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luminoussun
23-07-2009, 10:51 AM
I have no problem with gay people and voted for brian to win (bb2)...and my sister is a lesbian.
But i do have a problem with watching a gay romance on big brother.
As much as i accept gay people kiss and hold hands and bum each other...I don't want to watch it on big brother.
I am a straight man and it repulses me to see it.
Big brother has done everything they can this year to make it happen and sometimes i wish they just get on with it get it over and done with so i can eat while i watch big brother again.

Ok now you can all call me homophobic :thumbs:

silversurfer
23-07-2009, 10:52 AM
Me thinks you doth protest too much?

tramp-stamp
23-07-2009, 10:53 AM
so you can eat while you watch?

minx36
23-07-2009, 10:53 AM
Turn your telly over, or switch off!

yvonnexx
23-07-2009, 10:53 AM
homop...:laugh3: just kidding, everyone is entitled to their own views on things, likes n dislikes etc

Lee.
23-07-2009, 10:53 AM
I don't think you're homophobic although plenty of people will probably disagree. I think you are the same as the majority of straight men!

Gav1983
23-07-2009, 10:53 AM
Did you have the same problem when kris and sophie kissed?

Or freddie and angel?

If not, then yes...you are homophobic ;)

superfanno1
23-07-2009, 10:54 AM
My proble with the gay characters is that they're so utterly predictable and boring.

I mean, david and charlie- two utterly interchangeable, prancing, mincing queens.

rodrigo - a hysterical queen.

They bring nothing to the house.

Marc
23-07-2009, 10:55 AM
It shouldn't matter whether your homophobic or not.. your opinion wont change about it, if it makes you feel awkward (which it does for me) then your not going to feel any different about it. Men can be with each other thats fine, its been a way of life for a long long time but like yeah we don't have to see the kissing. Infact Kris/Dogface kissing was awkward to watch so maybe you just have a problem with public kissing?

calyman
23-07-2009, 10:55 AM
Yes you are indeed homophobic, as I am breederphobic. Do you really think I want to see two breeders slobbering over each other all day. It's not that I hate breeders.....some of my best friends are that way inclined. But do we really need to see breeders exchange saliva and more on our TV's?

luminoussun
23-07-2009, 10:56 AM
Originally posted by Gav1983
Did you have the same problem when kris and sophie kissed?

Or freddie and angel?

If not, then yes...you are homophobic ;)

So not enjoying watching 2 men at is means i am homophobic?? ok fair enough :bigsmile:

muchadoaboutnothing
23-07-2009, 10:57 AM
Na you are not homophobic. You don't like watching two men kissing etc (and there is no problem with your views). In much the same way there are many gay men (not all) who don't like to see men and women kissing etc.

Luanda
23-07-2009, 10:57 AM
Throw a skirt on Rodrigo and I might.

IsleOfWeather
23-07-2009, 10:58 AM
no man or woman in the UK wants to see 2 blokes kiss each other, unless they are gay.

You can accept it as what happens but you dont have to like it.

tramp-stamp
23-07-2009, 10:58 AM
I find myself agreeing with superfanno1, but it extends to most levels of the housemate selection process

BitterFruit
23-07-2009, 10:58 AM
Originally posted by luminoussun
I have no problem with gay people and voted for brian to win (bb2)...and my sister is a lesbian.
But i do have a problem with watching a gay romance on big brother.
As much as i accept gay people kiss and hold hands and bum each other...I don't want to watch it on big brother.
I am a straight man and it repulses me to see it.
Big brother has done everything they can this year to make it happen and sometimes i wish they just get on with it get it over and done with so i can eat while i watch big brother again.

Ok now you can all call me homophobic :thumbs:

try flicking through a copy of "What Car" whilst its on...i believe many straight men find this soothing......

personally all sex makes me vomit...i wonder if i'm doing it right:puzzled:

ConnieLingus
23-07-2009, 11:00 AM
Originally posted by Gav1983
Did you have the same problem when kris and sophie kissed?

Or freddie and angel?

If not, then yes...you are homophobic ;)

So now it is homophobic to be repulsed by unnatural acts?

I thought the whole idea of tolerance for gays was that they cannot help the way they feel, and neither do they want to change the way they feel?

How does that not apply to someone who is repulsed by homosexuality?

30stone
23-07-2009, 11:00 AM
I agree with you i have nothing against them, i just dont want to watch it to be honest..

IsleOfWeather
23-07-2009, 11:01 AM
Originally posted by 30stone
I agree with you i have nothing against them, i just dont want to watch it to be honest..

i think most folks agree

muchadoaboutnothing
23-07-2009, 11:01 AM
I dnon'don't want to watch it - I want to take part in it. lol.

