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_Seth
10-12-2009, 01:17 PM
Be honest. :)
LemonJam
10-12-2009, 01:18 PM
My girl has no problems with it :) Neither would I if she were.
Niamh.
10-12-2009, 01:22 PM
I would, I might have some concerns, probably just cause you have twice the amount of people to watch out for lol!! (I'm a jealous person hehe)
Dr.Gonzo
10-12-2009, 01:23 PM
It's fine. It's a compliment - out of such a selection, they still ended up with you.
MissKittyFantastico
10-12-2009, 01:24 PM
Sure I would!
Fom
10-12-2009, 01:25 PM
Yes, people need to get out of the mind frame that Bi people just want sex with everyone... they don't. Just because a guy is straight doesn't mean he is going to get with another girl, so if a guy is Bi, what makes you think he is gonna get with another boy or girl.
Z
10-12-2009, 01:41 PM
Yes, I don't see the issue.
Twilight
10-12-2009, 01:53 PM
Yes:)
Princess
10-12-2009, 01:59 PM
I would, I might have some concerns, probably just cause you have twice the amount of people to watch out for lol!! (I'm a jealous person hehe)

This,lol!
Enid
10-12-2009, 02:24 PM
I couldn't, but I have in the past. As Niamh said, I wouldn't want my fella to be checking out women AND men.
LemonJam
10-12-2009, 02:29 PM
I couldn't, but I have in the past. As Niamh said, I wouldn't want my fella to be checking out women AND men.

But that's no different from a straight boyfriend checking out other women?
Jack_
10-12-2009, 02:33 PM
Yes I would, I'd enjoy talking to them about what other girls I find hot and then they can offer their opinions and their choices too.
Niamh.
10-12-2009, 02:33 PM
But that's no different from a straight boyfriend checking out other women?

It's not but there's twice as many people is all!! lol
Enid
10-12-2009, 02:34 PM
But that's no different from a straight boyfriend checking out other women?
Sure it is. I wouldn't feel comfortable if I was watching TV with him one night, some hot guy comes on and he starts talking to me about how hot he was. Or if he was into gay porn. Nu uh, not my cup of tea.
M X
10-12-2009, 03:01 PM
Yes, I don't see the problem.
Jords
10-12-2009, 03:07 PM
I think Id be alright with it :)
setanta
10-12-2009, 03:58 PM
I'm not sure what I'd think about it to tell you the truth as I've never been in that situation before. Now, if I could get a girl who's wildly attracted to me and no other man but is also a raging lesbian than we'd be on to an absolute winner.
Shaun
10-12-2009, 04:05 PM
I don't get the "they could be led astray by either sexx!!!" - do you actually think straight people have the constant freedom from thinking "oh, there's a good-looking male, my boyfriend's straight so no problem".

Besides - it's the person, not the gender, that would cause one to be led astray. So no. No problem whatsoever.
Jords
10-12-2009, 04:25 PM
I don't get the "they could be led astray by either sexx!!!" - do you actually think straight people have the constant freedom from thinking "oh, there's a good-looking male, my boyfriend's straight so no problem".

Besides - it's the person, not the gender, that would cause one to be led astray. So no. No problem whatsoever.

Very good point Shaun :thumbs:
Ninastar
10-12-2009, 04:50 PM
Yeah. I think it be nice if I had a boyfriend who was a bit camp.
King Gizzard
10-12-2009, 04:51 PM
Not really no
Enid
10-12-2009, 04:51 PM
There are camp straight men though, Nina. :P
Ninastar
10-12-2009, 04:53 PM
There are camp straight men though, Nina. :P

True I guess, but someone Bi is more likely to be a bit camp. I wouldn't mind which though. Like someone said, I would just be happy they choose me.
Tom4784
10-12-2009, 05:31 PM
Shaun's hit it on the head really, I wouldn't have a problem but then I'm a bit of a part time bi meself so it'd be contradictory if I did.
_Seth
10-12-2009, 05:35 PM
I don't like camp. =/
Tom
10-12-2009, 06:09 PM
No
AfroMullet
10-12-2009, 06:57 PM
Yes, im in a relationship with a bi female now, its like the best thing ever. A girl that loves me and likes girls For The Rasclart Win!
WOMBAI
10-12-2009, 07:12 PM
Personally - I would find it a big turn-off, if I discovered that a guy I liked - had been with other men - would put me right off!
Shaun
10-12-2009, 07:17 PM
No

Why?
Stephanie
10-12-2009, 07:19 PM
yeah i would
SiaSiaSia
10-12-2009, 07:29 PM
yup
Stacey.
10-12-2009, 07:32 PM
i dont know why some people DO have a problem with it :/
Whats wrong with it??
Enid
10-12-2009, 07:42 PM
i dont know why some people DO have a problem with it :/
Whats wrong with it??
Well, I did explain.

Also, a lot of bisexuals are unsure of their sexuality, confused or in denial, particularly men, so if you were dating a bisexual man there could be a possibility that he may actually be gay.
Shaun
10-12-2009, 07:52 PM
Hmm, that is a fair argument Enid.

I think because I'm fairly sure of mine [as a bisexual] I'm a bit quick to defend :p
Tom
10-12-2009, 08:09 PM
Why?

Due to what Enid said about them maybe being gay, plus its better for the ego that in the off chance that they meet someone else, at least if another man has stolen them it doesn't feel like you've single handedly put them off men :joker:

Although it might have its perks. If she was fit I'd let her cheat as long as she filmed it ;)
_Seth
10-12-2009, 08:18 PM
Well, I did explain.

Also, a lot of bisexuals are unsure of their sexuality, confused or in denial, particularly men, so if you were dating a bisexual man there could be a possibility that he may actually be gay.

That's not fair. I'm bisexual and know exactly that I am. No confusion.
LemonJam
10-12-2009, 08:21 PM
That's not fair. I'm bisexual and know exactly that I am. No confusion.

Alot of gay people use bisexual as a parachute before the freefall. Something that annoys me ALOT.
Enid
10-12-2009, 08:40 PM
That's not fair. I'm bisexual and know exactly that I am. No confusion.
I didn't say all...
InOne
11-12-2009, 02:02 AM
Depends on the Girl. Bi to me is copping off with anyone when you're drunk. So really, probably could not trust the slut.