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ILoveTRW
05-10-2009, 05:43 PM
Agree Or Disagree?

Personal I think it is :thumbs:

Note: when I say kissing I mean a proper kiss and when I say Sex I mean intercourse

BBUK4LYFE
05-10-2009, 05:44 PM
I have to strongly disagree.

ILoveTRW
05-10-2009, 05:45 PM
I could **** a pig but i couldnt kiss a pig lol

Captain.Remy
05-10-2009, 05:45 PM
I also disagree. My ex-girlfriend once kissed another guy but I knew it had no feelings behind, it's just a kiss. But sex ? No way it's less intimate than kissing, it's a whole body we're talking about, a very very very private moment.

ILoveTRW
05-10-2009, 05:47 PM
maybe im just to comfortable with sex then :(

Ramsay
05-10-2009, 05:47 PM
I have to strongly disagree.

Tom
05-10-2009, 05:49 PM
I also disagree. My ex-girlfriend once kissed another guy but I knew it had no feelings behind, it's just a kiss. But sex ? No way it's less intimate than kissing, it's a whole body we're talking about, a very very very private moment.

sometimes sex doesn't mean anything either, but I disagree with the thread title

Shaun
05-10-2009, 06:03 PM
I'd say that meaningless sex is more common than a meaningless kiss, so to some extent I agree with the title.

arista
05-10-2009, 06:08 PM
maybe im just to comfortable with sex then :(


It should change
as you get older.

ILoveTRW
05-10-2009, 06:16 PM
maybe im just to comfortable with sex then :(


It should change
as you get older.

maybe, but i hope not lol, the only problem is getting called a slag

Chantel
05-10-2009, 06:30 PM
I agree, sex isnt that much of a big deal - kissing is

ILoveTRW
05-10-2009, 06:38 PM
I agree, sex isnt that much of a big deal - kissing is

yay someone who agrees

at the end of the day i have sex because i enjoy it not because i want to express my love to someone

BBUK4LYFE
05-10-2009, 06:43 PM
I agree, sex isnt that much of a big deal - kissing is

yay someone who agrees

at the end of the day i have sex because i enjoy it not because i want to express my love to someone
What would hurt you more, If your partner kissed or had sex with someone?

Fom
05-10-2009, 06:44 PM
It depends... sometimes kissing can be intimate, sometimes sex can be intimate... sometimes it can be a friendly drunken kiss, or sometimes sex is wham bam thank you ma'am. Just depends who it is and what the situation is.

I have had kisses more intimate than sex, and vice versa.

ILoveTRW
05-10-2009, 06:46 PM
I agree, sex isnt that much of a big deal - kissing is

yay someone who agrees

at the end of the day i have sex because i enjoy it not because i want to express my love to someone
What would hurt you more, If your partner kissed or had sex with someone?

sex out of the two, but a kiss while having sex is worst than both

ILoveTRW
05-10-2009, 06:55 PM
i suppose it depends on your feelings while doing the acts

im just saying the most intimate moment in my life was me and my girlfriend laying in the snow kissing on top of some mountain just outside of Denver while on a ski trip

Tom
05-10-2009, 07:27 PM
I'd say that meaningless sex is more common than a meaningless kiss, so to some extent I agree with the title.

I doubt it. More people won't meaninglessly sleep with someone in a club or one of their friends than kiss someone, which happens a hell of a lot

Ross
05-10-2009, 07:29 PM
I hate kissing. It's not that I'm bad at it or anything, I'd just prefer sex. I'd much rather give someone a hug aswell than to properly kiss them. It's boring for me.

*mazedsalv**
05-10-2009, 08:27 PM
Hmm I dont know.

I think genuinley that women would think that kissing is more important but men will just think that sex is more important (men would tend to quickly go in for the kill, buit women would appreciate the kisses more than men, its just obvious).

IMO, if someone tells another male "Have you had sex with her" and the man says "Nope, Im waiting, kissing is more important" the man would probably get laughed at. But women would think its soo adorable if a man is waiting for sex and taking it slow.

People can have different opinions, so really you will never know, it would be an answer that would be 50/50.

ILoveTRW
05-10-2009, 08:31 PM
Hmm I dont know.

I think genuinley that women would think that kissing is more important but men will just think that sex is more important (men would tend to quickly go in for the kill, buit women would appreciate the kisses more than men, its just obvious).

IMO, if someone tells another male "Have you had sex with her" and the man says "Nope, Im waiting, kissing is more important" the man would probably get laughed at. But women would think its soo adorable if a man is waiting for sex and taking it slow.

People can have different opinions, so really you will never know, it would be an answer that would be 50/50.

Im not saying kissing is more important because it isn't sex is way better than kissing lol

*mazedsalv**
05-10-2009, 08:33 PM
Hmm I dont know.

I think genuinley that women would think that kissing is more important but men will just think that sex is more important (men would tend to quickly go in for the kill, buit women would appreciate the kisses more than men, its just obvious).

IMO, if someone tells another male "Have you had sex with her" and the man says "Nope, Im waiting, kissing is more important" the man would probably get laughed at. But women would think its soo adorable if a man is waiting for sex and taking it slow.

People can have different opinions, so really you will never know, it would be an answer that would be 50/50.

Im not saying kissing is more important because it isn't sex is way better than kissing lol

Yeah i know, i just rambled on and went off topic :blush2:

ILoveTRW
05-10-2009, 08:34 PM
Hmm I dont know.

I think genuinley that women would think that kissing is more important but men will just think that sex is more important (men would tend to quickly go in for the kill, buit women would appreciate the kisses more than men, its just obvious).

IMO, if someone tells another male "Have you had sex with her" and the man says "Nope, Im waiting, kissing is more important" the man would probably get laughed at. But women would think its soo adorable if a man is waiting for sex and taking it slow.

People can have different opinions, so really you will never know, it would be an answer that would be 50/50.

Im not saying kissing is more important because it isn't sex is way better than kissing lol

Yeah i know, i just rambled on and went off topic :blush2:
its ok lol

Tom4784
06-10-2009, 12:04 AM
I kinda agree with that statement, to me sex normally isn't that big of a deal most of the time. It's just a casual thing really unless you're in a relationship and then it becomes more intimate while kissing is more of a sign of affection. You don't get as much casual kissing as you do casual sex these days :joker:

It depends on the person though really.

setanta
06-10-2009, 02:58 AM
Ok, with the right person kissing can be wonderful and can actually elevate sex - if it leads to sex- onto a far more intimate and sensual level, but to compare the two is silly and it worries me a little that people can be so flippant about something as beautiful as sex. What age are all of you?

It's the most intimate of acts, while kissing can have any number of different connotations associated with it. I mean, I played kiss chasing when I was a little boy, not f4ck chasing!

Tom4784
06-10-2009, 02:06 PM
There's no right or wrong answers really, it all depends on the person's perceptions.

30stone
06-10-2009, 07:24 PM
I agree, i have a mate that never liked falling for girls he would have sex with them and never kiss them and he was just happy with that, if he kissed one then he started to care.


I definately agree with the title to some extent.
A Passionate kiss is amazing!

arsenalforever
09-10-2009, 08:23 PM
Kissing is nice i guess but sex is on another planet for me
i think once you get older its a act that comes more special

bronaaaa
09-10-2009, 08:44 PM
It depends... sometimes kissing can be intimate, sometimes sex can be intimate... sometimes it can be a friendly drunken kiss, or sometimes sex is wham bam thank you ma'am. Just depends who it is and what the situation is.



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