How is this right?!

[xDramatick]

Okay, so last night I went out to a gay club with some mates 'cos one of them's just turned 18, two of them have never been ++ I've only been there once since turning legal two weeks ago.
&Whilst at the urinal, some guy started whacking off at me, like, proper going at it +moaning and stuff. I was just like o___O 'sorry dude, you got the wrong guy, my boyfriend's out there' and he muttered something and ****ed off [&having my mate pretend to be my bf was strange :\]. According to my actual bf [who didn't come], it's not unusual and that it was bound to happen to me sooner or later.
Don't get me wrong, I'm over it, and it didn't ruin my night or anything, I'm just a tad shocked. I just can't work out how it's right?! If I was female, he'd be done for sexual harrassment or something or other :|

I don't quite know why I'm sharing this with you guys, I'm just a bit likewoah atm :|

[Lauren]

OH! At first when you said 'whacking off at me, proper going at it and moaning' I thought you meant he was shouting at you and complaining. Oh. Yeah that's still against the law, it's indecent exposure and sexual harassment - but even with women, if you go to the police it won't get far.

But yeah that's disturbing.

[andyman]

Them gays will never stop! Our children will be next!

[Fom]

Thats disgusting, people like that shouldn't get away with it =/

[xDramatick]

OH! At first when you said 'whacking off at me, proper going at it and moaning' I thought you meant he was shouting at you and complaining. Oh. Yeah that's still against the law, it's indecent exposure and sexual harassment - but even with women, if you go to the police it won't get far.

But yeah that's disturbing.

ahaha noo! it's the most pleasant way I could think of wording it :|
I wasn't thinking of taking it anywhere, I suppose it's bound to happen but still wrong.

[Alf]

you should be flattered

[MarkWaldorf]

i thought you meant hitting and shouting at you too LOL thank you lauren! but that's disturbing!! i hope you're alright now.

[xDramatick]

you should be flattered

oh no, don't get me wrong, it is kinda flattering, but i'd rather him come up and ask me to dance [like another guy had that night] or throw me a compliment or something than wank off in front of me :|

&yeah Mark, I'm alright thanks<3

[Shaun]

...was he big.

[Arneldo]

I've had it happen to me, in a striaght club. It's creepy.

[Crimson Dynamo]

This does not happen when you go to church.

Moral: go to church and not "gay" clubs

[Shaun]

This does not happen when you go to church.

Moral: go to church and not "gay" clubs

yeah that stereotype about priests and choirboys has no basis whatsoever.

**** off.

[Crimson Dynamo]

yeah that stereotype about priests and choirboys has no basis whatsoever.

**** off.

a protestant church.



(and lol about stereotypes, nice one:joker:)

[xDramatick]

This does not happen when you go to church.

Moral: go to church and not "gay" clubs

I think I'd rather have someone jack off at me tbh.

[Crimson Dynamo]

I think I'd rather have someone jack off at me tbh.

either way you end up on your knees praising God

[LemonJam]

either way you end up on your knees praising God

roflmao

And that's strange Darenn, I'd personally report him to the club owner at least.

[setanta]

What, no chit chat at all? No hows ur mother and what are you up to these days?

He just lashed it out and whacked away? God, romance is dead.

[Niamh.]

What, no chit chat at all? No hows ur mother and what are you up to these days?

He just lashed it out and whacked away? God, romance is dead.

:laugh2:

I know yeah, he'd be arrested if he did that to a girl!

[Tom4784]

Not even a dinner and a film first!

Jokes aside, like LJ said I'd have probably reported it to the manager.

[setanta]

:laugh2:

I know yeah, he'd be arrested if he did that to a girl!

I mean he could has said something nice, even a silly chat up line.

Probably left all the talk till afterwards with his mates saying, "yeah had him". God, it's appalling isn't it? Did you see him again during the night?

[Shaun]

Daren I asked if he was big.

[InOne]

Wrong on so many levels.

[Lauren]

Is anyone beginning to get the impression that Daren actually enjoyed it? Dirty dawg!

[GypsyGoth]

Is anyone beginning to get the impression that Daren actually enjoyed it? Dirty dawg!

:laugh2: Yep.

[xDramatick]

Is anyone beginning to get the impression that Daren actually enjoyed it? Dirty dawg!

What can I say? I have a thing for drunk horny guys and public exposure. :hugesmile:

&Shaun, idk, I didn't look :/

[Princess]

That's just wrong! Hope you're alright Daren!

I've been to loads of gay clubs(I'm outnumbered in my group of friends) and I've never heard of anything happening to my friends.

[Crimson Dynamo]

"Whacking off at me"

I did not realise that this type of behaviour was directional. How did you know that you were in the crosshairs?

[Tom4784]

What can I say? I have a thing for drunk horny guys and public exposure. :hugesmile:

&Shaun, idk, I didn't look :/

Ah well as long as nothing bad happened and you weren't too offended by it.

And if he was good looking of course :laugh:

[xDramatick]

Ah well as long as nothing bad happened and you weren't too offended by it.

And if he was good looking of course :laugh:

Exactly, I can laugh about it, I was just a bit shocked it happened.

nothing bad happened.
i'm not offended.
and he wasn't good looking. :|

[Tom4784]

and he wasn't good looking. :|

Oh Dear :shocked:

[MarkWaldorf]

my initial image of him was some dirty old man :shocked:

[Z]

Oh my! Poor you!! LOL at Shaun though, creep!

[Stacey.]

darenn ,, are you a girl or a boy?x

[xDramatick]

my initial image of him was some dirty old man :shocked:

Nah, he was fairly young, late twenties I'd say, early thirties would be pushing it but possible.

&Courtney, I'm a boy.

[andyman]

darenn ,, are you a girl or a boy?xhahahahahahahahahaha!

[Tom]

This kind of thing happens in gay clubs all the time. Ask Lauren

[andyman]

Wrong on so many levels.And if a woman did the same act? Hmmm... I wonder.. Now that could be kinky just aslong she is semi fresh down there.

[Tom4784]

darenn ,, are you a girl or a boy?x

*Facepalms*

[arista]

...was he big.


You Dirty Git.

[Z]

This kind of thing happens in gay clubs all the time. Ask Lauren

So we've established that Lauren's more like Ask Jeeves, as opposed to Google? :hugesmile: