View Full Version : Ever been with a Girlfriend or Boyfriend and regret it when it gets serious?
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 12:48 PM
I mean you think you meet the perfect girl/boy for you and the first few dates are great and you like her or him and you decide to become a couple. But then a few weeks in you don't want to be with the person cause either their boring or that you just don't want a reltionship. you either told the person and it turned ugly and you hurt their feelings and it cause mayhemin your life. Or the person you got with end up not been the person you liked after you got together as a couple.
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 12:54 PM
Yeh, that's happened a couple of times. It's trial and error like most things in life. You start to trust your instincts, spotting things you don't like earlier than you once would, enabling you to get out before the sh*t starts to stink. Now, I'm with a girl I'm crazy about, and I can look back on all of those other failed relationships with appreciation because they got me where I am today. It's just a learning curve that most people have to humour. It's not a bad thing, it's just another ingredient in the stewing pot of life.
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 12:56 PM
Yeh, that's happened a couple of times. It's trial and error like most things in life. You start to trust your instincts, spotting things you don't like earlier than you once would, enabling you to get out before the sh*t starts to stink. Now, I'm with a girl I'm crazy about, and I can look back on all of those other failed relationships with appreciation because they got me where I am today. It's just a learning curve that most people have to humour. It's not a bad thing, it's just another ingredient in the stewing pot of life.
i suppose but a lot of those bad reltionship's haunt me like a bad acid flashback:joker:
its just the way you acted or what the other person did
Lauren
25-09-2009, 01:05 PM
Not a serious rship, no. But in school I went out with this guy just for the sake of it, he asked me out and I thought... yeah he's a friend, okay. But it was SO cringy, I didn't even like him and I hated going anywhere with him. When he invited me to the cinema I'd dread it for days before and sometimes would even end up bringing another guy friend along with me!! I was a childish pathetic horrible person! :( LOL.
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 01:07 PM
Yeh, that's happened a couple of times. It's trial and error like most things in life. You start to trust your instincts, spotting things you don't like earlier than you once would, enabling you to get out before the sh*t starts to stink. Now, I'm with a girl I'm crazy about, and I can look back on all of those other failed relationships with appreciation because they got me where I am today. It's just a learning curve that most people have to humour. It's not a bad thing, it's just another ingredient in the stewing pot of life.
i suppose but a lot of those bad reltionship's haunt me like a bad acid flashback:joker:
its just the way you acted or what the other person did
Get this....
My last ex, well, she was an evil psychotic b*tch. I didn't know it at the time. One day, about six months into the ordeal, I get an email from some random hotmail account. It says she's cheating on me and not to believe that she's going to her brother's the coming weekend. So, who do i trust? A random internet c0ck, or my girlfriend? I don't even question it, but ask her if there's anyone she knows that could be trying to cause us some sh*t. She says that she doesn't but asks me to forward her the email. I do this, and guess what, after not faultering with my trust for her, she blames me... ME. Sending myself an email telling myself not to trust her... lol. That was it after that. We stayed together a lil bit longer, but I never got over being accused of such a stupid thing. I'd been nothing but a stand-up boyfriend and get accused of that. So, I dumped her. naturally.
:lovedup:
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 01:20 PM
Not a serious rship, no. But in school I went out with this guy just for the sake of it, he asked me out and I thought... yeah he's a friend, okay. But it was SO cringy, I didn't even like him and I hated going anywhere with him. When he invited me to the cinema I'd dread it for days before and sometimes would even end up bringing another guy friend along with me!! I was a childish pathetic horrible person! :( LOL.
thats pretty bad but you were young and you learned. when i was single i couldn't say no to girls who i didn't even like cause i felt it be my last chance:sad:
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 01:26 PM
LOL@last chance Arsenal!! What age are you? 26 is it??? I had a complete disaster of a relationship with my ex, we were together for 2 and a half years but only cos we had a kid together and that really was the only reason we stayed together that long. It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 01:29 PM
LOL@last chance Arsenal!! What age are you? 26 is it??? I had a complete disaster of a relationship with my ex, we were together for 2 and a half years but only cos we had a kid together and that really was the only reason we stayed together that long. It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
:laugh3:
Heh, you make me lol.
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 01:32 PM
LOL@last chance Arsenal!! What age are you? 26 is it??? I had a complete disaster of a relationship with my ex, we were together for 2 and a half years but only cos we had a kid together and that really was the only reason we stayed together that long. It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
i know its silly:joker: but sometimes i feel like that
when you have a kid i say its hard to break it off
was he a real bad guy or just someone you didn't really contect with?
