Prostitution

[InOne]

What do people think of it and the girls that do it?

[Captain.Remy]

There are 2 type of prostitution to me:

-The girls who are getting abused, drug and put on the street to bring money to their boss. They generally come from Eastern European countries. Some people make them believe they will go on tour as dancers and end up as prostitutes. This kind of prostitution is not acceptable and should be severely punished.

-The other one is about girls who need money like students, single mums or other kind of girls and have no choice but to do that to have a better life. I think these girls are really brave but it generally ****s them up even if they agree to do it. I can't see a problem with it to be honest.

So yeah, 2 situations, 2 feelings. This is an endless debate really.

[WOMBAI]

It depends. If the girl is totally in control and doing it completely out of choice - that is up to her - I guess it could be viewed as a job like any other - they are providing a service, after all. It always amazes me though at the complete double standards of men in particular - who on one hand call them *****s etc, but if it wasn't for men - they wouldn't exist. It takes two - if the woman is a ***** - then so are the men. At least she isn't the one mug enough to pay for it!

Enforced prostitution is, of course, another thing altogether. Pimps are complete sleaze bags and should be the ones that receive serious punishment, not the prostitutes.

[Stacey.]

well, you get payed for it, but you must be really desparate for a job :joker:
because going round with loadsa different men,,they could be carrying STIs or diseases or anything. :yuk:

[Jords]

If a girl is doing prostitution in order to earn money because she is unable to find a job and needs the cash to actually be able to afford to live, I can see why she may feel the need to do it, although i really advise her not to because her health is in danger. And if she is being forced into is that is plain sickening and wrong.

If a girl is doing it because she is too lazy to find a proper job, wants the sex or any other bizzare reason, then it is her entire fault for catching any STI's or what have you and I don't feel sorry for her.

[Tom4784]

Helen Mirren's got a good view on it, make it legal and then you can it safe and prevent people being forced into it and such. You make it legal, you make it controllable.

As for people who go into it off their own accord, I don't judge them. We all do what we can to make ends meet.

[xDramatick]

I don't see why it's illegal [apart from it being unsafe obvs].

[Enid]

To say we don't judge someone that sells their body for sex is a bit of a bold statement. :P

Most hookers have drug problems and indulge in other criminal activity. If I'm approached by a hooker, I'm getting the feck away.

Besides that though, as long as it's behind closed doors, do whatever you like.

[InOne]

I saw in a doc that alot of them are usually sexually abused as kids. They say sexual abuse is boot camp for Prostitution.

[Enid]

I saw in a doc that alot of them are usually sexually abused as kids. They say sexual abuse is boot camp for Prostitution.
It's sad really. Most won't have a second chance at redeeming themselves and fall further and further into a pit. It's not their fault.

[InOne]

It's sad really. Most won't have a second chance at redeeming themselves and fall further and further into a pit. It's not their fault.

Indeed, I watched something about a brothel, and guys think it's like pretty woman, they call them the Save-A-Ho guys lol They basically laugh in their face. It's pretty harsh though, some guys pay like $1000's for them just to pretend to be their gf, and in the morning they all were just still and laughing about what they did to who. Some guys get emotionally attached, sad really.

[Enid]

Oh I don't feel sorry for the "Johns" at all. Most of them are married and don't give a toss about these girls. If they really cared for their well-being, they'd help them escape from prostitution instead of indulging.

[InOne]

Oh yeah, all Married WASP Males

[Enid]

On the other hand though, these brothels are quite upmarket, lol. Have you watched "The Bunny Ranch". It doesn't quite glamourise prostitution, but it definitely makes it look enjoyable, hahah.

[InOne]

Yeah watched that lol

Yeah, does look quite glam, I think it's bad with shows like that though cos girls think it's always gonna be like that, there is like always at least 30 girls on the waiting list for places like that

[Chels]

er, idk really.
i find them scary :L

[Ninastar]

I don't see why it's illegal [apart from it being unsafe obvs].

Same tbh.

[InOne]

I know not many people see them as fallen angels or anything, but some are like Uni dropouts and middle class kids wanting to rebel. Fair enough they have a drug habit, but I remember one saying a guy asked her to stamp on a kitten while he jacked off to it, and one said to pretend he's his 12 year old daughter. That has gotta be the low of the low and those are the ones I would have no time for,

[Tom]

Theres a demand for it and people are willing to do it. Wheres the problem? They put themselves there, they don't have to.

[Jords]

I know not many people see them as fallen angels or anything, but some are like Uni dropouts and middle class kids wanting to rebel. Fair enough they have a drug habit, but I remember one saying a guy asked her to stamp on a kitten while he jacked off to it, and one said to pretend he's his 12 year old daughter. That has gotta be the low of the low and those are the ones I would have no time for,

Stamp on a kitten? That is just so wrong, I hope she didnt do it, and even jacking over it, what a sick ****.

[InOne]

Stamp on a kitten? That is just so wrong, I hope she didnt do it, and even jacking over it, what a sick ****.

She did do it, thats the thing.

[InOne]

Theres a demand for it and people are willing to do it. Wheres the problem? They put themselves there, they don't have to.

Some are forced though, espeically Eastern European girls

[Enid]

Some are forced though, espeically Eastern European girls
Yeah false promises that they are coming over here to start a new life and then the next thing they know they are in some dodgy prostitution ring.

[Jords]

She did do it, thats the thing.

What a disgusting bitch, I have no time over people who get kick outs over things like that. Unless, she was forced to, then somebody ought to stamp on the man jacking off's head.

[InOne]

Yeah false promises that they are coming over here to start a new life and then the next thing they know they are in some dodgy prostitution ring.

The big places for it are London and that I think. But I reckon alot end up in Amersterdam too, we are under the illusion that they are treated well there but bet they're not.

[InOne]

What a disgusting bitch, I have no time over people who get kick outs over things like that. Unless, she was forced to, then somebody ought to stamp on the man jacking off's head.

This was like the low of the low part of town, the real down and outers

[Jords]

This was like the low of the low part of town, the real down and outers

Absolutely terrible Joe, would hate to imagine what other antics they get up to.

[WOMBAI]

What a disgusting bitch, I have no time over people who get kick outs over things like that. Unless, she was forced to, then somebody ought to stamp on the man jacking off's head.

Someone should cut it off - see how big a buzz he gets from that!

[Chels]

i saw a guy in while on holiday in spain standing on a street corner with those money slot pot things and wearing a t-shirt saying sex instructor LOL

[Tom]

Some are forced though, espeically Eastern European girls

I'm against it when people are forced but my initial post was just in general

[Lewis.]

I think that many people don't realise why people turn to prostitution. I think that prostitution should be legalised really, so that the government can keep a track on it. If they legalised prostitution in proper prostitution houses.. where the men go and they get a nice room with the woman and the woman has an alarm button, then I don't see what is wrong with it. Sex sells, and many people have no other option but to turn to prostitution... from stories from someone I know, she said that she needed to do it for the cash, otherwise she would have lost her children and house. It's hefty money that prostitution generates.. and if the government legalised it, they could make sure it was all done properly and people wouldn't need to do it on the streets in a violent atmosphere.

[InOne]

I'm against it when people are forced but my initial post was just in general

Yeah like, the ones who aren't forced would have usually had a choice at one point, before going past the point of no return

[zotler.]

I didn't really have an opinion on Prostitution until I watched the Nicholas Cage film, "Leaving Las Vegas", and after I watched that I personally couldn't see why any stable person would want to be a prostitute, and I feel very sorry for anyone who is forced into it, or can't find any other way to get needed money :|

[Spike]

I don't see a problem with prositituion, as long as the girls aren't being forced into it
Its a service which there is demand for and it happens. I think it should be legalised so it can be governed to keep the girls more safe than they are now.
I really can't see a good argument for it not to be legalised

[Tom]

Yeah like, the ones who aren't forced would have usually had a choice at one point, before going past the point of no return

But they made the decision in the first place so its their own fault. There are other ways to get money

[ugly]

i <3 prossies

[WOMBAI]

i <3 prossies

Are you an ugly prossie? :joker:

[ugly]

speak 2 urself

[WOMBAI]

Times must be tough!

[InOne]

But they made the decision in the first place so its their own fault. There are other ways to get money

Indeed indeed, takes a certain type of mentality I guess, they must be pretty emotionally detached from everything

[WOMBAI]

I think there is usually something wrong in a woman's life if she chooses to work as a prostitute. I think low self-esteem has a lot to do with it, not believing they can do any better for themselves, disadvantaged background etc - becomes a state of mind. Often has a lot to do with the environment they grow-up in! So I think the use of the word 'choice' is really very unrealistic.

[InOne]

Well that is where the sexual abuse statistic plays a part, from childhood they feel they and worth nothing and that sex means nothing. The path that usually leads them there is drugs. It's rare to find a street girls not on drugs, that is how the pimps have so much power over them. They keep them supplied, they make next to nothing, but get their fix.

[Beastie]

If you want to be a prozzy make sure you use protection :thumbs:

[WOMBAI]

Well that is where the sexual abuse statistic plays a part, from childhood they feel they and worth nothing and that sex means nothing. The path that usually leads them there is drugs. It's rare to find a street girls not on drugs, that is how the pimps have so much power over them. They keep them supplied, they make next to nothing, but get their fix.

It's a shame more people don't look for the reasons why - but just sit in judgement instead. A lot is about luck - what family circumstances they are born into. There but for the grace of god ...etc. People conveniently ignore that!

[InOne]

It's a shame more people don't look for the reasons why - but just sit in judgement instead. A lot is about luck - what family circumstances they are born into. There but for the grace of god ...etc. People conveniently ignore that!

Indeed, some get out some don't a sad fact of live, but if they're really hard into it, most are too far gone by like 22

[arista]

Times must be tough!


Yes we are Stuck in this New Labour Depression.

[Crimson Dynamo]

revolting

[ange7]

I know not many people see them as fallen angels or anything, but some are like Uni dropouts and middle class kids wanting to rebel. Fair enough they have a drug habit, but I remember one saying a guy asked her to stamp on a kitten while he jacked off to it, and one said to pretend he's his 12 year old daughter. That has gotta be the low of the low and those are the ones I would have no time for,
"but I remember one saying a guy asked her to stamp on a kitten while he jacked off to it, and one said to pretend he's his 12 year old daughter" ....!!!??!!

"and for your bonus round InOne your specialty subject is.... info that makes people want to vomit, and your time starts ...NOW..."

[MarkWaldorf]

It's up to the girl at the end of the day. They know that once they get into it, the effects could be damaging. If they feel they can face this, then that's their prerogative.

[InOne]

"but I remember one saying a guy asked her to stamp on a kitten while he jacked off to it, and one said to pretend he's his 12 year old daughter" ....!!!??!!

"and for your bonus round InOne your specialty subject is.... info that makes people want to vomit, and your time starts ...NOW..."

Sorry to bring you out of your sheltered little life and into the real world. :tongue:

[spitfire]

What do people think of it and the girls that do it?
It's disgusting.It should be free via the NHS.:D

[ange7]

Sorry to bring you out of your sheltered little life and into the real world. :tongue:
nah mate ... this is your world hehe ... but hey we're glad you shared these little slices of your life. What you got planned for tonight?...dare I ask.

[InOne]

nah mate ... this is your world hehe ... but hey we're glad you shared these little slices of your life. What you got planned for tonight?...dare I ask.

Who knows, who knows ;)

[Shaun]

I've got no qualms about sex for money, but I do disagree with pimping and trafficking.

[ange7]

I've got no qualms about sex for money, but I do disagree with pimping and trafficking.
yeah good point. If women (and men) are going to sell themselves no one else should profit from it but them. In a perfect world people wouldn't be forced by economic circumstances to sell themselves cheap but if they do then pimps and other parasites shouldn't be able to use violence to keep them locked in a down wward spiral against their will.

[InOne]

yeah good point. If women (and men) are going to sell themselves no one else should profit from it but them. In a perfect world people wouldn't be forced by economic circumstances to sell themselves cheap but if they do then pimps and other parasites shouldn't be able to use violence to keep them locked in a down wward spiral against their will.

I know it's legal in NZ, but not sure about OZ????

[ange7]

I think the idea here in OZ is to keep them safe and off the streets by working in brothels. There they can get access to social workers and drug rehab access and general advice about their rights. We still hear horror stories of girls coming form eastern Europe or Asia and being imprisoned in underground ( unregistered ) brothels and forced to pay off debts for the privileged of being used and abused. Short answer ..we get it wrong here too.

[Tom]

I've got no qualms about sex for money, but I do disagree with pimping and trafficking.

If it was regulated pimping could happen but more in a boss/employee situation

[InOne]

The ones that need worrying about are the ones who are drug addicts and have AIDS. I don't know about over here but in America if a prostitute sleeps with someone when they have AIDS they can get done for attempted murder.

[Angus]

If prostitution were just about the free choice of a woman to sell her body, then I see no problem - unfortunately, it is usually about women being exploited by pimps and traffickers and forced into a way of life not of their choosing.

Its double standards as usual - perhaps the question should be what do you think of men who use prostitutes? Let's face it if there were no punters, there would be no prostitutes. It is what it is and has been for centuries - it's not called the oldest profession for nothing.

[InOne]

Well the 'Jons' seem to be mostly married men really. Some of the wives even know about it too which is a bit dodgy.