View Full Version : Sick and tired of homophobic comments
rodrillie
31-07-2009, 04:36 PM
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
GiRTh
31-07-2009, 04:36 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you). :thumbs:
IsleOfWeather
31-07-2009, 04:38 PM
tell that to the dreadful BB role models
sleckitty
31-07-2009, 04:38 PM
I don't know if you are referring to me but all I meant yesterday was their constant arguing and making out later. And their arguments get aggressive sometimes.
WAYNEEBRUM
31-07-2009, 04:38 PM
just humour mainly,no need to call ofcom.
Jack_
31-07-2009, 04:39 PM
I'm straight too but I find the homophobic comments very childish and pathetic.
If they don't like it they just shouldn't comment, simple as really. :rolleyes:
NettoSuperstar!
31-07-2009, 04:40 PM
It's the school holidays!
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
:thumbs:
chris1232
31-07-2009, 04:40 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
People's opinions don't forget.
:thumbs:
CrashDavis
31-07-2009, 04:43 PM
PC Rodrille strikes again. There having a laugh like get over it.
brian3
31-07-2009, 04:43 PM
It is possible to dislike a gay person without being homophobic
Annmarie
31-07-2009, 04:43 PM
Originally posted by Jack_
I'm straight too but I find the homophobic comments very childish and pathetic.
If they don't like it they just shouldn't comment, simple as really. :rolleyes: :thumbs2:
Lauren
31-07-2009, 04:46 PM
I must've (happily) missed all the comments.
rodrillie
31-07-2009, 04:46 PM
I dont know what do u mean by "peoples opinion". They express their prejudice like its normal to have this "opinion".
Tenantry
31-07-2009, 04:47 PM
I'm from Brighton nuff said :kiss:
bettiepage
31-07-2009, 04:48 PM
I don't get it, I haven't seen any :shocked:
chris1232
31-07-2009, 04:48 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
I dont know what do u mean by "peoples opinion". They express their prejudice like its normal to have this "opinion".
Like I said, It's someones view.. Ignore it forr christ sake.
bettiepage
31-07-2009, 04:53 PM
Some people seriously just need to ignore some of the ****, It's just a forum.
brian3
31-07-2009, 04:54 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
Originally posted by brian3
It is possible to dislike a gay person without being homophobic
of course its. and kinda of simple. if you cant express yourself without being one, you have big problems, my friend.
good lucky! you must need it!
Not sure I have said anything to warrant that.
hennessy
31-07-2009, 04:56 PM
I haven't noticed
WAYNEEBRUM
31-07-2009, 04:56 PM
i know,its a forum.lets not turn it into a place where we cant have an opinion ffs.
Suck it up and move on.
fallenkal
31-07-2009, 04:56 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
Meh, try be American.
IsleOfWeather
31-07-2009, 04:57 PM
Its ac/dc gone mad if you ask me
rodrillie
31-07-2009, 04:58 PM
hi, brian3,
I do apologise!
i deleted my msg because i misurdestood.
philmurph
31-07-2009, 04:58 PM
100% correct:thumbs:
Tenantry
31-07-2009, 04:59 PM
Meh, try be American.
No thanks :joker:
HarryRag
31-07-2009, 04:59 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
http://www.jack-russel.co.uk/product_images/p/31sywn8b0gl_sl500_aa280___52747.jpg
so how about all heterophobic comments about marcus then?
IsleOfWeather
31-07-2009, 05:01 PM
I prefer racism, at least you know where you are with it.
dan-uk
31-07-2009, 05:03 PM
yh homophobes are TW@TS end ov
wannarockwithu
31-07-2009, 05:10 PM
Thank God, Im not the only one whos sick of it!
wannarockwithu
31-07-2009, 05:11 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
http://www.jack-russel.co.uk/product_images/p/31sywn8b0gl_sl500_aa280___52747.jpg
so how about all heterophobic comments about marcus then?
WTH is this homophobic HarryRag is talking about?
Get a life!
Vicky.
31-07-2009, 05:11 PM
Originally posted by Rice_square
I don't get it, I haven't seen any :shocked:
Me neither :shrug:
brian3
31-07-2009, 05:12 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q3YUFhjR3wM
wannarockwithu
31-07-2009, 05:15 PM
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forum/topic-128561-are-they-a-hot-couple_big-brother-10.htm
swiam
31-07-2009, 05:25 PM
Me too!