Twiggy
23-07-2009, 11:03 AM
I don't want to see anyone get it on whatever their sexual preference. It isn't what interest me in the programme.

luminoussun
23-07-2009, 11:03 AM
Originally posted by Luanda
Throw a skirt on Rodrigo and I might.
lol he says he is bi but he seems more gay then charlie and david

IsleOfWeather
23-07-2009, 11:03 AM
Nowadays (especially forums) you can be called homophobic if you dont happen to agree with a homosexual point of view. It seems to be a defence mechanism.

luminoussun
23-07-2009, 11:06 AM
Originally posted by 30stone
I agree with you i have nothing against them, i just dont want to watch it to be honest..
a guy on big mouth said it best.
I don't mind spiders the same as i don't mind gays.But i would'nt want to go home one night and find one in me bath. :bigsmile:

Marc
23-07-2009, 11:07 AM
Originally posted by luminoussun
Originally posted by 30stone
I agree with you i have nothing against them, i just dont want to watch it to be honest..
a guy on big mouth said it best.
I don't mind spiders the same as i don't mind gays.But i would'nt want to go home one night and find one in me bath. :bigsmile:

LOL very true

Gav1983
23-07-2009, 11:08 AM
Originally posted by luminoussun
Originally posted by Gav1983
Did you have the same problem when kris and sophie kissed?

Or freddie and angel?

If not, then yes...you are homophobic ;)

So not enjoying watching 2 men at is means i am homophobic?? ok fair enough :bigsmile:

You asked :tongue:

I gave my opinion...not saying Im right

StevieGeire
23-07-2009, 11:09 AM
to be honest i hate all bb romance's cause most are fake and the rest are mostly shallow heads aka dale jen mikey grace channell ziggy kris (like dogface) though.

suttin
23-07-2009, 11:11 AM
it makes me feel ill to watch 2 guys kissing if im being completely honest. Im sure Every guy I know would feel the same.

Gav1983
23-07-2009, 11:14 AM
Originally posted by suttin
it makes me feel ill to watch 2 guys kissing if im being completely honest. Im sure Every guy I know would feel the same.

How do you feel watching 2 girls kiss? :laugh:

30stone
23-07-2009, 11:14 AM
Originally posted by Marcjswp
Originally posted by luminoussun
Originally posted by 30stone
I agree with you i have nothing against them, i just dont want to watch it to be honest..
a guy on big mouth said it best.
I don't mind spiders the same as i don't mind gays.But i would'nt want to go home one night and find one in me bath. :bigsmile:

LOL very true

Yeah i heard that before.

Though i hate spiders in general they scare me..:sad:

Marc
23-07-2009, 11:14 AM
Originally posted by Gav1983
Originally posted by suttin
it makes me feel ill to watch 2 guys kissing if im being completely honest. Im sure Every guy I know would feel the same.

How do you feel watching 2 girls kiss? :laugh:


pretty damn good

IsleOfWeather
23-07-2009, 11:15 AM
what about enjoying 2 homophobic men kissing, what would that be?

calyman
23-07-2009, 12:07 PM
Originally posted by IsleOfWeather
what about enjoying 2 homophobic men kissing, what would that be?
That would be them being honest about their feelings for the first time. :devil:

suttin
23-07-2009, 12:29 PM
Originally posted by Gav1983
Originally posted by suttin
it makes me feel ill to watch 2 guys kissing if im being completely honest. Im sure Every guy I know would feel the same.

How do you feel watching 2 girls kiss? :laugh:

Assuming the girls are hot, That's one of the most fantastic sights, and makes me feel happy...providing me with faith that the world can indeed be a wonderful place.

BigBummer
23-07-2009, 12:33 PM
I can see what you're saying. A gay couple looking at a staright couple won't tell you it repulses them but a straight guy looking at two blokes noshing each other off can turn some people off.. big time.

But I'd say the way to approach it is to understand it happens and just be aware that BB has a huge gay following and therefore it's bound to happen. Don't forget other people are watching the show as well.

I see exactly what you're saying though and it is completely natuaral to feel like this.. You are not homophobic, you just don't like c**k.

luminoussun
23-07-2009, 12:35 PM
Originally posted by Gav1983
Originally posted by suttin
it makes me feel ill to watch 2 guys kissing if im being completely honest. Im sure Every guy I know would feel the same.

How do you feel watching 2 girls kiss? :laugh:
we find women attractive so it's double the attraction...we don't find men attractive so it has the opposite effect

WAYNEEBRUM
23-07-2009, 12:37 PM
I cant watch 2 blokes kiss either or 2 butch lezbos.

DiamondDogTags
23-07-2009, 12:46 PM
Originally posted by superfanno1
My proble with the gay characters is that they're so utterly predictable and boring.

