[Vanessa]

This is hard for Curtis as well. Men have feelings as well.

[Trouble1321075]

Amy handled it all much better than i had anticipated she would. I suspect this may be an overly precutious move by the producers. They apparently recieved a record smount of letters expressing concerns for the psychological health of the islanders after the recoupling episode. The leters were mostly about amy.

I could see the show pulling her for sn examination and being public sbout it just to shut the twitter-verse up. She honestly seemed to be hsndling things in a healthy way.

[rionablue]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

To be honest I don't think Amy was a good choice for this show. Shes a bit of a vulnerable character anyway...plus having never had a boyfriend before but claims to have been used before by boys it was a gamble putting her in there.
I find it incredible that people can 'fall in love' so deeply in four weeks in a villa but then I guess they are with each other 24/7...

I feel for Amy...but if I was that distraught I would leave.

I absolutely agree. There are thousands apply for the show and those that are picked should be the best choice and to be honest Amys situation for a girl in her 20s was totally not the norm. She should crack on with another guy and let him do what he wants Maybe what goes round comes around like what happened once Yewande left

[Trouble1321075]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I agree rusti ,I find it strange that she has never had a boyfriend she's a lovely looking girl maybe shes just met the wrong sort for her.

I find her claim of never of having had a BF unbelievable. She showed no signs of reservations about committing to curtis and she handled the break up in a cool headed way. I think she is a liar.

[Vicky.]

I don't watch this but find this..ridiculous? She needs psychological help after being dumped by a guy on a show where basically..they are encouraged to swap partners constantly? Seems daft tbh. If the producers are genuinely worried about peoples mental health when being dumped, maybe they should not produce the show at all? Given thats kind of the whole point of it.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I don't watch this but find this..ridiculous? She needs psychological help after being dumped by a guy on a show where basically..they are encouraged to swap partners constantly? Seems daft tbh. If the producers are genuinely worried about peoples mental health when being dumped, maybe they should not produce the show at all? Given thats kind of the whole point of it.

He made her fall for him then when the public didnt vote them into the top 3 his head suddenly turned

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

This is hard for Curtis as well. Men have feelings as well.

Who said they don't...

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by WickedSkengMan

He made her fall for him then when the public didnt vote them into the top 3 his head suddenly turned

He finished it, because it wasn't working. The whole point of the show is to find someone you're compatible with. These two aren't.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by WickedSkengMan

He made her fall for him then when the public didnt vote them into the top 3 his head suddenly turned

But thats..the show? Its basically about faking relationships to try and win cash. yeah some genuine relationships come out of it, but the way the show it set up, its unlikely that its anything except percieved popularity that keeps them together..

If theres suddenly an issue with people getting dumped, then surely the producers should knock the show on the head completely, or change the setup.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by WickedSkengMan

He made her fall for him then when the public didnt vote them into the top 3 his head suddenly turned

Originally Posted by Vicky.

But thats..the show? Its basically about faking relationships to try and win cash. yeah some genuine relationships come out of it, but the way the show it set up, its unlikely that its anything except percieved popularity that keeps them together..

If theres suddenly an issue with people getting dumped, then surely the producers should knock the show on the head completely, or change the setup.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He finished it, because it wasn't working. The whole point of the show is to find someone you're compatible with. These two aren't.

I mean this man has admitted to cheating on every partner he had so he is a scumbag

[Denver]

I'm not being funny Vanessa but if the roles were reversed you would be laying into Amy

[Vanessa]

He's still young and making mistakes. No one is perfect.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He's still young and making mistakes. No one is perfect.

Young? He is a grown adult who constantly treats women like ****. And mistakes are never made twice because if your making them more then once it becomes a habit

[Ant.]

Amy is allowed to be hurt, no matter what the premise of the show is. She's human, she loved Curtis, and he hurt her, no matter what his intentions were.

