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amy-jayne
25-07-2009, 03:50 PM
Freddie tells Noirin why Marcus IS upset about the Siavash situation and how she in a way..led him on :dance2:

Off the channel 4 BB site:


The problem with sweeping stuff under the carpet is that eventually the pile of debris gets so big that it's impossible to ignore. And the situation between Marcus and Noirin has now left an unsightly mound in the House. Perhaps some plain speaking from Halfwit might help?

Halfwit and Siavash were in the Living Area talking about how Siavash should approach Marcus when Noirin walked in and plonked herself on the sofa next to them. The two boys made no attempt to disguise the fact they were talking about Marcus.

"I quite like the idea of pretending nothing happened and moving on," said Siavash.

Then Noirin decided to stir it up a bit. "Why do you think Marcus is upset?" she asked, as if she'd just arrived from another planet.

"Well, obviously he fancies you and you don't fancy him back so that is one level of upset," explained Halfwit. "But what's driving that more is the feeling that you've led him on," he added.

Noirin was gobsmacked. "How though?" she gasped.

But Halfwit was ready for her. "It's definitely a vibe that I picked up on - that both of you knew there was no way you two would hook up, but you were still kind of entertaining that in the way you were acting," he explained.

"How though? Give me examples," demanded Noirin, before affirming that she'd told Marcus plenty of times she was not interested in him.

"The words you say are a very small part of the communication," Halfwit explained. "It's not as straightforward as that. I do think that after a certain point, you were obviously awkward. Before that point, you might have been saying you were just friends, but you were communicating interest.

"Unfortunately, by this time Marcus had allowed himself to emotionally invest in the situation," he added.

For once, it appeared that Noirin was speechless.

SoberLikeGizmo
25-07-2009, 03:55 PM
This has been up allready... but i agree, halfwit all the way please :thumbs2:

amy-jayne
25-07-2009, 03:55 PM
Originally posted by ImDrunkerThenMoses
This has been up allready... but i agree, halfwit all the way please :thumbs2: ooops sorry didnt know, couldnt find anything on the Freddie thread :tongue:

IsleOfWeather
25-07-2009, 03:56 PM
If Hira was there she would have echoed Freddies thoughts and injected a joke or two one imagines

Luanda
25-07-2009, 03:57 PM
"Unfortunately, by this time Marcus had allowed himself to emotionally invest in the situation," he added.

Spot on Halfwit.

Zerger0
25-07-2009, 03:58 PM
Well done Freddie for telling things straight!

SoberLikeGizmo
25-07-2009, 03:59 PM
Originally posted by amy-jayne
Originally posted by ImDrunkerThenMoses
This has been up allready... but i agree, halfwit all the way please :thumbs2: ooops sorry didnt know, couldnt find anything on the Freddie thread :tongue:

Its okay.. ive done, i think everyone has putting a post that has allready been up... but its good because people who didnt see it can now read it :wink:

Sunny_Tsu
25-07-2009, 03:59 PM
"The words you say are a very small part of the communication," Halfwit explained. "It's not as straightforward as that. I do think that after a certain point, you were obviously awkward. Before that point, you might have been saying you were just friends, but you were communicating interest.

"Unfortunately, by this time Marcus had allowed himself to emotionally invest in the situation," he added.

For once, it appeared that Noirin was speechless.

Busted! :wavey:

Rozartytype
25-07-2009, 04:01 PM
Originally posted by Luanda
"Unfortunately, by this time Marcus had allowed himself to emotionally invest in the situation," he added.

Spot on Halfwit.

Quite an insight from Freddie.
Noirin had told Marcus several times she only wanted to be friends,and Marcus doesn't appear to have been listening.
Noirin is playing a bit of a dangerous game.
But well done Freddie/Halfwit.

minx36
25-07-2009, 04:02 PM
I just love Freddie's direct well balanced approach to communication!

A complete nutter that makes senses!

Go Freddie!

BJ
25-07-2009, 04:25 PM
He's very wise:thumbs2:

AhmedFan2004
25-07-2009, 04:32 PM
It's a shame there's only one intelligent person in the house.

I hate the way Noirin creates destruction, then demands people to nit-pick and identify the details of her destruction over the 8 weeks.

It's her mess, she should pick it apart.

Noirin doesn't know that 93% of communication is through bodylanguage, tonality, etc.

Like Halfwit said, it's not about the words.

Chels
25-07-2009, 04:34 PM
fair play to freddie.

Striptease
25-07-2009, 04:34 PM
I hate when she says "though" or "but"