I mean, david and charlie- two utterly interchangeable, prancing, mincing queens.

rodrigo - a hysterical queen.

They bring nothing to the house.

:thumbs:. Friends with the popular girl, flirt a little but don't really do much, and bitch constantly... :sleep::sleep::sleep:

sol
23-07-2009, 01:00 PM
If you're referring to Charlie and Rodrigo then I would say you're extremely homophobic. Since when has it been a romance? They've kissed once and even then it was in bed with the covers over so you couldn't even see anything, so any repulsion over this 'gay romance' you are having is a symptom of your own imagination. :whistle:

Shep
24-07-2009, 06:28 PM
You should say "I don't like watching other peoples sex lives" that would indeed not be homophobic.

If you dislike a gay couple kissing then that would not be homophobic, so long as you don't say "I want them to stop kissing".

I am a gay guy myself and don't mind kissing, whatever sex, but I wouldn't want to watch others having sex, regardless of what gender the two consenting adults are, that is THERE sex life not mine.

SiaSiaSia
24-07-2009, 06:29 PM
I personally don't think you're homophobic.

yodofrodo
24-07-2009, 06:32 PM
i hope they do get it on

even though homos are pretty much accepted and everyone knows what goes on behind closed doors, you hardly ever see a gay couple in public, nevermind a gay couple holding hands.

i think if two men were walking down the street holding hands, theyd get alot of abuse, because people are not used to seeing gay affection...so its good its on tv

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 06:32 PM
You seem a little bit homophobic (most straight men are).

I'm not saying you're a terrible person, but if you really had no problem with it, then it wouldn't bother you seeing it.

BringBackBB6!
24-07-2009, 06:34 PM
2 men kissing is the hottest thing ever, i dont understand heteros... how can you find a flange attractive?

tentpeg
24-07-2009, 06:36 PM
Ever noticed how only ugly people kiss each other out in the street? It may so much that they are gay - it could be that they are just not sexy! So many germs in saliva anyway, and what with swine flu 'n all...

ApplePie
24-07-2009, 06:36 PM
You're fully entitled to dislike it, just know that the gays will rest in the knowledge that your likes and dislikes have **** all importance when it comes to BB. :bigsmile:

Bombardier
24-07-2009, 06:39 PM
Originally posted by BringBackBB6!
2 men kissing is the hottest thing ever, i dont understand heteros... how can you find a flange attractive?

It's much better than a man's bum.

moveupandon
24-07-2009, 06:47 PM
Originally posted by luminoussun
I have no problem with gay people and voted for brian to win (bb2)...and my sister is a lesbian.
But i do have a problem with watching a gay romance on big brother.
As much as i accept gay people kiss and hold hands and bum each other...I don't want to watch it on big brother.
I am a straight man and it repulses me to see it.
Big brother has done everything they can this year to make it happen and sometimes i wish they just get on with it get it over and done with so i can eat while i watch big brother again.

Ok now you can all call me homophobic :thumbs:

honey all you need is a big dick in your arse...!

BringBackBB6!
24-07-2009, 06:49 PM
Originally posted by moveupandon
Originally posted by luminoussun
I have no problem with gay people and voted for brian to win (bb2)...and my sister is a lesbian.
But i do have a problem with watching a gay romance on big brother.
As much as i accept gay people kiss and hold hands and bum each other...I don't want to watch it on big brother.
I am a straight man and it repulses me to see it.
Big brother has done everything they can this year to make it happen and sometimes i wish they just get on with it get it over and done with so i can eat while i watch big brother again.

Ok now you can all call me homophobic :thumbs:

honey all you need is a big dick in your arse...!

OMG best statement ever! + karma! :joker:

a_2009
24-07-2009, 06:49 PM
Originally posted by yodofrodo
i hope they do get it on

even though homos are pretty much accepted and everyone knows what goes on behind closed doors, you hardly ever see a gay couple in public, nevermind a gay couple holding hands.

i think if two men were walking down the street holding hands, theyd get alot of abuse, because people are not used to seeing gay affection...so its good its on tv

After a few years heading down canal st, you get used to it. :wink:

Nah, i don't think you're homophobic to not want to watch two fellas kissing....most my male friends feel a bit awkward about it, but in reality if they saw two guys in the street they wouldn't give them any aggro for it.

BringBackBB6!
24-07-2009, 06:50 PM
Originally posted by Bombardier
Originally posted by BringBackBB6!
2 men kissing is the hottest thing ever, i dont understand heteros... how can you find a flange attractive?

It's much better than a man's bum.

I beg to differ

BringBackBB6!
24-07-2009, 06:51 PM
By the way luminoussun your avatar looks a bit gay

Shasown
24-07-2009, 06:58 PM
A lot of straight men cant stomach it, but the act feels natural to the two involved, if you dont like it, either look away or change the channel.

