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CBB14 Celebrity Big Brother 2014 (CBB14) was shown in August and September 2014, and was won by Gary Busey. Discuss the series and housemates here.
Housemates (tags): Audley, Claire, David, Dee, Edele, Angelique 'Frenchy', Gary, George, James, Kellie, Lauren, Leslie, Ricci, Stephanie, HM Fan clubs (appreciation)

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Old 28-08-2014, 10:12 AM #1
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And I appreciate your concern.. and that is what is making me realise the changes I have to make.....
Gary Busey... 27/8/14.. 36:57 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILGrtKezS9s


yes Gary really feels victimised and feels bullied by James..
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Doesn't matter how Gary feels. James shouldn't be treating him that way.
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Doesn't matter how Gary feels. James shouldn't be treating him that way.

The man does not feel as though James is treating him badly for crying out loud.

How many more times does this have to be said? How can people be offended on someone elses behalf when they themselves are not offended?/
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Um.. where has this Bully stuff come from James is not a bully, James is just an annoying twat who is obsessed with Gary for some reason
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I don't like James, but he is NOT bullying Gary ffs.

Yes, he comes across as very patronising sometimes, but at least he actually speaks and acknowledges Gary, last night on the feed, a few of the HMs were just ignoring Gary
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Um.. where has this Bully stuff come from James is not a bully, James is just an annoying twat who is obsessed with Gary for some reason
it has been said many many times on this forum that James is bullying Gary, bullying, victimising and isolating.. it's utter crap.

James is trying to HELP Gary, he could just sit back and take the piss out of him like the rest of them do..
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Speaking extra clearly to help a had of hearing person can sometimes come across as patronising.
As much as I find James a bit of a twit, he is the only one in there that takes the time to really talk to Gary, and to try and help him.
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And I appreciate your concern.. and that is what is making me realise the changes I have to make.....
Gary Busey... 27/8/14.. 36:57 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ILGrtKezS9s


yes Gary really feels victimised and feels bullied by James..
How evil is James to poor picked on Busey ? disgusting ,kick him out NOW
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The man does not feel as though James is treating him badly for crying out loud.

How many more times does this have to be said? How can people be offended on someone elses behalf when they themselves are not offended?/
James's behaviour could quite easily offend and upset Gary. If a little kid was punching someone like David, for example, it wouldn't hurt David. But it doesn't mean that it's right for the little kid to be punching somebody.

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it has been said many many times on this forum that James is bullying Gary, bullying, victimising and isolating.. it's utter crap.

James is trying to HELP Gary, he could just sit back and take the piss out of him like the rest of them do..
James does also do that...
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it has been said many many times on this forum that James is bullying Gary, bullying, victimising and isolating.. it's utter crap.

James is trying to HELP Gary, he could just sit back and take the piss out of him like the rest of them do..
James likes to appear to try to help, whilst rolling his eyes and losing patience...

As for taking the piss, I think you'll find James does more than his share of that also.
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Speaking extra clearly to help a had of hearing person can sometimes come across as patronising.
As much as I find James a bit of a twit, he is the only one in there that takes the time to really talk to Gary, and to try and help him.
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James's behaviour could quite easily offend and upset Gary. If a little kid was punching someone like David, for example, it wouldn't hurt David. But it doesn't mean that it's right for the little kid to be punching somebody.



James does also do that...
no evidence that gary is hurt or offended by james..
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I don't think anyone is trying to say Gary is hurt or offended, but that doesn't excuse James' behaviour.

Gary is odd. Chances are he isn't hurt or offended, but James and some others are behaving terribly.
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I dont think James is bullying Gary. Yes he has made a big effort with Gary since BB pulled him up over the behaviour but it is the helping him and then slagging/ ridiculing him behind his back i dont like.
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I dont think James is bullying Gary. Yes he has made a big effort with Gary since BB pulled him up over the behaviour but it is the helping him and then slagging/ ridiculing him behind his back i dont like.
Same. It's all very playground.
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I don't think anyone is trying to say Gary is hurt or offended, but that doesn't excuse James' behaviour.

Gary is odd. Chances are he isn't hurt or offended, but James and some others are behaving terribly.

James is trying his best with him.. against the odds in fairness. Gary is rude and unappreciative and in all honesty, if I was trying to help someone like that, I'd bin it.
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James is trying his best with him.. against the odds in fairness. Gary is rude and unappreciative and in all honesty, if I was trying to help someone like that, I'd bin it.
I think people would have more respect for James if he didn't bother trying with Gary, rather than helping him then taking the piss as soon as his back is turned.
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I don't think anyone is trying to say Gary is hurt or offended, but that doesn't excuse James' behaviour.

Gary is odd. Chances are he isn't hurt or offended, but James and some others are behaving terribly.
What behaviour are you talking about ?
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James is trying to HELP Gary, he could just sit back and take the piss out of him like the rest of them do..
Why is James trying to help Gary?

Is he doing off his own back and out of the kindness of his heart?

Or is he doing it because Big Brother called him into the diary room and asked him to look out for Gary?
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What behaviour are you talking about ?
His snidey remarks, eye rolling and name-calling.
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His snidey remarks, eye rolling and name-calling.
I can honestly say I've never seen this, please post a video ,thanks
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I think people would have more respect for James if he didn't bother trying with Gary, rather than helping him then taking the piss as soon as his back is turned.
Have you ever had to deal with someone who is like Gary? I have. It's frustrating and sometimes, you just need to take the piss to get by.
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it has been said many many times on this forum that James is bullying Gary, bullying, victimising and isolating.. it's utter crap.

James is trying to HELP Gary, he could just sit back and take the piss out of him like the rest of them do..
Ah but he does that is why he is so two faced.......
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Ah but he does that is why he is so two faced.......

He does help him though.. he could just do nothing.
I think it would probably be for the best if he did just leave him alone and let him struggle and ignore him... James would be better thought of... and a lot less frustrated too no doubt!!!!!
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