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 01:33 PM
LOL@last chance Arsenal!! What age are you? 26 is it??? I had a complete disaster of a relationship with my ex, we were together for 2 and a half years but only cos we had a kid together and that really was the only reason we stayed together that long. It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
:laugh3:
Heh, you make me lol.
Haha, it's true though, thats the scary thing!!
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 01:33 PM
Yeh, that's happened a couple of times. It's trial and error like most things in life. You start to trust your instincts, spotting things you don't like earlier than you once would, enabling you to get out before the sh*t starts to stink. Now, I'm with a girl I'm crazy about, and I can look back on all of those other failed relationships with appreciation because they got me where I am today. It's just a learning curve that most people have to humour. It's not a bad thing, it's just another ingredient in the stewing pot of life.
i suppose but a lot of those bad reltionship's haunt me like a bad acid flashback:joker:
its just the way you acted or what the other person did
Get this....
My last ex, well, she was an evil psychotic b*tch. I didn't know it at the time. One day, about six months into the ordeal, I get an email from some random hotmail account. It says she's cheating on me and not to believe that she's going to her brother's the coming weekend. So, who do i trust? A random internet c0ck, or my girlfriend? I don't even question it, but ask her if there's anyone she knows that could be trying to cause us some sh*t. She says that she doesn't but asks me to forward her the email. I do this, and guess what, after not faultering with my trust for her, she blames me... ME. Sending myself an email telling myself not to trust her... lol. That was it after that. We stayed together a lil bit longer, but I never got over being accused of such a stupid thing. I'd been nothing but a stand-up boyfriend and get accused of that. So, I dumped her. naturally.
:lovedup:
gonzo that must of been some time for you mate:joker:
Lauren
25-09-2009, 01:34 PM
It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
Ouch!!
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 01:36 PM
It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
Ouch!!
that's some hate right there
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 01:36 PM
LOL@last chance Arsenal!! What age are you? 26 is it??? I had a complete disaster of a relationship with my ex, we were together for 2 and a half years but only cos we had a kid together and that really was the only reason we stayed together that long. It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
i know its silly:joker: but sometimes i feel like that
when you have a kid i say its hard to break it off
was he a real bad guy or just someone you didn't really contect with?
Well, I definately didn't conect with him but he wasn't great either. I remember one time for example, we had €50 left in our joint account to last us a week and he wanted to go to the pub with his friends. I told him that, that was all the money we had left for the week. He said, you just don't want me to go out just say it if you don't, I said don't go out and he told me to ****** off and went anyway!
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 01:38 PM
LOL@last chance Arsenal!! What age are you? 26 is it??? I had a complete disaster of a relationship with my ex, we were together for 2 and a half years but only cos we had a kid together and that really was the only reason we stayed together that long. It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
i know its silly:joker: but sometimes i feel like that
when you have a kid i say its hard to break it off
was he a real bad guy or just someone you didn't really contect with?
Well, I definately didn't conect with him but he wasn't great either. I remember one time for example, we had €50 left in our joint account to last us a week and he wanted to go to the pub with his friends. I told him that, that was all the money we had left for the week. He said, you just don't want me to go out just say it if you don't, I said don't go out and he told me to ****** off and went anyway!
the guy is a jerk off for that and i bet he came home crawling to you as well:bored:
GypsyGoth
25-09-2009, 01:39 PM
Wow Niamh you are lucky you got away from that jerk.
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 01:39 PM
Yeh, that's happened a couple of times. It's trial and error like most things in life. You start to trust your instincts, spotting things you don't like earlier than you once would, enabling you to get out before the sh*t starts to stink. Now, I'm with a girl I'm crazy about, and I can look back on all of those other failed relationships with appreciation because they got me where I am today. It's just a learning curve that most people have to humour. It's not a bad thing, it's just another ingredient in the stewing pot of life.
i suppose but a lot of those bad reltionship's haunt me like a bad acid flashback:joker:
its just the way you acted or what the other person did
Get this....
My last ex, well, she was an evil psychotic b*tch. I didn't know it at the time. One day, about six months into the ordeal, I get an email from some random hotmail account. It says she's cheating on me and not to believe that she's going to her brother's the coming weekend. So, who do i trust? A random internet c0ck, or my girlfriend? I don't even question it, but ask her if there's anyone she knows that could be trying to cause us some sh*t. She says that she doesn't but asks me to forward her the email. I do this, and guess what, after not faultering with my trust for her, she blames me... ME. Sending myself an email telling myself not to trust her... lol. That was it after that. We stayed together a lil bit longer, but I never got over being accused of such a stupid thing. I'd been nothing but a stand-up boyfriend and get accused of that. So, I dumped her. naturally.