Its your choice to watch.Then again force yourself to watch it, it may act like aversion therapy.


Just as an aside, do you cringe when animals mate on nature programs?

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:01 PM
lemme see....if i want have a sex with man, i am normal. but if i don't like it, then i have somekinda phobia...:puzzled:

Shasown
24-07-2009, 07:04 PM
Yes it would seem if you have a natural aversion to something then there is something wrong with you.

Shaun
24-07-2009, 07:05 PM
Not homophobic at all. It's natural to not want to watch what you find sexually unattractive - but nobody would be forcing you to watch it.

arista
24-07-2009, 07:07 PM
Originally posted by luminoussun
I have no problem with gay people and voted for brian to win (bb2)...and my sister is a lesbian.
But i do have a problem with watching a gay romance on big brother.
As much as i accept gay people kiss and hold hands and bum each other...I don't want to watch it on big brother.
I am a straight man and it repulses me to see it.
Big brother has done everything they can this year to make it happen and sometimes i wish they just get on with it get it over and done with so i can eat while i watch big brother again.

Ok now you can all call me homophobic :thumbs:


No your not Homophobic.


You can look away at the bits you do not wish to see.

Problem Solved.

Chuckyegg
24-07-2009, 07:07 PM
if you feel uncomfortable at the sight or the thought of gay men together then you're either homophobic or gay...or both

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 07:07 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag
lemme see....if i want have a sex with man, i am normal. but if i don't like it, then i have somekinda phobia...:puzzled:

Most gay men don't wretch if they see a straight couple or two lesbians getting off so it seems silly that straight men would want to switch over if they saw two men kissing.

The obvious reason is because people aren't used to it and that's fair enough, but it just seems like the sort of attitude that enourages it to happen behind closed doors instead. I figured we were living in more enlightened times.

BringBackBB6!
24-07-2009, 07:08 PM
Everybody just face facts! Men are so much hotter than women!

mkdfan
24-07-2009, 07:08 PM
It would be a different matter if it was 2 women.

You think us gays want to watch 2 women kissing?

or even a straight couple kissing?

Who cares really.

I'm sure the majority of people here have eyelids and have the ability to shut them.

BringBackBB6!
24-07-2009, 07:09 PM
Originally posted by mkdfan
It would be a different matter if it was 2 women.

You think us gays want to watch 2 women kissing?

or even a straight couple kissing?

Who cares really.

I'm sure the majority of people here have eyelids and have the ability to shut them.

Yes but dont forget that the majority of women on BB that kiss are not even gay they are just doing the katy perry i kissed a girl and i liked it act

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:10 PM
Originally posted by Shasown
Yes it would seem if you have a natural aversion to something then there is something wrong with you.

so if gays don't like hetero sex, are they heterophobics then?

Captain.Remy
24-07-2009, 07:11 PM
I'm glad I'm not the only one to think so. I was rather ''''scared'''' to mention it but I see everybody is fine with it.

BringBackBB6!
24-07-2009, 07:12 PM
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
I'm glad I'm not the only one to think so. I was rather ''''scared'''' to mention it but I see everybody is fine with it.

scared to mention what?

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 07:13 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by Shasown
Yes it would seem if you have a natural aversion to something then there is something wrong with you.

so if gays don't like hetero sex, are they heterophobics then?

I don't switch over if I see two heteros or two lesbians kissing. I think this is the point.

mkdfan
24-07-2009, 07:14 PM
Originally posted by BringBackBB6!
Originally posted by mkdfan
It would be a different matter if it was 2 women.

You think us gays want to watch 2 women kissing?

or even a straight couple kissing?

Who cares really.

I'm sure the majority of people here have eyelids and have the ability to shut them.

Yes but dont forget that the majority of women on BB that kiss are not even gay they are just doing the katy perry i kissed a girl and i liked it act

That bugs me,

If straight women kiss its "HEY! look at me. I feel liberated!"
If straight men kiss its "EUGH! I aint no queer, I NEED MOUTHWASH!"

bullhaggis if u ask me.

ApplePie
24-07-2009, 07:15 PM
A vagina is probably the ugliest thing ever.

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:16 PM
Originally posted by mkdfan

That bugs me,

If straight women kiss its "HEY! look at me. I feel liberated!"
If straight men kiss its "EUGH! I aint no queer, I NEED MOUTHWASH!"

bullhaggis if u ask me.

guys ain't no mothers :tongue:

a_2009
24-07-2009, 07:16 PM
Originally posted by BringBackBB6!
Originally posted by mkdfan
It would be a different matter if it was 2 women.

You think us gays want to watch 2 women kissing?

or even a straight couple kissing?

Who cares really.

I'm sure the majority of people here have eyelids and have the ability to shut them.

Yes but dont forget that the majority of women on BB that kiss are not even gay they are just doing the katy perry i kissed a girl and i liked it act


Arghhhhhh Katy Perry.........i'm going to refrain from a long rant.

Chuckyegg
24-07-2009, 07:17 PM
Dont you think gay people get put off thier dinners every night of the week, year in, year out, watching you breeders at it like rabbits?

Captain.Remy
24-07-2009, 07:17 PM
Message original : BringBackBB6!
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
I'm glad I'm not the only one to think so. I was rather ''''scared'''' to mention it but I see everybody is fine with it.

scared to mention what?

That I'm not comfortable watching 2 guys kissing, in BB and in real life.

WAYNEEBRUM
24-07-2009, 07:17 PM
Originally posted by Chuckyegg
if you feel uncomfortable at the sight or the thought of gay men together then you're either homophobic or gay...or both
Or if u live in the real world u realise most straight men find the thought of two guys gettn it on revolting.It doesnt make me homophobic its just the way it is.

lily.
24-07-2009, 07:17 PM
Chuckyegg's avatar disturbs me...

Am I Gold-Lamé-Phobic?

Chuckyegg
24-07-2009, 07:18 PM
I tell you what - maybe the gay community should apologise for thier blatent public display of affection towards eachother and we will go and live in the sewers so that we dont put proper, normal, people off thier dinners anymore. how about that????

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:19 PM
Originally posted by BB_Eye
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by Shasown
Yes it would seem if you have a natural aversion to something then there is something wrong with you.

so if gays don't like hetero sex, are they heterophobics then?

I don't switch over if I see two heteros or two lesbians kissing. I think this is the point.

i dunno...some girls don't change the channel if they see guy/guy kissing (example rodrigo/charlie). so my question goes (again) if there are gays who don't like hetero kissing/action, are they heterophobics?

BringBackBB6!
24-07-2009, 07:20 PM
Originally posted by Chuckyegg
I tell you what - maybe the gay community should apologise for thier blatent public display of affection towards eachother and we will go and live in the sewers so that we dont put proper, normal, people off thier dinners anymore. how about that????

I'll pack the condoms

Shasown
24-07-2009, 07:21 PM
Doesnt really matter what people are averse to, either get used to it or avoid it(look away). Its not illegal, immoral or disgusting when two people care for each other.

Chuckyegg
24-07-2009, 07:22 PM
Originally posted by WAYNEEBRUM
Originally posted by Chuckyegg
if you feel uncomfortable at the sight or the thought of gay men together then you're either homophobic or gay...or both
Or if u live in the real world u realise most straight men find the thought of two guys gettn it on revolting.It doesnt make me homophobic its just the way it is.

most straight men do not find the thought of gay men getting it on revolting - stop transferring your own neurosis onto the rest of society. the only straight men who dont mind are straight men who are secure in their heterosexuality.

by the way, heterosexual means straight

Shasown
24-07-2009, 07:22 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag

i dunno...some girls don't change the channel if they see guy/guy kissing (example rodrigo/charlie). so my question goes (again) if there are gays who don't like hetero kissing/action, are they heterophobics?

Well people who like putting labels on others would probably say yes

arista
24-07-2009, 07:22 PM
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
I'm glad I'm not the only one to think so. I was rather ''''scared'''' to mention it but I see everybody is fine with it.


Of Course it is Fine to look away
at any bits.

You are not under Stinking New Labour
Dumb Education.

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:24 PM
Originally posted by Shasown
Originally posted by HarryRag

i dunno...some girls don't change the channel if they see guy/guy kissing (example rodrigo/charlie). so my question goes (again) if there are gays who don't like hetero kissing/action, are they heterophobics?

Well people who like putting labels on others would probably say yes

so you are heterophobic?

a_2009
24-07-2009, 07:24 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by BB_Eye
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by Shasown
Yes it would seem if you have a natural aversion to something then there is something wrong with you.

so if gays don't like hetero sex, are they heterophobics then?

I don't switch over if I see two heteros or two lesbians kissing. I think this is the point.

i dunno...some girls don't change the channel if they see guy/guy kissing (example rodrigo/charlie). so my question goes (again) if there are gays who don't like hetero kissing/action, are they heterophobics?

I think it's down to how you respond to the situation.
E.g. a straight guy walks down the street sees two men kissing thinks hmmm not my cup of tea continues walking...then no I wouldn't say that was homophobic.

If during the same situation the guy starts shouting out insults at the gay guys for kissing then yes i would say that is homophobic......

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 07:25 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by BB_Eye
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by Shasown
Yes it would seem if you have a natural aversion to something then there is something wrong with you.

so if gays don't like hetero sex, are they heterophobics then?

I don't switch over if I see two heteros or two lesbians kissing. I think this is the point.

i dunno...some girls don't change the channel if they see guy/guy kissing (example rodrigo/charlie). so my question goes (again) if there are gays who don't like hetero kissing/action, are they heterophobics?

I didn't realise that was your question. You said 'so if gays don't like hetero sex, are they heterophobics then?' assuming you meant actually taking part in it.

But seen as you put it that way, the answer would be 'yes'.

But I never find myself having that kind of response to witnessing male/female intimacy. We've grown up with it seeing it in TV and movies. It's the norm.

Shasown
24-07-2009, 07:25 PM
Err no, I like the girlfriend kissing me, and her flange is the sweetest I have tasted.

Captain.Remy
24-07-2009, 07:25 PM
Message original : Chuckyegg
most straight men do not find the thought of gay men getting it on revolting - stop transferring your own neurosis onto the rest of society. the only straight men who dont mind are straight men who are secure in their heterosexuality.

by the way, heterosexual means straight

Bull$hit. I'm comfortable with my sexuality, I'm straight, I don't find 2 gays kissing horrible or disgusting but it's not my thing. Gays are more accepted than ever but society isn't fully tolerant about it yet. You can't make people liking it or anything. It's not my cup of tea, it doesn't disturb me, it doesn't turn me on and it certainly doesn't make me feel comfortable.

Captain.Remy
24-07-2009, 07:27 PM
Message original : arista
Originally posted by Captain.Remy
I'm glad I'm not the only one to think so. I was rather ''''scared'''' to mention it but I see everybody is fine with it.


Of Course it is Fine to look away
at any bits.

You are not under Stinking New Labour
Dumb Education.

I thought being part of a religion is stinky ? :tongue: But then you know what I feel about it.

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:31 PM
Originally posted by BB_Eye


I didn't realise that was your question. You said 'so if gays don't like hetero sex, are they heterophobics then?' assuming you meant actually taking part in it.

But seen as you put it that way, the answer would be 'yes'.

But I never find myself having that kind of response to witnessing male/female intimacy. We've grown up with it seeing it in TV and movies. It's the norm.

there is lotsa hypocracy going on with heteros who don't like gays. as i said, why guy who don't like gay sex is called "homophobic", while gays who don't like hetero sex, are so called "normal" peoples. it's sad that everything normal is sick, and everything else is normal. oh well, i guess im sick then.

BBUK4LYFE
24-07-2009, 07:33 PM
You are not. I don't like seeing people kissing either.

Doesn't make you a homophobic.

WAYNEEBRUM
24-07-2009, 07:34 PM
i couldnt care less,i knw i wont be watchn if the cams r stuck on charl n rod.each to their own i say regardless of how sick it is.

arista
24-07-2009, 07:37 PM
Religion should be kept Private
Not Preached all over the place.

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:41 PM
and BI's...Andrew Dice Clay said it great "Bi sexual? Let's clear this up now! No such thing! You either suck d**k or you do not suck d**k. there is no in between. What do these guys get up in the morning and flip a coin? Tails; hair pie, heads; B*lls around the chin!"

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 07:42 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag

there is lotsa hypocracy going on with heteros who don't like gays. as i said, why guy who don't like gay sex is called "homophobic", while gays who don't like hetero sex, are so called "normal" peoples. it's sad that everything normal is sick, and everything else is normal. oh well, i guess im sick then.

If society accepts both heterosexuality and homosexuality, then we may aswell assume they are normal, move on and not get uncomfortable with the idea of them as an aspect of day to day life. Gay people's attitude to straight people isn't really a problem as far as I can see. There are still pockets of homophobia in society... expecially in small towns and religious communities. All of the idiots who write letters of complaints to regulators or TV channels because they showed something like a depiction of a gay couple before the watershed are bigoted straight people.

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:43 PM
Originally posted by BB_Eye
Originally posted by HarryRag

there is lotsa hypocracy going on with heteros who don't like gays. as i said, why guy who don't like gay sex is called "homophobic", while gays who don't like hetero sex, are so called "normal" peoples. it's sad that everything normal is sick, and everything else is normal. oh well, i guess im sick then.

If society accepts both heterosexuality and homosexuality, then we may aswell assume they are normal, move on and not get uncomfortable with the idea of them as an aspect of day to day life. Gay people's attitude to straight people isn't really a problem as far as I can see. There are still pockets of homophobia in society... expecially in small towns and religious communities. All of the idiots who write letters of complaints to regulators or TV channels because they showed something like a depiction of a gay couple before the watershed are bigoted straight people.

i ain't no religious, i am atheist. and i hate politics. but as i said, i'm sick because i don't like gays.

