Nice Guys Finish Last... Does That Make Me A Bastard??

[Dr.Gonzo]

No. Nice guys don't finish last. Guys that say they are nice, who ultimately finish last, are not nice - or not JUST nice. They are, mainly, spineless whimps or manipulating little *****faces. I hate how being a nice guy is looked down upon because of this fairly large tupperwear box full of bullshit. I don't finish last and I am nice, unless your name is LeatherTrumpet.

So, how do you feel about this?

[InOne]

I really do think nice guys finish last. Women these days seem to go for 'The Bad Boy' puzzles me, thinking they can change them and that. Some girls laugh at you if you try to be nice to them. Then in two years they're living in a flat with 3 kids while the guy has ****ed off. So maybe it's stupid girls finish last?

[Stacey.]

I really do think nice guys finish last. Women these days seem to go for 'The Bad Boy' puzzles me, thinking they can change them and that. Some girls laugh at you if you try to be nice to them. Then in two years they're living in a flat with 3 kids while the guy has ****ed off. So maybe it's stupid girls finish last?

definitely i go for 'bad boys' :D
its cool;)

[InOne]

definitely i go for 'bad boys' :D
its cool;)

Won't be cool when you're a single mum on benefits :)

[Dr.Gonzo]

I really do think nice guys finish last. Women these days seem to go for 'The Bad Boy' puzzles me, thinking they can change them and that. Some girls laugh at you if you try to be nice to them. Then in two years they're living in a flat with 3 kids while the guy has ****ed off. So maybe it's stupid girls finish last?

I get it, but that's where I think the confusion comes in. Look at my posts, and do I really come across as someone who puts up with any **** at all? Nope, but other than having a fair mouth on me and a no-**** attitude, I'm generally a nice guy. I put my woman first and don't ***** about, I hold down a job and support myself, and if you're nice to me I'll be nice back. I've never had a problem getting and keeping hold of woman...

My point is, I think the term 'nice guy' gets used in the completely wrong way most of the time. If you think that your finishing last because you're a nice guy, try again. You're probably just a very weak bag of pussy juice, lacking a spine, motivation, and some hairy balls.

[InOne]

I get it, but that's where I think the confusion comes in. Look at my posts, and do I really come across as someone who puts up with any **** at all? Nope, but other than having a fair mouth on me and a no-**** attitude, I'm generally a nice guy. I put my woman first and don't ***** about, I hold down a job and support myself, and if you're nice to me I'll be nice back. I've never had a problem getting and keeping hold of woman...

My point is, I think the term 'nice guy' gets used in the completely wrong way most of the time. If you think that your finishing last because you're a nice guy, try again. You're probably just a very weak bag of pussy juice, lacking a spine, motivation, and some hairy balls.

Yeah indeed, I think people like that are wankers, but women do go for it. I'm not bad to women or anything and i'd never go out my way to be bad. But sometimes being nice is looked down upon. It just amuses me how women go for 'The bad boy' get treated like ****, then complain about it later.

[Dr.Gonzo]

Yeah indeed, I think people like that are wankers, but women do go for it. I'm not bad to women or anything and i'd never go out my way to be bad. But sometimes being nice is looked down upon. It just amuses me how women go for 'The bad boy' get treated like ****, then complain about it later.

I think it's part supidity, part defence mechanism. When things do go wrong, as they expect it will, they have the excuse already close at hand.

I've never understood it. I'm not a bastard, but I never finish last. I'm not one of those creepy bastards though that get used like a doormat either.

Desperate isn't sexy.

Heh.

[InOne]

I think it's part supidity, part defence mechanism. When things do go wrong, as they expect it will, they have the excuse already close at hand.

I've never understood it. I'm not a bastard, but I never finish last. I'm not one of those creepy bastards though that get used like a doormat either.

Desperate isn't sexy.

Heh.

Indeed, i'd never like beg someone to take me back or anything. It just makes you look kinda pathetic sometimes. Sometimes you just got to let it go.

[Stacey.]

Won't be cool when you're a single mum on benefits :)

im just saying it as it is now.
:) i dont plan out my futuree :D lmfao:joker::joker::joker:

[Princess]

Nice guys don't finish last,that's stupid. Take That are lovely :p

[Dr.Gonzo]

Indeed, i'd never like beg someone to take me back or anything. It just makes you look kinda pathetic sometimes. Sometimes you just got to let it go.

Yeh, it's annoying. I think people need to learn the difference between being a nice GUY (ie, MAN), and being a nice footwiping bag of koala jizz.

[InOne]

Well it's weird, alot of women I know started out with 'The bad boy', seems if you're normal these days just does not cut it, I don't know, maybe I have a bleak view of this thing lol

[Stephanie]

i like the idea of being with a bad boy
but i would go for a nice guy any day

[Dr.Gonzo]

I think some people just want the wrong things. Just as some women head for the bad boys, some 'nice' guys head for the users and abusers.

[InOne]

I think everyone expects way too much from the person they're with

[Enid]

What about career wise though?

I guess some could say the same about that. The liars and the brown nosers and the selfish, greedy manipulative men would worm their way up to the top of their career and the nice guys would just be earning an honest living.

