 in the UK?) why is that? Is it because people under that age are deemed to not be old enough mentally or emotionally (and physically)? yet you think they should be old enough to be punished for some sort of sexual entrapment? If that's the case why have age limits on anything at all?

And the age of criminal responsibility is 12, therefore she’s old enough to know what she did was wrong.

I’m not saying he’s any less in the wrong but she is partly responsible.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Blurryface

And the age of criminal responsibility is 12, therefore she’s old enough to know what she did was wrong.

I’m not saying he’s any less in the wrong but she is partly responsible.

grim

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Blurryface

And the age of criminal responsibility is 12, therefore she’s old enough to know what she did was wrong.

I’m not saying he’s any less in the wrong but she is partly responsible.

Whether or not she knew what she was doing, if you have intercourse with a person under the age of 16, it is statutory rape whether or not the girl consents. She cannot legally give her consent because she's underage.

[Denver]

She shouldn't be allowed to ruin people's lives because she is only 12

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Livia

Whether or not she knew what she was doing, if you have intercourse with a person under the age of 16, it is statutory rape whether or not the girl consents. She cannot legally give her consent because she's underage.

Exactly. If she is also punished it makes the whole statuary rape law redundant really.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Adam.

She shouldn't be allowed to ruin people's lives because she is only 12

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Adam.

She shouldn't be allowed to ruin people's lives because she is only 12

She didn't ruin anyone's life. She is underage.

[Morgan.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Exactly. If she is also punished it makes the whole statuary rape law redundant really.

How so? He’s still being punished for his actions but she’s catfished him and posed as someone she isn’t to have sex - that’s messed up.

[bitontheslide]

people generally know a persons age in relation to their own friends. I don't believe for a second that a 27 year old man thought she was anything other than too young. He may not have known her specific age, but he would have known something wasn't right. I consider that taking advantage.

[Amy Jade]

I feel a bit sorry for him because she did lie to him but he was stupid to believe a 12 year old looked 19.

It's a tough situation.

[Alf]

It comes down to self control. Sleeping with someone should be a big step, and you should really know a bit about the person, instead of diving in blindfolded.

We're all responsible for our own actions, think your decisions through, be smart and be disciplined.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Blurryface

How so? He’s still being punished for his actions but she’s catfished him and posed as someone she isn’t to have sex - that’s messed up.

She. Is. Underage.

And you know, I've got a niece who's 14, she's very mature for her age, but when I spend time with her it's obvious she's only 14. I find it hard to believe this man at 27 didn't smell a rat.

[Jordan.]

He sounds like trash just for taking photos of her to send to his friend bragging. ELECTRIC CHAIR.