HELLIWONTGO
24-07-2009, 07:44 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag
and BI's...Andrew Dice Clay said it great "Bi sexual? Let's clear this up now! No such thing! You either suck d**k or you do not suck d**k. there is no in between. What do these guys get up in the morning and flip a coin? Tails; hair pie, heads; B*lls around the chin!"




Andrew the diceman clay was a sad racist/homophobic bigot who made his living playing to rednecks and morons
Not a good comedian like Bernard Manning!

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:45 PM
Originally posted by HELLIWONTGO
Originally posted by HarryRag
and BI's...Andrew Dice Clay said it great "Bi sexual? Let's clear this up now! No such thing! You either suck d**k or you do not suck d**k. there is no in between. What do these guys get up in the morning and flip a coin? Tails; hair pie, heads; B*lls around the chin!"




Andrew the diceman clay was a sad racist/homophobic bigot who made his living playing to rednecks and morons
Not a good comedian like Bernard Manning!

no he was not, hes till there and going strong. but i guess that all normal is sick

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 07:46 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag

i ain't no religious, i am atheist. and i hate politics. but as i said, i'm sick because i don't like gays.

So now you're saying you don't like gays?

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:48 PM
Originally posted by BB_Eye
Originally posted by HarryRag

i ain't no religious, i am atheist. and i hate politics. but as i said, i'm sick because i don't like gays.

So now you're saying you don't like gays?

i am phobic, bring on the stick and stones

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 07:49 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by BB_Eye
Originally posted by HarryRag

i ain't no religious, i am atheist. and i hate politics. but as i said, i'm sick because i don't like gays.

So now you're saying you don't like gays?

didn't you get it already? stone me

Well forgive me, but I thought you said you didn't want to be considered homophobic?

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 07:51 PM
Originally posted by BB_Eye
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by BB_Eye
Originally posted by HarryRag

i ain't no religious, i am atheist. and i hate politics. but as i said, i'm sick because i don't like gays.

So now you're saying you don't like gays?

didn't you get it already? stone me

Well forgive me, but I thought you said you didn't want to be considered homophobic?

i never said that. but there are gays who are heterophobics too.

Striptease
24-07-2009, 07:58 PM
I think I have problems with gays too lol. I find them disgusting especially when they are kissing and acting weird (like a gay) but I think im used to it now.

Fangz
24-07-2009, 08:02 PM
Yep, homomphobic and pathetic.

Saphire1
24-07-2009, 08:08 PM
Since Noirine told Charlie that he will be next out it seems he is resorting to desperate measures to get the camera on him - it wont work. I dont have a problem with people being gay but I certainly dont want to watch men kissing. Most people, if they are honest, feel that way - its a step too far.

Luanda
24-07-2009, 08:11 PM
Sexuality is about as important as shoe size or hair colour. It is the person who matters.

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 08:12 PM
Originally posted by Saphire1
Since Noirine told Charlie that he will be next out it seems he is resorting to desperate measures to get the camera on him - it wont work. I dont have a problem with people being gay but I certainly dont want to watch men kissing. Most people, if they are honest, feel that way - its a step too far.

Complain to Ofcom

Saphire1
24-07-2009, 08:15 PM
Why are there so many gay and bi-sexual HMs in the house this year? There is no eye candy for us girls (and please dont say Krss, he was very dull and looked like goat). Things began to look hopeful when Tom came in but now I read on another thread that he is bi too. Please, BB, no more mincing, steriotypical queens - put in some HOT HUNKS!!!!!!!!!!!

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 08:16 PM
Originally posted by Saphire1
Why are there so many gay and bi-sexual HMs in the house this year? There is no eye candy for us girls (and please dont say Krss, he was very dull and looked like goat). Things began to look hopeful when Tom came in but now I read on another thread that he is bi too. Please, BB, no more mincing, steriotypical queens - put in some HOT HUNKS!!!!!!!!!!!

Complain to Ofcom... it's a step too far.

Saphire1
24-07-2009, 08:24 PM
OFCOM will do naf all - recently I complained about yet another programme promoting the McCanns' lies but nothing was done.

ooops wrong forum

a_2009
24-07-2009, 08:28 PM
Complaining to OFCOM because of two men kissing on a tv show......bloody hell....lets go back to the days of stonewall ay

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 08:30 PM
Originally posted by a_2009
Complaining to OFCOM because of two men kissing on a tv show......bloody hell....lets go back to the days of stonewall ay

I'm just messing around. :whistle:

a_2009
24-07-2009, 08:35 PM
Originally posted by BB_Eye
Originally posted by a_2009
Complaining to OFCOM because of two men kissing on a tv show......bloody hell....lets go back to the days of stonewall ay

I'm just messing around. :whistle:

I took your comments to be sarcastic, it was the person who replied where i wasn't sure if they were being serious or not....:wink:

Cristina
24-07-2009, 08:37 PM
there is nothing wrong with disliking gays, no matter what people say. It is your right to like or dislike in this world.