:lovedup:
gonzo that must of been some time for you mate:joker:
It was quite a head*****er lol. It also made me very cautious of the internet where relationships are concerned. I don't do things like facebook or anything - the most I do is forums.
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 01:40 PM
LOL@last chance Arsenal!! What age are you? 26 is it??? I had a complete disaster of a relationship with my ex, we were together for 2 and a half years but only cos we had a kid together and that really was the only reason we stayed together that long. It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
i know its silly:joker: but sometimes i feel like that
when you have a kid i say its hard to break it off
was he a real bad guy or just someone you didn't really contect with?
Well, I definately didn't conect with him but he wasn't great either. I remember one time for example, we had €50 left in our joint account to last us a week and he wanted to go to the pub with his friends. I told him that, that was all the money we had left for the week. He said, you just don't want me to go out just say it if you don't, I said don't go out and he told me to ****** off and went anyway!
When you cook someone's balls in a pan, do you add salt before or after?
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 01:41 PM
Wow Niamh you are lucky you got away from that jerk.
thank god she's got a great man now
but sadly a lot of women do fall for jerks who mistreat them
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 01:41 PM
Wow Niamh you are lucky you got away from that jerk.
tell me about it!! I still have to be in contact with him all the time though because of our daughter but I tell you, I soooo appreciate my hubby after 2 and a half years with that prick!!
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 01:42 PM
Wow Niamh you are lucky you got away from that jerk.
thank god she's got a great man now
but sadly a lot of women do fall for jerks who mistreat them
Yeah, even when kids aren't involved it's like you get into a habit with the person and bad habits are hard to break too!!
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 01:43 PM
LOL@last chance Arsenal!! What age are you? 26 is it??? I had a complete disaster of a relationship with my ex, we were together for 2 and a half years but only cos we had a kid together and that really was the only reason we stayed together that long. It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
i know its silly:joker: but sometimes i feel like that
when you have a kid i say its hard to break it off
was he a real bad guy or just someone you didn't really contect with?
Well, I definately didn't conect with him but he wasn't great either. I remember one time for example, we had €50 left in our joint account to last us a week and he wanted to go to the pub with his friends. I told him that, that was all the money we had left for the week. He said, you just don't want me to go out just say it if you don't, I said don't go out and he told me to ****** off and went anyway!
When you cook someone's balls in a pan, do you add salt before or after?
lol :thumbs:
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 01:47 PM
Wow Niamh you are lucky you got away from that jerk.
thank god she's got a great man now
but sadly a lot of women do fall for jerks who mistreat them
Yeah, even when kids aren't involved it's like you get into a habit with the person and bad habits are hard to break too!!
ii hate to see Women been mistreated :mad:
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 01:49 PM
Wow Niamh you are lucky you got away from that jerk.
thank god she's got a great man now
but sadly a lot of women do fall for jerks who mistreat them
Yeah, even when kids aren't involved it's like you get into a habit with the person and bad habits are hard to break too!!
ii hate to see Women been mistreated :mad:
aawww, you're such a sweetheart Arsenal!! :hug:
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 01:51 PM
Wow Niamh you are lucky you got away from that jerk.
thank god she's got a great man now
but sadly a lot of women do fall for jerks who mistreat them
Yeah, even when kids aren't involved it's like you get into a habit with the person and bad habits are hard to break too!!
ii hate to see Women been mistreated :mad:
aawww, you're such a sweetheart Arsenal!! :hug:
sadly a lot of women today must think
a) your gay
or B) your a wierdo
if you treat them to a meal,flowers etc..
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 01:54 PM
Wow Niamh you are lucky you got away from that jerk.
thank god she's got a great man now
but sadly a lot of women do fall for jerks who mistreat them
Yeah, even when kids aren't involved it's like you get into a habit with the person and bad habits are hard to break too!!
ii hate to see Women been mistreated :mad:
aawww, you're such a sweetheart Arsenal!! :hug:
sadly a lot of women today must think
a) your gay
or B) your a wierdo
if you treat them to a meal,flowers etc..
yeh, my missus doesn't get it... what?!! Nice guy?? What's the catch??
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 01:55 PM
Wow Niamh you are lucky you got away from that jerk.
thank god she's got a great man now
but sadly a lot of women do fall for jerks who mistreat them
Yeah, even when kids aren't involved it's like you get into a habit with the person and bad habits are hard to break too!!
ii hate to see Women been mistreated :mad:
aawww, you're such a sweetheart Arsenal!! :hug:
sadly a lot of women today must think
a) your gay
or B) your a wierdo
if you treat them to a meal,flowers etc..