Hard to believe theres a lot of people with this "point of view".
luminoussun
31-07-2009, 05:26 PM
bellend!!
arista
31-07-2009, 05:32 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
But many are not taking it so serious.
Can posters Joke ?
ninjaboi
31-07-2009, 05:46 PM
Originally posted by brian3
It is possible to dislike a gay person without being homophobic
yes it is, but why use the fact they are gay to do that?
Shasown
31-07-2009, 05:55 PM
Originally posted by arista
But many are not taking it so serious.
Can posters Joke ?
Can Jokers post?
HarryRag
31-07-2009, 06:30 PM
Originally posted by wannarockwithu
WTH is this homophobic HarryRag is talking about?
Get a life!
hello sailor!!!
HarryRag
31-07-2009, 06:33 PM
Originally posted by brian3
It is possible to dislike a gay person without being homophobic
no. you see, we don't like gay sex, so we must be sick. but it's normal if you wanna stick your penis on another mans butt.
Originally posted by Shasown
Originally posted by arista
But many are not taking it so serious.
Can posters Joke ?
Can Jokers post?
HAHA!
Arent they funny?
Oh sorry, I forgot how funny its this subject. Lets all have a good laugh.
So, now it decided that it was a joke. Brilliant! That makes life easier.
insidout
31-07-2009, 07:03 PM
Homophobia is a no laughing matter. There are enough people like this HarryRag over UK. Like most of homobic people, his arguments are childish and pointless.
bbaddictd
31-07-2009, 07:19 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
Thank you for your post.
:thumbs:
Benjamin
31-07-2009, 07:21 PM
Gays = :yuk:
insidout
31-07-2009, 07:35 PM
Disgusting comments towards gays.
HarryRag
31-07-2009, 07:37 PM
Originally posted by insidout
Homophobia is a no laughing matter. There are enough people like this HarryRag over UK. Like most of homobic people, his arguments are childish and pointless.
well thank you. i know that im sick because i don't like gay sex.
BBAroudtheGlobe
31-07-2009, 07:38 PM
I actually hadn't noticed it before. I see more racist comments here than anything and it's unfortunate. I can't stand either.
HarryRag
31-07-2009, 07:40 PM
Originally posted by BBAroudtheGlobe
I actually hadn't noticed it before. I see more racist comments here than anything and it's unfortunate. I can't stand either.
eh? this is about "homophobia" and heterophobia
AfroMullet
31-07-2009, 07:41 PM
Edited.
brian3
31-07-2009, 07:43 PM
Some people can be homophobic in a less direct way. By being patronizing
EG - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSIaa88g8PU
PooBay
31-07-2009, 07:45 PM
I've no problem with wooly woofters.
amanda
31-07-2009, 07:55 PM
I am feeling sick too.
I love Rod!
arista
31-07-2009, 08:11 PM
Originally posted by insidout
Disgusting comments towards gays.
So what.
Want is the problem
blodyL
31-07-2009, 08:14 PM
Bloody L!
The arguments are ridiculous. I cant believe they really think theres something against hetero!
blodyL
31-07-2009, 08:16 PM
Originally posted by arista
Originally posted by insidout
Disgusting comments towards gays.
So what.
Want is the problem
?
inspain
31-07-2009, 08:33 PM
All we need is love.
Simple.
=-Incognito-=
31-07-2009, 08:35 PM
Anyone else hear what Isaac said to David : 'maybe you'd be bi?'
carpetman0569
31-07-2009, 08:36 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you). this thread is gay!!
rodrillie
31-07-2009, 08:50 PM
The funniest thing is they are against man on man action because its disgusting. But girls on girls... they go wild!
matheilda
31-07-2009, 09:00 PM
:thumbs:
bibro
31-07-2009, 10:39 PM
thank god they made a topic for their prejudice club.
Fangz
31-07-2009, 10:42 PM
Yeah, and it doesn't seem to be taken as seriously as racism either.
bibro
31-07-2009, 10:45 PM
yeah, because its cool to laugh about it!
B*st*rds.
Chuckyegg
31-07-2009, 10:49 PM
Come and have a go if you think youre hard enough.
It's so easy to be a prejudiced twunt behind the safety of your anonymity.