[Dr.Gonzo]

I think everyone expects way too much from the person they're with


Daily blowjobs and a smile in the morning. That is all.


On that note, take care every one. I may not be back on till after Christmas.

Bye bye mah babies.

:lovedup:

[lily.]

Nice guys finish last...
You're running out of gas...
Your sympathy will get you left behind...
Sometimes you're at your best...
When you feel the worst...
Do you feel washed up...like piss going down the drain

Pressure cooker pick my brain and tell me I'm insane...
I'm so *****ing happy I could cry...
Every joke can have its truth and now the joke's on you...
I never knew you were such a funny guy

Oh nice guys finish last...
When you are the outcast...
Don't pat yourself on the back... you might break your spine!

Living on command ...
You're shaking lots of hands...
You’re kissing up and bleeding all your trust...
Taking what you need...
Bite the hand that feeds...
You lose your memory...
And you got no shame...



BAj7DcSQeWY

[InOne]

I thought of that song too Linda lol

[lily.]

Thought you might.. ;)

[WOMBAI]

im just saying it as it is now.
:) i dont plan out my futuree :D lmfao:joker::joker::joker:

Better make sure you are not STUPID enough to get pregnant then - you won't be laughing then! :joker:

[InOne]

Better make sure you are not STUPID enough to get pregnant then - you won't be laughing then! :joker:

Brutal WOMBAI, brutal lol

[WOMBAI]

I think some people just want the wrong things. Just as some women head for the bad boys, some 'nice' guys head for the users and abusers.

Yes - young girls do tend to be stupid and go for the 'bad guy' image as they think it is exciting - just as young boys and men go for the sexy, bleached blonde look - all about image. But the taste of most improves as they get older - and they realise that a person's character is what makes them really attractive. The 'nice' guys and girls win in the end!

[WOMBAI]

Brutal WOMBAI, brutal lol

True though! We have all been young and stupid - and it makes you cringe when you hear youngsters still coming out with the same old speil we used to! They all think they are being 'different' and 'cool' - when really they are just being young, boring and very predictable.

[Captain.Remy]

I do consider myself as a nice narcissistic bastard but then I win every single time. Too bad. :laugh:

[Enid]

A "nice" narcissist? Isn't that an oxymoron? Lol

[Captain.Remy]

A "nice" narcissist? Isn't that an oxymoron? Lol

Probably but that's me. :hugesmile:

[Tom]

I'm not nice and not doing too badly

I'm really manipulative, I can flip my personality to get what I want and if I don't get what I want (rare) then I go on the war path against those who got in the way

[Captain.Remy]

I'm not nice and not doing too badly

I'm really manipulative, I can flip my personality to get what I want and if I don't get what I want (rare) then I go on the war path against those who got in the way

We definitely should create our own club lmao

Nice people and haters to the left. :D

[Niamh.]

I really do think nice guys finish last. Women these days seem to go for 'The Bad Boy' puzzles me, thinking they can change them and that. Some girls laugh at you if you try to be nice to them. Then in two years they're living in a flat with 3 kids while the guy has ****ed off. So maybe it's stupid girls finish last?

My hubby is a nice guy and he never finishes last!!!

[WOMBAI]

We definitely should create our own club lmao

Nice people and haters to the left. :D

I'm going with the notion that those that talk the talk - don't walk the walk! :joker:

[Tom]

I'm going with the notion that those that talk the talk - don't walk the walk! :joker:

and how do you draw that conclusion?

[WOMBAI]

and how do you draw that conclusion?

Often the case!

[Enid]

We definitely should create our own club lmao

Nice people and haters to the left. :D
Brilliant idea! It could be called "The Nazi Party"

Tom as Hitler and Remy as Mussolini, or Stalin. Your choice really.

[Tom]

Often the case!

Doesn't mean its always the case though does it? And looking at the bigger picture I'd say on the whole nice guys do finish last.

Brilliant idea! It could be called "The Nazi Party"

Tom as Hitler and Remy as Mussolini, or Stalin. Your choice really.

Hitlers tash would to nothing for me, so I'm not being him!

[Enid]

Doesn't mean its always the case though does it? And looking at the bigger picture I'd say on the whole nice guys do finish last.



Hitlers tash would to nothing for me, so I'm not being him!
Well fight it out between ya. :P

[WOMBAI]

Doesn't mean its always the case though does it? And looking at the bigger picture I'd say on the whole nice guys do finish last.



Hitlers tash would to nothing for me, so I'm not being him!

Your avatar is pretty much a female version! :joker:

[Captain.Remy]

Brilliant idea! It could be called "The Nazi Party"

Tom as Hitler and Remy as Mussolini, or Stalin. Your choice really.

Both lol

And being a nice narcissistic bastard doesn't mean being a dictator from what I know. :laugh:

But if Tom and I were to create this club, would you join the fun ?

[Tom]

Your avatar is pretty much a female version! :joker:

Poor Maggie :(

See, I do have a nice side! Its just a shame that my not so nice side is more dominant

[Enid]

Both lol

And being a nice narcissistic bastard doesn't mean being a dictator from what I know. :laugh:

But if Tom and I were to create this club, would you join the fun ?
Am I a nice narcissistic bastard? :laugh:

[Captain.Remy]

By the way, life isn't a fairy tale, sharks often finish first. At some point, you need to be ruthless and cut throat to be a leader in Business situations.
I could say it's the same in sports (as a sportsman myself) because you need to be strong, tough and play it nasty sometimes but it depends on the context.
Being nice in life will somehow gets your screwed big time.

[Tom]

By the way, life isn't a fairy tale, sharks often finish first. At some point, you need to be ruthless and cut throat to be a leader in Business situations.
I could say it's the same in sports (as a sportsman myself) because you need to be strong, tough and play it nasty sometimes but it depends on the context.
Being nice in life will somehow gets your screwed big time.

And if you're too nice people will walk right over you thinking they can take the piss.

My life is pretty damn good atm but I've had some pretty dodgy decisions/situations to get it there ... would be nowhere near the same if I was nice

[Captain.Remy]

Am I a nice narcissistic bastard? :laugh:

Maybe not but you have enough vice and perverseness to bring out. :wink:

[Enid]

Maybe not but you have enough vice and perverseness to bring out. :wink:
Well in that case, if I join I want to wear an SS uniform. They were super sexy.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Jesus did ok in the end, well apart from the crucifixion bit.

[WOMBAI]

By the way, life isn't a fairy tale, sharks often finish first. At some point, you need to be ruthless and cut throat to be a leader in Business situations.
I could say it's the same in sports (as a sportsman myself) because you need to be strong, tough and play it nasty sometimes but it depends on the context.
Being nice in life will somehow gets your screwed big time.

Don't agree! You can certainly be nice but savvy - and in contrast - a thick shark. It's intelligence that begets success - not playing it nasty!

[Enid]

Jesus did ok in the end, well apart from the crucifixion bit.
I'm still trying to figure you out, LT. Tough nut to crack. :laugh:

[Captain.Remy]

And if you're too nice people will walk right over you thinking they can take the piss.

My life is pretty damn good atm but I've had some pretty dodgy decisions/situations to get it there ... would be nowhere near the same if I was nice

Exactly. By always saying yes and showing you're too available, people won't see the red line and good luck to bring it back. Like I said, you're screwed at the point.
By being mean and cold, you can prevent people from taking over or upsetting you. You have the control. However, to not be bitten back is an art

[Tom]

Don't agree! You can certainly be nice but savvy - and in contrast - a thick shark. It's intelligence that begets success - not playing it nasty!

I'm pretty intelligent (did very well in school/college) and I'm much more aware of situations than people realise I am ... and I use that to get my own way by twisting other people

So I wouldn't say its intelligence itself that gets you somewhere, its how you use it. Like say if I have a degree, I can get a better job. But what about using your mind and other people to get another job which is just as well paid as the one you could get?

[Crimson Dynamo]

I'm still trying to figure you out, LT. Tough nut to crack. :laugh:

:hugesmile:

I am a simple soul who has a bottle of Bells close at hand but also has to do a church powerpoint for am tomorrow

ooooh the temptation:devil:

[Captain.Remy]

Don't agree! You can certainly be nice but savvy - and in contrast - a thick shark. It's intelligence that begets success - not playing it nasty!

But the main quality of a a shark is the intelligence and the ability to think good and fast. Sometimes hard-working and a smile don't work, you need to play it slowly but clever.

[arista]

I really do think nice guys finish last. Women these days seem to go for 'The Bad Boy' puzzles me, thinking they can change them and that. Some girls laugh at you if you try to be nice to them. Then in two years they're living in a flat with 3 kids while the guy has ****ed off. So maybe it's stupid girls finish last?


Women wanting 'the Bad Boy'
is no puzzle,
as they need that Sex Buzz on the Edge of the Line.



Life In The Fast Lane.

[WOMBAI]

True intelligence shouldn't need to resort to underhand tactics. They are really a sign of failure!

[Captain.Remy]

True intelligence shouldn't need to resort to underhand tactics. They are really a sign of failure!

But it's how you use it that matters. Imagine this: you work you ass off at work by making money to get a promotion. You're clever, nice and never complains yet you didn't get your promotion but your colleague did. Why ? Because he managed to use his brain to get further than you by having less good performances. That is the game.

[Tom]

True intelligence shouldn't need to resort to underhand tactics. They are really a sign of failure!

If you don't seize every opportunity that comes your way and you just wait around using the correct system then you've got a long wait ahead of you.

[WOMBAI]

But it's how you use it that matters. Imagine this: you work you ass off at work by making money to get a promotion. You're clever, nice and never complains yet you didn't get your promotion but your colleague did. Why ? Because he managed to use his brain to get further than you by having less good performances. That is the game.

If people get promoted for the wrong reasons - then maybe the company isn't one worth working for. Maybe the intelligent guy would realise he was better off - and end up with a better job somewhere else!

[BB_Eye]

Why would you want to spend most of your free time with some Don Juan style @rsehole? I've never understood women (or guys) with that mindset. It's not like they're any good at sex anyway.