After my ex I appreciate all those good things!! Gav buys me flowers all the time! Any girl who thinks your gay or a weirdo for doing those things is not good enough for you!!
arsenalforever
25-09-2009, 01:58 PM
thats true Gonzo there must be a catch or its either they love their BF treating them like rubbish
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 02:01 PM
thats true Gonzo there must be a catch or its either they love their BF treating them like rubbish
She's fine with it. I told her there was a catch, I love her lol
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 02:03 PM
thats true Gonzo there must be a catch or its either they love their BF treating them like rubbish
She's fine with it. I told her there was a catch, I love her lol
haha, you charmer you!!! :banana:
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 02:04 PM
thats true Gonzo there must be a catch or its either they love their BF treating them like rubbish
She's fine with it. I told her there was a catch, I love her lol
haha, you charmer you!!! :banana:
I know. :apple:
I've had 2 serious relationships (ie longer than 3 months :joker:) and both ended horrifically ... before that when it was just a bit of fun they tended to end on really good terms and I still speak to those girls now. I speak to the first serious one a little bit but nowhere near as much as I used to, and I can't stand the sight of the one who I've just come out a relationship with
******buddies are the future :tongue:
Lauren
25-09-2009, 02:11 PM
Tom how come you don't speak to the recent one?
because shes a psycho, a slag and a liar
because shes a psycho, a slag and a liar
Who? Every woman everywhere? :tongue:
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 02:14 PM
because shes a psycho, a slag and a liar
Question: what's her number?
:whistle:
Lauren
25-09-2009, 02:15 PM
because shes a psycho, a slag and a liar
Who? Every woman everywhere? :tongue:
Every woman everywhere and/or Zee*
because shes a psycho, a slag and a liar
Question: what's her number?
:whistle:
try sex line, youll probably find her there
Dr.Gonzo
25-09-2009, 02:33 PM
because shes a psycho, a slag and a liar
Question: what's her number?
:whistle:
try sex line, youll probably find her there
She was rubbish :yuk:
because shes a psycho, a slag and a liar
Who? Every woman everywhere? :tongue:
Every woman everywhere and/or Zee*
Oh you are just the worst type of person. :tongue:
Beastie
25-09-2009, 03:29 PM
Yeh, that's happened a couple of times. It's trial and error like most things in life. You start to trust your instincts, spotting things you don't like earlier than you once would, enabling you to get out before the sh*t starts to stink. Now, I'm with a girl I'm crazy about, and I can look back on all of those other failed relationships with appreciation because they got me where I am today. It's just a learning curve that most people have to humour. It's not a bad thing, it's just another ingredient in the stewing pot of life.
You should be an agony uncle. Yeah on failed relationships and so on in the past have brought me to where I am now :D I suppose you have to look back in humour rather than bitterness lol. Well my ex's turned bitter which made me bitter but then I got over it lol
Beastie
25-09-2009, 03:32 PM
It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
Ouch!!
I bet you wanted to scouled him with the tea lol
Niamh.
25-09-2009, 03:58 PM
It got to a point where I didn't even make myself a cup of tea if I wanted one cos I didn't want to make him one as well!
Ouch!!
I bet you wanted to scouled him with the tea lol
Did I what!!! :mad: lol!!!
arsenalforever
26-09-2009, 07:10 PM
I hate partners who want to rule your life too
30stone
26-09-2009, 07:51 PM
I feel the opposite.
I always feel i haven't taken my chances enough and regret it when we end up lasting about 2 weeks or just a month.
Wish i was in a relationship now..
arsenalforever
26-09-2009, 07:56 PM
I feel the opposite.
I always feel i haven't taken my chances enough and regret it when we end up lasting about 2 weeks or just a month.
Wish i was in a relationship now..
you have to find the right person to be honest
i'm happy as larry right now and i took my chance and thankfully it paid off
MassiveTruck
26-09-2009, 08:40 PM
I mean you think you meet the perfect girl/boy for you and the first few dates are great and you like her or him and you decide to become a couple. But then a few weeks in you don't want to be with the person cause either their boring or that you just don't want a reltionship. you either told the person and it turned ugly and you hurt their feelings and it cause mayhemin your life. Or the person you got with end up not been the person you liked after you got together as a couple.
I can't say I've been there before...
Sounds like a gut wrenching drama.
Beastie
27-09-2009, 07:20 AM
I hate partners who want to rule your life too
Ey the controlling ones! Just rebelise and do what the hell you want!
Niamh.
27-09-2009, 09:05 AM
I feel the opposite.
I always feel i haven't taken my chances enough and regret it when we end up lasting about 2 weeks or just a month.
Wish i was in a relationship now..
You obviousely haven't met the right person yet, you wouldn't even have to think about taking a chance with them if you had. You're better off being single rather than being with someone just for the sake of it.It never works out!
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