There are some interesting facts about homophobic people. I won't mention the obvious one because it's rather corny. But did you know that a massive proportion of homophobes have intense fear and unhealthy respect for male authority figures. Also there are not many homophobic atheists.
A lot of homophobia stems from the fact that straight men can't help thinnking/imagining themselves having gay sex and it makes them feel too uncomfortable. To be homophobic sort of releases them from the thought and makes them feel straight.
Finally, a lot of homophobia online is from people who are not homophobic but they use it as part of thier trolling.
noobism
31-07-2009, 10:49 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
Cant say i have seen any homophobic comments, but even so get of your high horse no such thing as homophobia, its just a tool used by the gay army to bash anyone who says something they dont agree with.
noobism
31-07-2009, 10:52 PM
Originally posted by AfroMullet
Batty man fi dead!
LoooooooooooooooooooooooooL, "its like boom bye bye"
noobism
31-07-2009, 10:56 PM
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
http://www.jack-russel.co.uk/product_images/p/31sywn8b0gl_sl500_aa280___52747.jpg
so how about all heterophobic comments about marcus then?
I love it Hetrophobic, now we have our own word to bash the pink army with when they say stuff we dont like.
bibro
31-07-2009, 11:02 PM
:rolleyes:
BitterFruit
31-07-2009, 11:05 PM
Originally posted by noobism
Originally posted by AfroMullet
Batty man fi dead!
LoooooooooooooooooooooooooL, "its like boom bye bye"
well done you just found your first homophobic comment and there you were saying you hadn't seen any ....
:puzzled:
rayheartbliss
31-07-2009, 11:12 PM
Originally posted by brian3
It is possible to dislike a gay person without being homophobic yes of course!
but if you dont like them simply because ther gay, thats realy wrong way to judge someone.
i mean i kno someone gay and strongly dislike them because ther really nasty, but at the same time i kno a gay person who is one of the best people ive ever met.
marking
31-07-2009, 11:16 PM
many sick homophob people in here
ElProximo
31-07-2009, 11:20 PM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
I found you post offensive and insulting to so many people who choose to make negative comments about gays, lesbians and bis.
You don't even treat them as valid human being worth being considered but instead invalidate their thoughts and feelings before they are even expressed by calling them 'homophobes'. As if any negative opinion must be automatically irrational and not worth consideration.
As if there must be something wrong with them from that start so there is no need to give them any credibility or their opinions any consideration.
Offensive.
As for those other people who may have an irrational fear of homosexuals - who are you to judge them?
If that is how they were born then what right do you have to silence them or criticize?
marking
31-07-2009, 11:23 PM
Oh, sure.
we should applaudin them for sharing this pearl.
calyman
31-07-2009, 11:27 PM
Originally posted by ElProximo
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
I found you post offensive and insulting to so many people who choose to make negative comments about gays, lesbians and bis.
You don't even treat them as valid human being worth being considered but instead invalidate their thoughts and feelings before they are even expressed by calling them 'homophobes'. As if any negative opinion must be automatically irrational and not worth consideration.
As if there must be something wrong with them from that start so there is no need to give them any credibility or their opinions any consideration.
Offensive.
As for those other people who may have an irrational fear of homosexuals - who are you to judge them?
If that is how they were born then what right do you have to silence them or criticize?
So do you also find offense in anti racists criticising racists? Or is it just a case of choosing to only hear what you want?
MaratSafinForever
31-07-2009, 11:30 PM
I don't mind gay people, Charlie doesn't come across as a total ****, whereas David does, and I ****ing hate it. All this neck movement when talking and lips weird when talking, **** off you ******.
blodyL
31-07-2009, 11:30 PM
Originally posted by marking
Oh, sure.
we should applaudin them for sharing this pearl.
:thumbs:
blodyL
31-07-2009, 11:32 PM
Originally posted by calyman
Originally posted by ElProximo
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
I found you post offensive and insulting to so many people who choose to make negative comments about gays, lesbians and bis.
You don't even treat them as valid human being worth being considered but instead invalidate their thoughts and feelings before they are even expressed by calling them 'homophobes'. As if any negative opinion must be automatically irrational and not worth consideration.
As if there must be something wrong with them from that start so there is no need to give them any credibility or their opinions any consideration.
Offensive.
As for those other people who may have an irrational fear of homosexuals - who are you to judge them?
If that is how they were born then what right do you have to silence them or criticize?
So do you also find offense in anti racists criticising racists? Or is it just a case of choosing to only hear what you want?
:thumbs:
i hate homophobic comments, but i just tend to ignore them , at the end of the day its just ignorance
doublesix
31-07-2009, 11:44 PM
great post. glad to see some people against these comments.
getstar
31-07-2009, 11:46 PM
love her phrase: if they cant stand love, what can I say?
nothing, i guess.
ourgus
31-07-2009, 11:51 PM
When will you realise that 90% of the population is straight and that 90% of those are homophobic. Democracy anyone!!!!!!!!!!!
peace and love, everyone.
i was shocked to see some comments in this forum as well.
JustKaz
01-08-2009, 12:04 AM
Originally posted by MaratSafinForever
I don't mind gay people, Charlie doesn't come across as a total ****, whereas David does, and I ****ing hate it. All this neck movement when talking and lips weird when talking, **** off you ******.
You seem to contradict yourself here though?
law123mus
01-08-2009, 12:07 AM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
Don't have a hissy fit!:laugh2:
HarryRag
01-08-2009, 12:08 AM
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forum/viewthread.php?tid=132702
BONNEIP
01-08-2009, 12:14 AM
Said it before i'll say it again this is the 21st century. ENOUGH of all the gay bashing, there are worse things than being gay, like imagine a whole world full of Noirins.:nono:
getstar
01-08-2009, 12:15 AM
or BEAtches
ElProximo
01-08-2009, 12:16 AM
Originally posted by calyman
Originally posted by ElProximo
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
I found you post offensive and insulting to so many people who choose to make negative comments about gays, lesbians and bis.
You don't even treat them as valid human being worth being considered but instead invalidate their thoughts and feelings before they are even expressed by calling them 'homophobes'. As if any negative opinion must be automatically irrational and not worth consideration.
As if there must be something wrong with them from that start so there is no need to give them any credibility or their opinions any consideration.
Offensive.
As for those other people who may have an irrational fear of homosexuals - who are you to judge them?
If that is how they were born then what right do you have to silence them or criticize?
So do you also find offense in anti racists criticising racists? Or is it just a case of choosing to only hear what you want?
Not a good comparison. The OP was hostile and calling for silence from those who would make negative comments about gays, lesbians.
Such a person is not necessarily a 'Gayist' and may well believe they are looking out for the best interests of those practicing the homosexuality.
Having said that,
I am critical of those who would disrespect and disregard and want to silence 'racists' opinions.
If we are to make a comparison then I would be critical of someone who decides
a) they somehow got appointed to determine what is 'racist',
b) they would call those giving the racist opinion 'insane' and therefore not worth giving any consideration,
c) presume the racist opinion giver is no longer a worthwhile human being.
But back to this topic:
There are many people, maybe even a majority of people in our society who, based on information and experience available to them and with consideration determine or believe that homosexual behavior is anything from an offense against nature itself, a sexual perversion to a weird or just plain lower standard of living.
Now.. you may not agree with them and that is fine but you ought to at least give them some base dignity as actual human beings and at least their opinion as valid enough to be given and looked at and by all means if you disagree then do so,
but,
don't disregard them or their view as worthless and without any consideration from the start.
ninjaboi
01-08-2009, 12:18 AM
feel the love people :dance:
calyman
01-08-2009, 12:27 AM
Originally posted by ElProximo
Originally posted by calyman
Originally posted by ElProximo
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
I found you post offensive and insulting to so many people who choose to make negative comments about gays, lesbians and bis.
You don't even treat them as valid human being worth being considered but instead invalidate their thoughts and feelings before they are even expressed by calling them 'homophobes'. As if any negative opinion must be automatically irrational and not worth consideration.
As if there must be something wrong with them from that start so there is no need to give them any credibility or their opinions any consideration.
Offensive.
As for those other people who may have an irrational fear of homosexuals - who are you to judge them?
If that is how they were born then what right do you have to silence them or criticize?
So do you also find offense in anti racists criticising racists? Or is it just a case of choosing to only hear what you want?
Not a good comparison. The OP was hostile and calling for silence from those who would make negative comments about gays, lesbians.
Such a person is not necessarily a 'Gayist' and may well believe they are looking out for the best interests of those practicing the homosexuality.
Having said that,
I am critical of those who would disrespect and disregard and want to silence 'racists' opinions.
If we are to make a comparison then I would be critical of someone who decides
a) they somehow got appointed to determine what is 'racist',
b) they would call those giving the racist opinion 'insane' and therefore not worth giving any consideration,
c) presume the racist opinion giver is no longer a worthwhile human being.
But back to this topic:
There are many people, maybe even a majority of people in our society who, based on information and experience available to them and with consideration determine or believe that homosexual behavior is anything from an offense against nature itself, a sexual perversion to a weird or just plain lower standard of living.
Now.. you may not agree with them and that is fine but you ought to at least give them some base dignity as actual human beings and at least their opinion as valid enough to be given and looked at and by all means if you disagree then do so,
but,
don't disregard them or their view as worthless and without any consideration from the start.
Your prevarication is not really the issue here. You cannot on the one hand criticise a poster for being offensive, yet lecture them on the need to understand and accept others whose opinions differ from them. You are in fact the very person you are saying the original poster should not be. do you see this clearly?
As to your more relevant comments, I agree to a degree. Anyone who posits bigoted and offensive comments to others, based on their gender, sexuality, ethnic background etc., should be prepared to justify there opinions. The way to do this is by communication, not telling others to basically "shut up". On the other side of this; if you feel strongly enough about others bigotry, then of cousre, you have the right to challenge such, again, you should not be told to "shut up" and keep your opinions to yourself, for fear of not really "understanding" where the bigot is coming from.
In that regard, you have actgually performed a useful function in developing this communication, though I doubt that was your intention.
aishaha
01-08-2009, 12:35 AM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
So am I.
meianove
01-08-2009, 12:44 AM
2009? 21st century?
Sure?
Oh, God!!!
ifiwereu
01-08-2009, 01:05 AM
save the queens!
No, I am bisexual. You are confused!
ifiwereu
01-08-2009, 01:20 AM
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forum/viewthread.php?tid=133023&page=1#pid2292685
Bendzzs point of view is :yuk:
ifiwereu
01-08-2009, 01:26 AM
hes a coward. deleted his comment, which was:
"disgusitng. homosexuality shouldnt be encouraged".
which i replied saying to him to be careful because by now hes already got it.
Fuc*ing B*stard.
Be a man and not a chicken. Stand up for your believes!
roddie
01-08-2009, 01:37 AM
he deleted it?
:laugh3:
roddie
01-08-2009, 01:39 AM
Originally posted by ElProximo
Originally posted by calyman
Originally posted by ElProximo
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
I found you post offensive and insulting to so many people who choose to make negative comments about gays, lesbians and bis.
You don't even treat them as valid human being worth being considered but instead invalidate their thoughts and feelings before they are even expressed by calling them 'homophobes'. As if any negative opinion must be automatically irrational and not worth consideration.
As if there must be something wrong with them from that start so there is no need to give them any credibility or their opinions any consideration.
Offensive.
As for those other people who may have an irrational fear of homosexuals - who are you to judge them?
If that is how they were born then what right do you have to silence them or criticize?
So do you also find offense in anti racists criticising racists? Or is it just a case of choosing to only hear what you want?
Not a good comparison. The OP was hostile and calling for silence from those who would make negative comments about gays, lesbians.
Such a person is not necessarily a 'Gayist' and may well believe they are looking out for the best interests of those practicing the homosexuality.
Having said that,
I am critical of those who would disrespect and disregard and want to silence 'racists' opinions.
If we are to make a comparison then I would be critical of someone who decides
a) they somehow got appointed to determine what is 'racist',
b) they would call those giving the racist opinion 'insane' and therefore not worth giving any consideration,
c) presume the racist opinion giver is no longer a worthwhile human being.
But back to this topic:
There are many people, maybe even a majority of people in our society who, based on information and experience available to them and with consideration determine or believe that homosexual behavior is anything from an offense against nature itself, a sexual perversion to a weird or just plain lower standard of living.
Now.. you may not agree with them and that is fine but you ought to at least give them some base dignity as actual human beings and at least their opinion as valid enough to be given and looked at and by all means if you disagree then do so,
but,
don't disregard them or their view as worthless and without any consideration from the start.