Having to see the guy who hurt you 24/7 clearly isn't gonna help her heal, so I don't blame her for going to get a bit of support out of the villa. The pressure of being on national telly probably isn't helping, either. It's a bit different from a breakup on the outside IMO

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by WickedSkengMan

Young? He is a grown adult who constantly treats women like ****. And mistakes are never made twice because if your making them more then once it becomes a habit

He's only 23. Still has a lot of growing up to do.

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He's still young and making mistakes. No one is perfect.

I fail to see how cheating is a mistake he's 23, I'm pretty sure people realise cheating is wrong a lot younger than that

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Ant.

Amy is allowed to be hurt, no matter what the premise of the show is. She's human, she loved Curtis, and he hurt her, no matter what his intentions were.

Having to see the guy who hurt you 24/7 clearly isn't gonna help her heal, so I don't blame her for going to get a bit of support out of the villa. The pressure of being on national telly probably isn't helping, either. It's a bit different from a breakup on the outside IMO

I understand that. That's why I think it's better they broke up. The relationship was turning toxic.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Ant.

I fail to see how cheating is a mistake he's 23, I'm pretty sure people realise cheating is wrong a lot younger than that

I've done it myself when I was around his age. I was very immature myself. But then I grew up with age

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He's only 23. Still has a lot of growing up to do.

No excuse for being a twat who uses women. 23 is not young either tbh, I could maybe take age as part excuse if he was like..17/18.

Am not sticking up for the guy here btw, as I said I dont watch it. However as someone who doesnt watch, it seems very odd to me that producers are giving counselling to people who are dumped, given how the show works, it encourages situations like this for gods sake.. If they really think that it can cause mental health issues, the right thing to do would be to change up how the show works, or take it off air totally surely..

[michael21]

She can fly home as it part of her job

[Vicky.]

Having said that, I cheated on my ex with my current husband Technically. We were still living together, and I had tried to end the relationship but he wouldn't accept it, so technically we were together, but not really. I knew it was wrong, as does anyone who cheats. Even though my situation was only...half cheating as we were not together in any real sense, besides him desperately trying to cling on as I had told him to find someone where to live that was not my house

Twat then robbed my ****ing house, he left but took everything of value with him

Anyway, yeah, anyone who cheats knows how wrong it is. To be a serial cheater and proud, just says you are a wanker who thinks very lowly of your partners tbh. A user. Why get into relationships if you are just going to cheat..there are loads of single people who just want sex..do that instead!

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

No excuse for being a twat who uses women. 23 is not young either tbh, I could maybe take age as part excuse if he was like..17/18.

Am not sticking up for the guy here btw, as I said I dont watch it. However as someone who doesnt watch, it seems very odd to me that producers are giving counselling to people who are dumped, given how the show works, it encourages situations like this for gods sake.. If they really think that it can cause mental health issues, the right thing to do would be to change up how the show works, or take it off air totally surely..

Two LI stars across 4 series killed themselves, and it seems the aftercare is to blame. Not to say producers are at fault, but it does seem like Love Island's producers don't prioritise mental health

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Ant.

Two LI stars across 4 series killed themselves, and it seems the aftercare is to blame. Not to say producers are at fault, but it does seem like Love Island's producers don't prioritise mental health

Hmm, I wouldn't say its the aftercare, but the show and the setup itself tbh. Its brutal, the premise of it and how it plays out. Have only watched part of one series, last year with that Adam dude. It seemed..exploitative to me, playing with peoples emotions for 'good tv'. Mind, I would bet those who do watch it think differently, its easy to be dismissive of a TV show when you are not invested in it I guess.

[rusticgal]

As much as I feel for Amy...and as much as I feel for any of them who get dumped or mugged off...its the name of the show. They know what they signed up for. Don't go in there if you have been mugged off before and feel vulnerable..because the chances of it happening in the villa are quite high..and on NTV.
They all know what they are doing...they all say they have gone on there to find love...but they have also gone on there to up their profile and self exposure. So I really don't buy too much of it.