What was Bea so wrong about?

[Tom]

Everything she said was 100% spot on. Freddie is a whingebag who is playing a pretty convincing game if some of tonights posts are anything to go by

[cookiemonster]

she didn't need to say all of the things she said. she made him have a panic attack she broke him down so much :bored:

[Tom]

Originally posted by cookiemonster
she didn't need to say all of the things she said. she made him have a panic attack she broke him down so much :bored:

But she was right, and he overreacted. He could have easily gone somewhere else or if his "panic attack" was that bad he would have gone straight to the diary room

[Vladimir]

Duuuuuuuuuude, he's broken.

[MissKittyFantastico]

Come on Tom, there was no way Freddie was faking that tonight.

You could tell by the way he was struggling to get his words out that he was truly distressed, and the fact that she mocked the way he was speaking, when she knows full well how he gets when he is really upset, due to his dyslexia, was the final straw for me.

She had the nerve to say he picked on her, when she carried on banging on at him when she could see full well he was in bits, and then mocked him and carried on even after he tried to end the conversation.

I don't see how anyone can excuse that behaviour and if it had been a man doing that to a woman on there, there would have been uproar.

Disgusting and vile she is.

[Vicky.]

Originally posted by MissKittyFantastico
Come on Tom, there was no way Freddie was faking that tonight.

You could tell by the way he was struggling to get his words out that he was truly distressed, and the fact that she mocked the way he was speaking, when she knows full well how he gets when he is really upset, due to his dyslexia, was the final straw for me.

She had the nerve to say he picked on her, when she carried on banging on at him when she could see full well he was in bits, and then mocked him and carried on even after he tried to end the conversation.

I don't see how anyone can excuse that behaviour and if it had been a man doing that to a woman on there, there would have been uproar.

Disgusting and vile she is.

yeah, peoples problems are that they hate freddie so much that suddenly it is acceptable for things like this to happen. God, imagine the forums reaction if this had happened to sophie...or even charlie for that matter...

[Jordan.]

Agreed its ALWAYS Bea's folt on here

[Tom]

Originally posted by VickyJ
Originally posted by MissKittyFantastico
Come on Tom, there was no way Freddie was faking that tonight.

You could tell by the way he was struggling to get his words out that he was truly distressed, and the fact that she mocked the way he was speaking, when she knows full well how he gets when he is really upset, due to his dyslexia, was the final straw for me.

She had the nerve to say he picked on her, when she carried on banging on at him when she could see full well he was in bits, and then mocked him and carried on even after he tried to end the conversation.

I don't see how anyone can excuse that behaviour and if it had been a man doing that to a woman on there, there would have been uproar.

Disgusting and vile she is.

yeah, peoples problems are that they hate freddie so much that suddenly it is acceptable for things like this to happen. God, imagine the forums reaction if this had happened to sophie...or even charlie for that matter...

Well to start, for the record I don't hate Freddie.

If others had it coming and the person in Bea's position was spot on then I'd still hold the same opinion no matter who it was

And I don't for one second believe his "panic attack" was real. Upset, yes. Its perfectly possible to be upset and not be able to speak if you're that bad (or more like because he'd been exposed anyway) and not be having a panic attack. Its just part of his poor me routine he does every time he's up for eviction.

[Patricia4]

She's a witch is Bea and she is at fault.:yuk:

[cookiemonster]

so you don't believe Freddie was in genuine distress?

(and it's kind of insulting to keep putting panic attack in inverted commas. like you're making a mockery of them).

[Patricia4]

That is strange because Ive not seen him in a state like that when he's been up for eviction before how many times about 5.

[Tom]

Originally posted by cookiemonster
so you don't believe Freddie was in genuine distress?

(and it's kind of insulting to keep putting panic attack in inverted commas. like you're making a mockery of them).

I'm not making fun of them, there is a huge difference between a panic attack and being very upset/annoyed. If Freddie was having a genuine panic attack he would have been much worse and would have done anything to get away from Bea, trust me.

[Twiggy]

She is just a cold heartless bitch!

[fallenkal]

Appeared to me that Halfwit got knocked off his high horse and didn't like the fall.

What Bea thinks is blunt I think is verbal bludgeoning... she was a lil extreme. I'm sure he was hugely upset, but he was definitely exaggerating.

[MissKittyFantastico]

Originally posted by Tom
Originally posted by cookiemonster
so you don't believe Freddie was in genuine distress?

(and it's kind of insulting to keep putting panic attack in inverted commas. like you're making a mockery of them).

I'm not making fun of them, there is a huge difference between a panic attack and being very upset/annoyed. If Freddie was having a genuine panic attack he would have been much worse and would have done anything to get away from Bea, trust me.

Panic attacks affect different people in different ways, there are also different levels of anxiety and panic and towards the end of all that it was obvious that Freddie needed Bea to leave the room because she was making him more and more stressed, and he did ask her to leave.

FFS even Bea asked Marcus to go in and see him because she was concerned, a little bit ****ing late if you ask me but even she noticed he was not in good shape.

[Len_Brennan]

Originally posted by Tom
Originally posted by cookiemonster
so you don't believe Freddie was in genuine distress?

(and it's kind of insulting to keep putting panic attack in inverted commas. like you're making a mockery of them).

I'm not making fun of them, there is a huge difference between a panic attack and being very upset/annoyed. If Freddie was having a genuine panic attack he would have been much worse and would have done anything to get away from Bea, trust me.

She was his friend, the one he bonded with closest, the one he shared his views & feelings with and whom he thought had done the same with him. She viciously went about de-constructing everything he holds dear and did it publically, in front of the very people that he AND SHE have had most difficulties. She put him on a tiny raft in the ocean and cut him free so that he did not know where to turn or what to believe of others and of himself. That would be psychologically damaging for anyone.

For a friend to deliberately do that and keep putting the knife in while also suggesting that he was picking on her and bringing her down by his negativity, when all he wants to do is promote positivity, in his own mind, was just too much for him to cope with all at once.
His panic attack was absolutely genuine. Contrast that with the mock upset that Bea regularly professes to, complete with tears, whenever she tries to gain favour or set herself up as the victim.