:laugh3:
you are funny!!! :laugh3:
ElProximo
01-08-2009, 07:02 AM
Originally posted by calyman
Originally posted by ElProximo
[quote]Originally posted by calyman
[quote]Originally posted by ElProximo
[quote]Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
I found you post offensive and insulting to so many people who choose to make negative comments about gays, lesbians and bis.
Your prevarication is not really the issue here. You cannot on the one hand criticise a poster for being offensive, yet lecture them on the need to understand and accept others whose opinions differ from them. You are in fact the very person you are saying the original poster should not be. do you see this clearly?
Wrong on that. I not only consider her censorship proposals and complaints 'allowable' but even though I disagreed with them I also considered them worthy of consideration.
That is why I engaged them.
As to your more relevant comments, I agree to a degree. Anyone who posits bigoted and offensive comments to others, based on their gender, sexuality, ethnic background etc., should be prepared to justify there opinions. The way to do this is by communication, not telling others to basically "shut up". On the other side of this; if you feel strongly enough about others bigotry, then of cousre, you have the right to challenge such, again, you should not be told to "shut up" and keep your opinions to yourself, for fear of not really "understanding" where the bigot is coming from.
In that regard, you have actgually performed a useful function in developing this communication, though I doubt that was your intention.
Well we agree on that except for your last sentence and that is almost a self-contradicting proposal but there you go.
At lot of this is relating to Marcus' BB rant and even though he was wrong on one charge,
and,
even though Marcus is an intellectual hypocrite,
yet,
He was correct in so far as blaming so many of the 'PC Police' for actually stirring and encouraging racism (in a sort of backhanded way).
I would much rather have someone go about the BB house making all sorts of racist opinions - IF those are sincerely held. (same for anything else too),
and,
The reason I totally welcome that free speech is because that is exactly how and when any opposing views get the chance to win and make a difference.
IF it is wrong and socially unhelpful to mock a way a pakistani speaks english then let it be seen. Bring is to the light of day. Explain why it is.
Show the consequences.
Let the people actually work out why its bad, wrong or good etc.
IF the person is in the wrong and has the worse idea then let it lead to bad consequences for them.
So be it.
By putting down a 'no talk' rule and censoring any ideas you end up actually 'freezing' the various people in their various world views never to be changed, convinced and maybe worse never knowing WHY such a thing is wrong.
30 years from now. An adult is asked why its wrong to criticise homosexuality.
They have no idea. Cant remember where the taboo started and only know that 'society says so'.
You just dont!
That is a bleak future.
28thapril
01-08-2009, 07:11 AM
My god i feel like i've missed something big here :puzzled:
I'm a straight married woman -not that it makes any difference- but i don't even notice half these comments on people sl*gging sexuality i'm thinking i gloss over it because it doesn't matter who likes who we are all humans at the end of the day :shrug:
Not sure if that's good or bad thing either way i'm cool :shrug:
calyman
01-08-2009, 07:30 AM
......except, you'll find people like the original poster explaining their thoughts on why mindsets like homophobia is repellant anmd respondents like yourself, basically advising them to "shut up". While the majority of your post makes some sort of sense, you perform a Volte-face from your original position; such that, I'm not sure what your clear position on bigotry is.
Too many people are eager to jump on the anti "political correctness" bandwaggon, losing sighth of the need for such. Things have improved in society's understanding and acceptance of ethnic minorities, different sexualities, women rights, disabilities etc. All due to "acceptance of "political correctness", yet some Dinosaurs still see this as a censuring factor in peoples lives. The usual reactionary falsehoods are dragged out (Christians not being able to celebrate Christmas, toddlers not singing Baa Baa Black sheep, Manhole covers being refered to as Personhole covers etc). Inevitably, when looking for concrete examples of such ludicrous claims, they are usually found to have started in the deranged mind of some hate merchant. All such examples are usually given to appease the typical Sun / Daily Mail reader type, who would want the world to be frozen somewhere in 1950's mindset.
