[Nancy.]

I can't believe he was kicked out for that.

It looked to me like he was taking the piss out of Joel, so I don't think he meant any harm. It was just a bit of fun. Do you think if Joel hadn't have kicked up such a stink in the diary room Aaron would still be there?

[Liam-]

What does it matter if he want erect or not? What a ridiculous this to say

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

What does it matter if he want erect or not? What a ridiculous this to say

If Aaron had been erect it would be a clear indication that he was taking it seriously...but he wasn't. I can't believe you even asked such a silly question.

[JPG2502]

if Joel had said he was perfectly fine with Aarons behaviour, then im pretty sure he would not have been kicked out.
However it was clear Joel was not fine, and i think it was right to kick Aaron out, his letching over Joel if anything was becoming uncomfortable to watch.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Nancy Littlebottom

I can't believe he was kicked out for that. He wasn''t even bloody erect.

It looked to me like he was taking the piss out of Joel, so I don't think he meant any harm. It was just a bit of fun. Do you think if Joel hadn't have kicked up such a stink in the diary room Aaron would still be there?

Oh Yh he wasn't erect. It's like that time a girl started fingering herself but it was okay cus she wasn't even wet. Get a grip and then get out.

[Nancy.]

DELETED!

[Liam-]

Lord have mercy

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by JPG2502

if Joel had said he was perfectly fine with Aarons behaviour, then im pretty sure he would not have been kicked out.
However it was clear Joel was not fine, and i think it was right to kick Aaron out, his letching over Joel if anything was becoming uncomfortable to watch.

[Cherie]

I'm with you tonight Nancy

[Vicky.]

Joel didnt kick up a fuss though, he just said he was uncomfortable and had never been in that situation before. This is reminding me a bit of people blaming Hazel for Daleys ejection tbh...its ridiculous.

Its been clear for a while now that he isnt comfortable with Aarons constant attempts. And it reached a head tonight. It was really uncomfortable to watch for me

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I'm with you tonight Nancy

j

Really??...you are in the minority.

Good riddance to him...he was bang out of order.

[TheElusiveChanteuse]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

never been in that situation before

A damn lie. He's mad it wasn't erect.

[Kizzy]

I think if Joel hadn't put the boot in it would've just been a warning.
I can't see a similarity between Joel and Hazel at all.

[Hofman]

Does it matter what Joel said, he's still a nob and still needs a charisma bypass.

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by JPG2502

if Joel had said he was perfectly fine with Aarons behaviour, then im pretty sure he would not have been kicked out.
However it was clear Joel was not fine, and i think it was right to kick Aaron out, his letching over Joel if anything was becoming uncomfortable to watch.

Then Joel should have nipped it in the bud as soon as it started. He should have spoken to Aaron in an authortive manner instead of giving out mixed signals. By laughing and doing nothing he was giving Aaron the indication that it WAS ok.

Aaron seems like the type of person who enjoys pushing people's buttons and seeing how they react. I don't even think he fancied Joel, tbh.

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I'm with you tonight Nancy

Thanks. It certainly makes a nice change.

[rionablue]

Originally Posted by Nancy Littlebottom

I can't believe he was kicked out for that. He wasn''t even bloody erect.

It looked to me like he was taking the piss out of Joel, so I don't think he meant any harm. It was just a bit of fun. Do you think if Joel hadn't have kicked up such a stink in the diary room Aaron would still be there?

He took it too far. It started off as a bit of a joke but Joel after awhile asked him to stop and tried to get away from him. When Joel went into the bathroom Aaron jumped into his bed and exposed himself again. In incidents like this BB always calls the 'victim' (so to speak) to the diary room to find out how they feel about it. They often ask them were they uncomfortable etc. This possibly makes up BB's mind on the whole situation as the last thing they want is a housemate who is totally uncomfortable about situations that might arise in the future with the other housemate

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

This is reminding me a bit of people blaming Hazel for Daleys ejection tbh...its ridiculous.

