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Enid
09-12-2009, 09:50 PM
Now I don't want to get into the argument about how many men actually prefer blonde women, that wasn't the point of this thread. I've always wondered why blondes have much more sex appeal, so fellas, enlighten me. What is the reason for this?

LemonJam
09-12-2009, 09:51 PM
I just think it's a matter of taste, nothing more. (I prefer brunettes or black hair btw)

InOne
09-12-2009, 09:52 PM
I guess sometimes Blondes can have that sparkle about them that can just wow you. Also they often have fantastic blue eyes

setanta
09-12-2009, 09:54 PM
I don't have a particular preference although I usually go for darker haired girls probably because I'm fair haired myself and enjoy the contrast. But no, it doesn't bother me really.

Enid
09-12-2009, 09:56 PM
When it comes to relationships, I don't think men have a preference, but on a night out, they'd want to screw a blonde? Why?

InOne
09-12-2009, 09:56 PM
Yeah, either or for me.

Enid
09-12-2009, 09:57 PM
Don't think I'm lumping all men into the one basket, I know not everyone is the same. Just saying..

Jack_
09-12-2009, 09:57 PM
It's pretty much the same as why do certain women want to shag men with nice bodies and huge muscles?

It's just sex appeal I guess, you can't really explain it.

Novo
09-12-2009, 09:58 PM
Yes,

I just find them more Attractive i think it's because there are less blondes then brunnette girls,

setanta
09-12-2009, 09:58 PM
When it comes to relationships, I don't think men have a preference, but on a night out, they'd want to screw a blonde? Why?

I generally go for darker. They're more attractive to me really.

Enid
09-12-2009, 09:59 PM
Nice bodies and huge muscles. There's a simple answer for that. Women want a healthy partner to produce healthy kids. But blondes.. I've never understood it. What do they have more appeal than brunettes or redheads?

Stu
09-12-2009, 10:00 PM
It's pretty much the same as why do certain women want to shag men with nice bodies and huge muscles?

It's just sex appeal I guess, you can't really explain it.
This. Blondes are the stereotypical image of 'sexy' for a woman and they seem to appeal most to the stereotypical image of what a 'lads lad' should be.

I know everyone is different but maybe it's a case of the normal attracting the normal?

Enid
09-12-2009, 10:01 PM
Yes,

I just find them more Attractive i think it's because there are less blondes then brunnette girls,
Yes, I guess that could be a viable reason. What about bleached blonde hair? Do you prefer that too?

Jack_
09-12-2009, 10:02 PM
Yeah, I think when guys think of a typical pornstar/model etc they think of a blonde haired, big titted woman. Just like how a woman would think of a guy with huge muscles and a six pack. I think media influences things a lot.

Tom
09-12-2009, 10:02 PM
Because blonde is associated with being promiscuous

The same thing can be applied to dark men

Wildcat!
09-12-2009, 10:02 PM
Errrm! because, they usually look sllutier, and more up for it! So we think we have a better chance to score! :)

I dont prefer them BTW!

Enid
09-12-2009, 10:08 PM
How does hair colour determine how slutty a woman is? I understand it's all about a man copping off, but if you were asked why do blonde women seem more slutty, or why ARE they more slutty, how would you answer that?

Tom
09-12-2009, 10:10 PM
How does hair colour determine how slutty a woman is? I understand it's all about a man copping off, but if you were asked why do blonde women seem more slutty, or why ARE they more slutty, how would you answer that?

I don't think they are, its just association really so its just what I'm more inclined to think ... just in the same way people think blondes are dumb

Wildcat!
09-12-2009, 10:11 PM
How does hair colour determine how slutty a woman is? I understand it's all about a man copping off, but if you were asked why do blonde women seem more slutty, or why ARE they more slutty, how would you answer that?

Its just a feeling. Especially the airhead stigma. Airhead=easy!

Jords
09-12-2009, 10:12 PM
I love natural blondes, so attracted to them, but not bleach blonde as much.
But I also think brunette girls can be equally gawjuss :)

Enid
09-12-2009, 10:17 PM
Haha okay, so airhead = slutty = attractive in a man's eyes? Gotcha. ;)

Tom
09-12-2009, 10:19 PM
Haha okay, so airhead = slutty = attractive in a man's eyes? Gotcha. ;)

Well shes not exactly going to care about risks if you get my drift :p

And may be more open to suggestions ;)

Jords
09-12-2009, 10:23 PM
Haha okay, so airhead = slutty = attractive in a man's eyes? Gotcha. ;)

Well I mainly go by personality, I like the more fun outgoing girl, as Im quite reserved at times, so they bring out a lot of fun in me, but at the same time I quite like the shy girl because theyre cute :)