Bigotry, prejudice, ignorance etc, should always be challenged. The intolerant should always be forced to justify their intolerance. That is how 30 years down the line, people today still know why any form of hatred and ignorance must be challenged. Most people have taken "political correctness" at it's core value, which is to increase the level of tolerance and understanding of those who are perceived as "different" from the norm
ElProximo
01-08-2009, 08:20 AM
Originally posted by calyman
Bigotry, prejudice, ignorance etc, should always be challenged. The intolerant should always be forced to justify their intolerance. That is how 30 years down the line, people today still know why any form of hatred and ignorance must be challenged. Most people have taken "political correctness" at it's core value, which is to increase the level of tolerance and understanding of those who are perceived as "different" from the norm
Sure but you cannot challenge these ideas and attitudes if they are effectively banned from the social arena.
I do not care for 'political correctness' when applied to language word-think rules and laws. This is actually what 'freezes' the negative connotations and even gives them more power than ever.
As an example of this see the Clint Eastwood film 'Gran Torino'. In particular Eastwood who (somewhat stuck in the 50s) is all too happy to banter with his old mates "Haven't seen you for ages you big dumb Polak" who replies with endearing teases "You old Dago Wop!"
[wildly paraphrasing from a year ago memory but you get the idea here]
Now. this might seem like a bizarre human social peculiarity but what has happened is that what were once serious 'racism' issues have been allowed to freely express themselves and be worked out between people ultimately evolving to a point where their ethnic identifications became endearing and even the racist name-calling has turned to endearment.
Indeed the 'men from the 50s' have progressed far more than those bridled with PC rulings.
'Chink' is not only still highly offensive but its, if anything, become more dangerous, more volatile and certainly has not progressed at all since 1970s when the first 'PC Wordspeak' rules started being introduced.
Now you can be charged with writing 'chink' in a newspaper.
Yes, it absolutely was PC people in government thinkspeak ministries who renamed a mountain from 'Chinaman Mountain' to (probably 'Climatechange Mountain'),
but,
No, that is NOT a rumour started by anti-PC people. In fact the actual BS rumour is PC People speading a story that they actually found out it was from Anti-PC people.
Anyways,
'Chinaman' was not even regarded as offensive by Chinese people UNTIL it was weirdly designated as such and empowered as such by PC people.
Marcus is a fuktard but his rant was correct this far (and as seen in my example) that much of the racism and racial offense in our society IS INSTIGATED AND EVEN CREATED by the same self-righteous allegedly progressive 'tolerant' types who are actually MAKING racism and giving power to it.
btw.. its not working.
Obvious example:
60 years ago it would have been absolutely unheard of to see some of the Richard Dawkins books absolutely spewing hate at a minority group and their religion. 'spewing hate' doesn't even describe it.
Just blatantly accusing them of being wrong, destructive and evil and then viciously hacking and all but urinating on their thoughts, ideas and custom.
Even worse is Christopher Hitchens and 60 years ago that would be almost beyond 'hate speech' and into sheer demonic pornographic gore and savagery.
yet,
It is NOTHING to see either of them showing up on tax-payer funded television with nothing stopping them from promoting and speaking as much venomous hate and vilification of those 'sick and evil baby rapers' and no penalty or censorship but not even a raised eyebrow.
Not even a question of taste is brought up.
So PC Correctness sure as hell didn't work there.
But,
Then again, maybe it did. See it depends. If you mean PC correctness for the ideas, opponents, world views and thoughts and words for which YOU conform with then great,
but,
If you are happy to see it not apply to thoughts and ideas you disagree with with or want to oppose well then that is good too.
Of course that is bald-faced intellectual hypocrisy, selective intolerance and inequality but maybe that is alright with you as long as it gets you where you want to go?
28thapril
01-08-2009, 08:33 AM
Wow that's deep:blush2:
mrsme
01-08-2009, 08:42 AM
i don't see any homophobic comments, just like i have seen no racist comments. it really p1sses me off that people are so quick to pull out their prejudice cards as soon as they possibly can. PATHETIC.
HELLIWONTGO
01-08-2009, 08:43 AM
I thougt this was a BB forum, not some half educated version of what people can and can't say?
I like Charlie best of the remaining h/mates, and this is based entirely upon his sense of humour, oh and racim is far more widespread on here than homophobia!
Some silly woman the other day made a racist remark, but justified herself by claiming to be asian!
mrsme
01-08-2009, 08:51 AM
I thought HIRA was your fave helliwontgo? says so on your panel! lol
I haven't seen charlies sense of humour yet, he's a sneaky litle bugger
ElProximo
01-08-2009, 08:55 AM
Originally posted by mrsme
I thought HIRA was your fave helliwontgo? says so on your panel! lol
I haven't seen charlies sense of humour yet, he's a sneaky litle bugger
Hira is my fave.
Charlie I don't mind so far although I can never really tell if people who think he is gay are just playing along with his joke thing about being gay or they actually believe he is serious?
watchall
01-08-2009, 10:15 AM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
:thumbs:
http://www.w3bbo.com/forums/Thread-Gay-Theatre.jpg
HarryRag
01-08-2009, 11:06 AM
Originally posted by ukturtle
Gays = :yuk:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forum/viewthread.php?tid=132702&page=1
HarryRag
01-08-2009, 11:12 AM
Originally posted by calyman
......except, you'll find people like the original poster explaining their thoughts on why mindsets like homophobia is repellant anmd respondents like yourself, basically advising them to "shut up". While the majority of your post makes some sort of sense, you perform a Volte-face from your original position; such that, I'm not sure what your clear position on bigotry is.
Too many people are eager to jump on the anti "political correctness" bandwaggon, losing sighth of the need for such. Things have improved in society's understanding and acceptance of ethnic minorities, different sexualities, women rights, disabilities etc. All due to "acceptance of "political correctness", yet some Dinosaurs still see this as a censuring factor in peoples lives. The usual reactionary falsehoods are dragged out (Christians not being able to celebrate Christmas, toddlers not singing Baa Baa Black sheep, Manhole covers being refered to as Personhole covers etc). Inevitably, when looking for concrete examples of such ludicrous claims, they are usually found to have started in the deranged mind of some hate merchant. All such examples are usually given to appease the typical Sun / Daily Mail reader type, who would want the world to be frozen somewhere in 1950's mindset.
Bigotry, prejudice, ignorance etc, should always be challenged. The intolerant should always be forced to justify their intolerance. That is how 30 years down the line, people today still know why any form of hatred and ignorance must be challenged. Most people have taken "political correctness" at it's core value, which is to increase the level of tolerance and understanding of those who are perceived as "different" from the norm
your lips are flapping in the wind. you are sick heterophobic!!!
http://i674.photobucket.com/albums/vv101/hemroidrage/HeteroRainbowFlag-1.jpg
watchall
02-08-2009, 03:56 AM
Originally posted by HarryRag
Originally posted by ukturtle
Gays = :yuk:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/forum/viewthread.php?tid=132702&page=1
You must be at least a teenager. No one in an adulthood could give some weak arguments about homosexuality. But if not, your mind is just like a person who discovered the sex and what is "not allowed" to do. Or maybe, in a tiny possibility, you are a stupid man, maybe hetero, maybe not - who cares?, whose mentality is simpler.
a_2009
02-08-2009, 04:26 AM
Originally posted by rodrillie
SICK AND TIRED OF IT
I have had to read negative comments about gays, lesbians and bi. There are far too many homophobic people in this forum.
If their personal believes cant stand love, what can I say?
(I am a hetero lady, if this information is a kind of important for you).
Good on ya. :thumbs:
From some of the comments I've read here, yeah everyone's entitled to their opinions, but when such homophobic views are taken on to a macrocosmic scale, and lgbt people are treated as second class citizens, then I think there's a problem.
Its not so long ago that homosexuality was seen as a mental illness, then there's the aftermath of the stonewall riots....
rodrillie
02-08-2009, 12:28 PM
indeed
:thumbs:
BB_Eye
02-08-2009, 12:35 PM
A argument with these people is obviously never going to end. It's pretty much like arguing with a child. I just wish the mods would reign in on them.
BBAroudtheGlobe
15-08-2009, 06:05 AM
Originally posted by BBAroudtheGlobe
I actually hadn't noticed it before. I see more racist comments here than anything and it's unfortunate. I can't stand either.
I didn't notice it before, but I just saw a really repulsive homophobic thread. If you don't like a housemate that's fine, but to generalize about an entire group of people based on that one housemate is pathetic and ignorant. Some might thing it's funny, but it's actually downright offensive!
florence33
15-08-2009, 10:52 PM
Originally posted by Lauren
I must've (happily) missed all the comments. Me too!!!goody:hello:
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