Wow really?

There was a massive difference between the two. Aaron was in front of a group of people and laughing, yes he took it too far but he clearly was just trying to make people laugh.

Daly physically held Hazel down and his whole demenor changed.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Wow really?

There was a massive difference between the two. Aaron was in front of a group of people and laughing, yes he took it too far but he clearly was just trying to make people laugh.

Daly physically held Hazel down and his whole demenor changed.

In the way that people are blaming the wrong person, yes. I'm not comparing the two situations, but even then it was Hazels fault according to some, same as this is Joels fault now...

[Northern Monkey]

I would hope so.People have been kicked for less.The Baywatch guy got booted for touching a dressing gown.BB will have asked Joel how he felt about having a gay man expose himself to him and touch him with his tallywhacker.Joel was undoubtedly uncomfortable as anyone would be.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Nancy Littlebottom

I can't believe he was kicked out for that. He wasn''t even bloody erect.

It looked to me like he was taking the piss out of Joel, so I don't think he meant any harm. It was just a bit of fun. Do you think if Joel hadn't have kicked up such a stink in the diary room Aaron would still be there?

..for me that wouldn't really make any difference, if Joel did 'milk it' in the DR..?..just because it doesn't change the actions of Aaron, only that he has given the opportunity for Joel to do that because of something Aaron did which was a complete invasion of his personal space ...I mean in a situation outside of the BB house, it would never be or should never be...oh if you hadn't highlighted this so much and said you felt uncomfortable then it would have all been acceptable so you have to accept some 'blame' as well...

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

j

Really??...you are in the minority.

Good riddance to him...he was bang out of order.

I don't care if I am in the minority, what has that got to do with anything, Aaron came straight out of the DR and apologised, he realised he had over stepped the mark, I could understand it if Aaron didn't accept any wrong doing, IMO Joel put the boot in due to them both being up for eviction,, as I have said in other threads Joel has been quite well able to stand up for himself in other situations, why he acted like a wilting violet in that one is pretty obvious to me

[jaxie]

I am surprised some of those blaming Joel seem unable to read body language. He was clearly quite upset by the situation, almost panicking in the way he was moving, running around, even escaping for a few minutes in the bathroom then he probably realised he could be caught alone and went back to the others.

Aside from the situation, the discomfort, the inappropriageness, people are also forgetting he kept getting naked in Joel's bed. I'd have wanted my sheets changed if someone had been rubbing their privates parts all over my bed.

[susie q]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I don't care if I am in the minority, what has that got to do with anything, Aaron came straight out if the DR and apologised, he realised he had over stepped the mark, I could understand it if Aaron didn't accept any wrong doing, IMO Joel put the boot in due to them both being up for eviction,, as I have said in other threads Joel has been quite well able to stand up for himself in other situations, why he acted like a wilting violet in that one is pretty obvious to me

Joel has told him to stop on several occassions to. Maybe that last one was the final straw. As other have said he was probably called in to the diary room and asked how he felt. Why would he lie about how he felt, bringing in the eviction thing is nonsense. Joel may not be the best of housemates but he still has the right to feel safe in the house.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by jaxie

I am surprised some of those blaming Joel seem unable to read body language. He was clearly quite upset by the situation, almost panicking in the way he was moving, running around, even escaping for a few minutes in the bathroom then he probably realised he could be caught alone and went back to the others.

Aside from the situation, the discomfort, the inappropriageness, people are also forgetting he kept getting naked in Joel's bed. I'd have wanted my sheets changed if someone had been rubbing their privates parts all over my bed.

But putting it in context Jaxie, if all this happened while they were alone in the bedroom it would be creepy and horrible, as it was it was being played out by a drunk Aaron clapped on by some of the house alphas in a fully lit bedroom with 40 cameras on them, there was no danger or malicious intent, He thought he was being funny and entertaining, if anyone had stepped up to the plate and asked him to stop, including Joel he would have