[Liam-]

Vicky is great, she does a great job, it just seems like certain members are very keen on trying to demean the mods because they’re the ones who keep getting reprimanded for their actions (rightly reprimanded) if you don’t like the consequences of breaking the rules constantly and so obviously, then don’t do it, or leave, don’t harass and victimise people because they enforce the rules you agreed to, it’s like going into a library and having a tantrum when being told to be keep quiet, bizarre

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Perhaps Vicky should have been the person having a word.....IN PRIVATE.

Actually mods do give public warnings from time to time, so Vicky was within her rights to do that.
The only mistake she made was to doubt her decision bc it gave you the opening to criticise her

[Vicky.]

Parm I am sorry if I have made you paranoid, seriously. I just could not watch that going on and say nowt. I did not use any names, but I admit I heavily insinuated which I already know I shouldn't have done. But..it was a on off. Dependant entirely on the specific situation at the time, rather than something I would just...do for the sake of it.

Either way, nothing I can do about it now. Not arsed about being demodded either, so if you want to push for that, go for it, really

[Nicky91]

getting obsessed with mods is a thing for some people to destroy them

but honestly i get the feeling it was getting too hot on their feet, Dezzy and now Vicky are onto them and they can't take that


Vicky stay as a mod, don't let yourself get pushed away, like they did to dezzy already

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Parm I am sorry if I have made you paranoid, seriously. I just could not watch that going on and say nowt. I did not use any names, but I admit I heavily insinuated which I already know I shouldn't have done. But..it was a on off. Dependant entirely on the specific situation at the time, rather than something I would just...do for the sake of it.

Either way, nothing I can do about it now. Not arsed about being demodded either, so if you want to push for that, go for it, really

Dont you dare. You are a great mod and dont let anyone tell you otherwise

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

The trust of a lot of good members was destroyed that day by Vicky's actions, she destroyed what bit of trust people had in her ,and agree she chose who to do it to to creep up the backsides of certain members ,she should have followed her fellow ex mod up the road !!

Ha. Ha. Ha.

Yes, because licking arse is totally my thing I don't regularly piss multiple members off by posting strong opinions and specifically refusing to moderate my language/opinions to suit others and make them happy.

A lot of good members eh..I do wonder.

[Matthew.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

The trust of a lot of good members was destroyed that day by Vicky's actions, she destroyed what bit of trust people had in her ,and agree she chose who to do it to to creep up the backsides of certain members ,she should have followed her fellow ex mod up the road !!

Two. If that. Not “a lot” when there’s over 65k members on this site. Stop being so bloody ridiculous and nasty.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Matthew.

Two. If that. Not “a lot” when there’s over 65k members on this site. Stop being so bloody ridiculous and nasty.

When did you see more than a couple of hundred ( at the very most) on here ? ask yourself why that is

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

When did you see more than a couple of hundred ( at the very most) on here ? ask yourself why that is

at a guess I'd say because Big Brother was cancelled?

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

When did you see more than a couple of hundred ( at the very most) on here ? ask yourself why that is

i saw one time not so long ago, the weekend before i went on holiday, also a bit of tension on here, and i saw we got 66 or 67 members online at that time

[reece(:]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

When did you see more than a couple of hundred ( at the very most) on here ? ask yourself why that is

So the mods scared off 64,800 members? Their power

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

The trust of a lot of good members was destroyed that day by Vicky's actions, she destroyed what bit of trust people had in her ,and agree she chose who to do it to to creep up the backsides of certain members ,she should have followed her fellow ex mod up the road !!

Did she make you ridicule others for reporting while you yourself were the one doing that?
Is that what a "good member" does?
Why dont you take responsibility for your actions?

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

at a guess I'd say because Big Brother was cancelled?

No, it’s obviously because the mods don’t tolerate trolls, god Niamh keep up

[Matthew.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

When did you see more than a couple of hundred ( at the very most) on here ? ask yourself why that is

Yes Chuff, like 64,800 members were so disgusted, and APALLED at you being called out on your BS that they decided to leave the forum.

[Matthew.]

Originally Posted by reece(:

So the mods scared off 64,800 members? Their power

Oh wow great minds

[Nicky91]

not everyone is here every day because some of got their own lives maybe

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by reece(:

So the mods scared off 64,800 members? Their power

Who needs an army when you have Niamh and Vicky

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Liam-

Vicky is great, she does a great job, it just seems like certain members are very keen on trying to demean the mods because they’re the ones who keep getting reprimanded for their actions (rightly reprimanded) if you don’t like the consequences of breaking the rules constantly and so obviously, then don’t do it, or leave, don’t harass and victimise people because they enforce the rules you agreed to, it’s like going into a library and having a tantrum when being told to be keep quiet, bizarre

Reporting someone's offensive or baiting post is not against the rules....it is something that forum members can do without fear....or so we thought until.this unsavoury incident.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by parmnion

Reporting someone's offensive or baiting post is not against the rules....it is something that forum members can do without fear....or so we thought until.this unsavoury incident.

Oh Vicky

[AnnieK]

I honestly don't understand the level of toxicity on here at times. I rarely post these days and it has nothing to do with the mods , just the level of toxic fumes that fill this forum these days coupled with the fact I have nothing interesting to say

Dragging this up does nothing other than fuel the fires so seems very counter-productive.

[parmnion]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

Actually mods do give public warnings from time to time, so Vicky was within her rights to do that.
The only mistake she made was to doubt her decision bc it gave you the opening to criticise her

Again......absolutely nothing to do with warnings or infractions...jog on.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Oh Vicky

First time I have ever heard/saw anything I did (ither online or irl) be described as unsavoury, oddly feels like an accomplishment?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

First time I have ever heard/saw anything I did (ither online or irl) be described as unsavoury, oddly feels like an accomplishment?

[Ant.]

Why are we still entertaining Parm? Better yet, why are we entertaining Chuff?

[bitontheslide]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I honestly don't understand the level of toxicity on here at times. I rarely post these days and it has nothing to do with the mods , just the level of toxic fumes that fill this forum these days coupled with the fact I have nothing interesting to say

Dragging this up does nothing other than fuel the fires so seems very counter-productive.

i think people are bored today and want a bit of drama .... there is just no need for it at all