BB_Eye
24-07-2009, 08:41 PM
Originally posted by Cristina
there is nothing wrong with disliking gays, no matter what people say. It is your right to like or dislike in this world.

Well it's not going to land you with a jail sentence, but it's still bloody stupid and ignorant to hate millions of people who have done nothing to you.

Just saying

moveupandon
24-07-2009, 08:43 PM
Originally posted by Striptease
I think I have problems with gays too lol. I find them disgusting especially when they are kissing and acting weird (like a gay) but I think im used to it now.

oh god, not another culturally inbred hompphobe... take a chill pill and get used to it mother ****er!

Cristina
24-07-2009, 08:45 PM
Originally posted by moveupandon
Originally posted by Striptease
I think I have problems with gays too lol. I find them disgusting especially when they are kissing and acting weird (like a gay) but I think im used to it now.

oh god, not another culturally inbred hompphobe... take a chill pill and get used to it mother *****r!

I hit a nerve did I? :dance::dance::dance:

Spike
24-07-2009, 08:50 PM
I think if you have a problem watching that then you are slightly homophobic at least
If you were not homophobic and you still had these feelings then what does that mean for those who don't have a problem watching a gay romance or gays who don't have a problem watching a straight romance.
If you were truely not homophobic then it wouldn't bother you in the slightest I guess.
I am shocked that the majority of straight people seemingly still think like this

niko
24-07-2009, 08:51 PM
boo to this thread, gays are gay, straights are straight

a_2009
24-07-2009, 08:52 PM
So working on that theory there's nothing wrong with disliking black people, or christians, or men, or women....

sod the individual...the complex intricacies that make up a person. Lets put a label on someone which completely defines everything they are and dislike them.....

Not a perspective i will ever have any time for!!

Saphire1
24-07-2009, 08:55 PM
You have to be wierd to want to watch any of them slurping each others faces off - its an insult to our intelligence as we know full well its fake 'showmance' carp. It turned my stomach when Siavash kissed Noirine after he had just eaten smoky bacon crisps - eeewwgghhh

niko
24-07-2009, 08:56 PM
the point is that people are who they are, unless it harms others then whats the problem with it

HarryRag
24-07-2009, 09:03 PM
Originally posted by Cristina
there is nothing wrong with disliking gays, no matter what people say. It is your right to like or dislike in this world.

but you and i are sick. don't you get it already?

andynsteve
24-07-2009, 09:26 PM
as a gay couple, BB cant discriminate against not havin gay ppl in the house, people of colour or whatever..its the 21st century...

guess u wouldnt have a problem if it were 2 girls kissing?

like ppl say u dont have to watch....part of the show is showing whats been happening with goings on in the house n friendships etc....think its cute,,,
dont bother us weather 2 guys kissin, 2 girls, male n female or a person of colour and a white person...whats the difference,,,love is love.

its kinda like someone applying to go into the house then moaning cos theres a gay person in there...majority of time there always is one in a series, ppl know what bb is about and can always turn off.

jgfrise
24-07-2009, 09:27 PM
And do you object to seeing Noirin and Siavash "getting it on". If you object to that then clearly you are not homophobic. If, however, it is just gay men getting it on that offends you, you clearly are homophobic.:puzzled:

ForbiddenSnowflake
24-07-2009, 09:31 PM
You have a choice to watch it or not.
There is internet catch-up services that enable you to fast-foward these days.
I campaign for gay rights and I'm sure lots of people would be offended by your remark.

Shasown
24-07-2009, 09:44 PM
Right personally I dont give a monkeys whether a person is white green yellow or day glo orange, if he follows labour, tory or whatever, id he bows to allah jesus, buddah or money. I couldnt give a monkey if he or she likes same sex both sexes or no sex.

A person's race,sexuality, religious belief or political following means nothing, its the person themselves that I interract with. As soon as the rest of the world realises that, the sooner we have a lot more understanding and a whole shed load of intolerance less.

and we will have a better world.

luminoussun
25-07-2009, 01:38 AM
Originally posted by niko
the point is that people are who they are, unless it harms others then whats the problem with it
IT harms my enjoyment of my favourite program....and many others by the look of this thread.
I am just saying i find it unpleasant to watch i am not knocking gays in any way...everyone to there own and all that....i just don't want to watch the all that bit :wink: