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08-03-2019, 01:12 PM | #26 | |||
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I feel like if it isn’t a collective say it’s not a very healthy relationship. Having a baby and being a parent is a pretty ****ing life changing decision. It’s unfair on either party if anyone goes behind anyone’s back to do something this important. Of course this situation is a bit different and it is as if he wanted to force her to be a mom, but this is more @ people in this thread that it’s only up to the women, which seems a bit unfair
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08-03-2019, 01:14 PM | #27 | ||
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Until men can find a way to carry babies to term then it's completely the woman's decision. To suggest otherwise is a slippery slope.
As men, we must accept that our role in the child birth process is at the beginning and at the end. We're there for conception, We'll raise the child when it's born but during pregnancy, we can't take that burden for the woman instead, we can only watch and be supportive so we shouldn't have a say if a woman wants an abortion. Last edited by Tom4784; 08-03-2019 at 01:16 PM. |
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08-03-2019, 01:15 PM | #28 | |||
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08-03-2019, 01:19 PM | #29 | ||
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Then he should have worn a condom.
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08-03-2019, 01:19 PM | #30 | |||
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08-03-2019, 01:20 PM | #31 | ||
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08-03-2019, 01:21 PM | #32 | |||
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So your saying women cant be forced in to being a parent but men can? do you know how ****ed up that is?
women are just as guilty for unprotected sex its not a one way blame
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08-03-2019, 01:21 PM | #33 | ||
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Also, you can keep calling it a baby but it won't make it so, using emotive language won't make a bunch a cells a baby no matter how hard you try to push that false narrative.
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08-03-2019, 01:26 PM | #34 | ||
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I doubt there will ever be an occasion where I get someone pregnant unless it's mutually decided that it's what we both want, if men aren't that careful then it's their own fault that they'll have to put money forward for a baby in nine months time. You can't compare men being forced to pay for a baby they created to forcing a woman through pregnancy. It's a stupid comparison. |
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08-03-2019, 01:28 PM | #35 | ||
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I guess I agree with the BIB, however... I also am inclined to agree with LT on this one. It's entirely at the woman's discretion if she chooses to discuss it, yes, BUT I would say that if she chooses not to it should be a MAJOR red flag that there is something very wrong and unhealthy with that relationship, and it should prompt both parties to seriously reconsider being in that relationship at all. Again the final decision is the womans and I'm not disputing that; but the attitude of "meh I'll just away and do it without mentioning it" being acceptable in a respectful adult relationship? Just... no. That relationship is trash. |
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08-03-2019, 01:32 PM | #36 | ||
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Biology is strong, we exist to reproduce, life finds a way. Unless one or both partners is actually infertile, there is no way to eliminate the risk of pregnancy. "Careful" just doesn't cut it. |
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08-03-2019, 01:39 PM | #37 | |||
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08-03-2019, 01:42 PM | #38 | ||
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The chances of a condom breaking or not working in any way is critically low, if that did happen to me and whoever I was with at the time wanted to keep the baby then I'd accept it and do the best I can. I don't want babies but you can sure as hell bet I wouldn't demand she have an abortion or think that I was right to. Like I said before though, I only tend to enter relationships with people are on the same page as me when it comes to the big picture. It's a conversation I always have early on because it's a deal breaker if we don't agree. |
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08-03-2019, 01:44 PM | #39 | ||
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08-03-2019, 01:49 PM | #40 | |||
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08-03-2019, 01:54 PM | #42 | |||
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08-03-2019, 01:55 PM | #43 | ||
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If you separate a fetus from the womb, it will die pretty quickly because it can't exist outside of the womb or a womb-like environment.
Babies can support their own life but not their needs, just like any other person, they'll die without food or water. You can't compare the two with a straight face. |
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08-03-2019, 01:57 PM | #44 | |||
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08-03-2019, 02:05 PM | #45 | ||
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As for the condom argument, that is why most of the women I've been with are either on the pill or have an implant, it's nigh on impossible for both to fail at the same time. |
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08-03-2019, 02:29 PM | #46 | ||
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08-03-2019, 02:33 PM | #47 | ||
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Well not to do a Livia and jobgasm, but if you understand odds and probability, you also understand that increasing the number of fixed variables doesn't change the fact that more chances = more likelihood. I mean if you want actual figures;
Condom failure is 98% (thus odds of failure are 50/1) The pill has a "perfect" (lab) rate of 99% but a "real terms" rate of 91%, we'll split the difference and call that 95% or 20/1 The combined odds therefore are 50/1x20/1 = 1000/1, or 99.99% effective. Which means if a couple is together for 10 years and has sex 100 times per year, using condoms and the pill, it is probable that they will experience one failure. I personally think with the best will in the world perfect usage is unlikely and even that 1000/1 figure is unrealistic, but I suppose with extreme vigilance possible. That doesn't really mean much in real world scenarios, though. As most are only using one form of contraception the failure rate is 1 or 2 in 100, which means if a couple has sex 100 times a year, they will have 1 or 2 failures a year. If they have sex 200 times a year, they will have 2 to 4 failures. And so on. Again... you literally cannot argue against the maths of probability, it's not possible. If it was the scumbags I work for wouldn't be in business . Last edited by Toy Soldier; 08-03-2019 at 02:47 PM. |
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08-03-2019, 02:50 PM | #49 | ||
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My sister is pregnant currently. Her partner was using condoms and she was on contraception too. Very very rare, but it does happen still even with multiple contraception methods. The only way to definitely not get pregnant/get someone pregnant is to never have sex. I was going to say be sterilized, however a man I know got that done and then got his wife pregnant a few years later!
Obviously condoms lessen the risks though, massively.
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08-03-2019, 02:55 PM | #50 | |||
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Sex 100 times a year?
Bloody Hell TS this isnt Caligula |
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