Enid
09-12-2009, 10:25 PM
Well I mainly go by personality, I like the more fun outgoing girl, as Im quite reserved at times, so they bring out a lot of fun in me, but at the same time I quite like the shy girl because theyre cute :)
And blondes seem more outgoing and fun? Why is that? Btw, not having a go at you, just trying to see from a man's perspective. :P

Wildcat!
09-12-2009, 10:29 PM
http://www.livingtv.co.uk/images/christina-blonde-vs-brunette-431x400.jpg

http://www.blondelicious.org/wp-content/uploads/2007/07/blonde_brunette_paris.jpg

http://www.livingtv.co.uk/images/cameron-blonde-vs-brunette-431x400.jpg


can you feel it? ;)

Tom
09-12-2009, 10:29 PM
And blondes seem more outgoing and fun? Why is that? Btw, not having a go at you, just trying to see from a man's perspective. :P

I think that stems from other things tbh, obviously blondes will get more male attention so will be more confident

Enid
09-12-2009, 10:33 PM
Christina Aguilera - She has always looked better as a blonde, but actually looks more dirty as a brunette in that pic. :P
Paris Hilton - Trashy whatever the colour of her hair is.
Cameron Diaz - The dark hair really brings out the colour of her eyes.

30stone
09-12-2009, 10:36 PM
I like both brown and blonde, dont bother me which..

Wildcat!
09-12-2009, 10:39 PM
I agree. And Cameron looks a lot prettier as a brunette there.
but in general, i think women at differently when they are blonde. Especially since most of them arent naturally blonde. So they seem to live the stereotype, which is strange,but true.

Jords
09-12-2009, 10:40 PM
And blondes seem more outgoing and fun? Why is that? Btw, not having a go at you, just trying to see from a man's perspective. :P

Oh no, hair colour doesnt affect if your outgoing and fun, I just prefer it as a colour, I guess it just stands out more to me. But yes, many blondes are airheads :joker:

My mum has purple hair, and I think that looks groovy, so Im not saying I like blonde hair and no other colour, I like any, ginger probably my least favourite though (sorry if you are ginger). :)

Jords
09-12-2009, 10:42 PM
For me,
Christina blonde
Periz blone
Last girl brunette

:)

Enid
09-12-2009, 10:43 PM
Interesting article..

"Men prefer blondes for girlfriends... but would rather marry a brunette"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1081532/Men-prefer-blondes-girlfriends--marry-brunette.html

Jords
09-12-2009, 10:45 PM
Interesting article..

"Men prefer blondes for girlfriends... but would rather marry a brunette"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1081532/Men-prefer-blondes-girlfriends--marry-brunette.html

I would pretty much agree with that.

However, I would marry a blonde girl if I was in love with her,
I wouldnt tell her to gye her hair or whatnot :joker:

Wildcat!
09-12-2009, 10:49 PM
Interesting article..

"Men prefer blondes for girlfriends... but would rather marry a brunette"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1081532/Men-prefer-blondes-girlfriends--marry-brunette.html

LOL! Thats the typical possessive nature of Men. Of course they want them brunette when married, because, then they dont get as much attention from other men. :)
As a girlfriend, you dont mind the attention much.

Tom
09-12-2009, 10:55 PM
Interesting article..

"Men prefer blondes for girlfriends... but would rather marry a brunette"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1081532/Men-prefer-blondes-girlfriends--marry-brunette.html

Pretty much ... brunettes tend to be the safer option, ie they aren't stereotyped as slags, so less likely to go behind your back (apparently), and won't get as much male attention

Dr.Gonzo
10-12-2009, 06:47 AM
I wouldn't say I prefer them, but I think I must do on some level. Every one of my girlfriends has been a blonde, including my current GF. My last one-night stand, however, was a brunette.... she was a freak - she looks me in the eye, kinda shy, she looks and she says, 'Sorry, I should've warned you... I'm a squirter.'

I'd only just moved into my apartment and didn't have a mop for the puddle. :(

/ew

Stacey.
10-12-2009, 06:49 AM
blonde is better :)
even though im brown,, im going to dye my hair blondee.
It`s beautiiful :)

Firewire
10-12-2009, 07:01 AM
Christina looks much better with blonde hair.

As so does Britney because she had dark hair at a point too.

However, I prefer Ashley Tisdale with brunette/redish hair than to blonde.

But if a certain person would go blonde, it might look terrible.

However if a blonde goes brunette, It might look sexier.

Crimson Dynamo
10-12-2009, 10:34 AM
Blonde hair, black eyebrows. come on!

It goes back to our Anglo-Saxon/celtic roots (no pun intended)

When we were invaded and partially colonised by the Scandinavians the blonde haired women who came over were obviously highly prized as the indigenous population were black/brown and red headed.

They were different and had genes that, on an evolutionary level, would mix and create stronger children.



and they had pointy tits. bingo

Dr.Gonzo
10-12-2009, 10:39 AM
If it's to do with roots, then how come I don't want to ***** monkeys?

Crimson Dynamo
10-12-2009, 10:40 AM
If it's to do with roots, then how come I don't want to ***** monkeys?

do you like bananas?

Dr.Gonzo
10-12-2009, 10:43 AM
Would you like me to like bananas?

Crimson Dynamo
10-12-2009, 10:45 AM
Would you like me to like bananas?

what is yellow and smells of bananas?

Dr.Gonzo
10-12-2009, 10:46 AM
Monkey ****.

Crimson Dynamo
10-12-2009, 10:50 AM
Monkey ****.

monkey sick would also have got you a point

Dr.Gonzo
10-12-2009, 10:55 AM
I knew that. I had an urge to go with **** though. It just seemed *right*, highlighted in my mind like a retarded child's name tag.

AfroMullet
10-12-2009, 06:58 PM
Yeah i myself dont really like blondes, its a whatever floats your boat kinda deal.

WOMBAI
10-12-2009, 07:07 PM
Now I don't want to get into the argument about how many men actually prefer blonde women, that wasn't the point of this thread. I've always wondered why blondes have much more sex appeal, so fellas, enlighten me. What is the reason for this?

It's all to do with blonde/white/fair being associated with pureness and innocense. Just a bit of a male hang-up - wanting women to be virginal. Irony of it is that, apart from being a load of bull, bleached blondes are often quite the opposite - just anxious for male attention! :joker:

Stacey.
10-12-2009, 07:32 PM
I guess sometimes Blondes can have that sparkle about them that can just wow you. Also they often have fantastic blue eyes

Yeah - they definitely have the wow factor:)
in boys or girls actuallyy:D:D

WOMBAI
10-12-2009, 07:36 PM
Yeah - they definitely have the wow factor:)
in boys or girls actuallyy:D:D

Plenty of ugly people who are blonde, and plenty of good-looking people who are brunette - it is the looks that count, not the colour hair. And bleached blonde hair looks cheap, tacky, tarty, desperate and very unattractive!

Enid
10-12-2009, 07:37 PM
It's all to do with blonde/white/fair being associated with pureness and innocense. Just a bit of a male hang-up - wanting women to be virginal. Irony of it is that, apart from being a load of bull, bleached blondes are often quite the opposite - just anxious for male attention! :joker:
Haha yes, this was what I was thinking -- purity and innocence, but usually when a guy wants to **** a blonde, it's because they think they're going to be an easy lay.

Stacey.
10-12-2009, 07:37 PM
Plenty of ugly people who are blonde, and plenty of good-looking people who are brunette - it is the looks that count, not the colour hair. And bleached blonde hair looks cheap, tacky, tarty, desperate and very unattractive!

i think blonde is just PURE!:)
love it :lovedup:

Scarlett.
10-12-2009, 07:43 PM
I prefer girls with darker hair, though blondes are fine with me too, also redheads, I'm not that bothered about hair colour

Shaun
10-12-2009, 07:54 PM
I prefer brunettes, personally. Just going on trends of who I've found attractive.

Sophii3x
12-12-2009, 02:16 PM
I know plenty of guys who prefer brunettes to blondes.

I actually don't like guys with blonde hair. I'm just way more attracted to dark haired guys.

Patrick
12-12-2009, 02:23 PM
Because their always fit, well most the time..

In a way there much more easy to spot lol

Like on a bus when a fit girl gets on with Brown Hair you wouldnt even notice her but when a girl gets on with Blonde because its a brighter colour you see her ;)

But I think Brunettes are really fit too, and most the time their nicer.

Blondes are sexy though.

Beastie
12-12-2009, 02:58 PM
Blonde haired women probably appear more "****able" towards some men.

Stacey.
12-12-2009, 03:01 PM
blondes are better:)

Captain.Remy
12-12-2009, 03:02 PM
Most of my girlfriends were blondes but I don't know why to be honest. I like a good cute blonde, not a slutty one.
I've also been going out with brunettes too, I can't see the problem.

Crimson Dynamo
12-12-2009, 03:08 PM
its a myth about hair colour really. social class, likes and dislikes, age, sense of humour, intelligence are all far more important.

Stacey.
12-12-2009, 03:11 PM
class, likes and dislikes, age, sense of humour, intelligence are all far more important.

my sense of humour = so funny!! :D
:joker:
Intelligence-what sort do you like? Clever?

Beastie
12-12-2009, 03:12 PM
Maybe most Blondes like to take it up the bum during sex.