How much do looks matter?

[_Seth]

Do you think the line has to be drawn somewhere?

Say, for example, you where completely in love with someone one of these people, would you still go out with one of them?

http://photos-d.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs222.snc3/20938_109879345688756_100000000744007_242515_13300 46_n.jpg http://markgorman.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/ugly-woman-12424.jpg

http://www.thefastlanetomillions.com/attachments/fastlane-forum-funnies/620d1213869196-there-no-ugly-women-just-poor-ones-ugly.jpg http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:-Lxkr9FXexk3XM:http://cdn.ugoto.com/pictures/ugliest-man-in-the-world-eb9.jpg


I honestly think there's a line.

[Twilight]

Theirs a big line for me, they need to be hot and have a nice Personality.

[Jords]

Yeah but your talking extreme in them pictures..

[MarkWaldorf]

it's only natural to think someone's good looking or cute, so i think it's acceptable to draw a line at something - but personality is just as important for me, because i'd like to love being around them.

them examples obviously draw the line LOL

[Princess]

Those pictures are just distrubing! You can't be with someone if you don't feel attracted to them,simple as.

[Stacey.]

no, for me, the 'right' one would be very fit :lovedup:
And have a lovely, funny, crazy personality :D

[Jack_]

There's a line, yes, and for the most part I would say everybody has to find their partner at least a bit attractive. I think if you truely love someone, you love them for who they are and their personality etc, because that's what attracts you to them. Looks are just a bonus, but still needed really in this case.

For example, there are plenty of girls that I know that I would shag their brains out, but that's just lust. I'm not attracted to them personality wise. On the other hand, I did have a best friend in which it started out as just a friendship, but then I realised I'd fallen in love with her, and not her looks, though that was just a bonus. Sadly, I didn't do anything about it, and now we've drited apart.

But do you see what I mean now? There's a different between love and lust.

[King Gizzard]

I fcking love Anne Widdecombe

[WOMBAI]

Secondary to personality - but reasonably important!

[Jords]

See all this, well Mr/Miss Perfect would be very fit, I dont agree with. A nice, cute girl with a lovely personality would be perfect for me, I dont need some WAG looking girl to make me happy. They are just eye candy, for a relationship it wouldnt matter.

Anyway, too hot and they would seek other guys attention, lmao. :p

[Jack_]

Also, I think when you're younger and prepubescent, you generally don't care about personality. But as you get older you realise that it's not just looks that count.

[Patrick]

They just need to be fit and willing to ****, and thats it.

[_Seth]

Yeah but your talking extreme in them pictures..

Not really. They're just excellent examples. :)

[Vicky.]

They just need to be fit and willing to ****, and thats it.

Charming :rolleyes:

[_Seth]

Also, I think when you're younger and prepubescent, you generally don't care about personality. But as you get older you realise that it's not just looks that count.

It works in this way for me: If I think I love someone, I DO find them physically attractive. People complain about Joe's teeth, but I love them. But if I don't find them physically attractive I will not love them, and I'm not forcing myself out of love or anything, it's a system where it's either all (looks and personality) or nothing.

[Jords]

Not really. They're just excellent examples. :)

Yeah that fat girl is obese, but some normal chubby/fat girls can be quite attractive and have fun personalities, she just looks like a beach wale and is the extreme of being fat and is of course yuckety yuck yuck!

[Harry!]

As long as people are clean, In good shape and take some form of pride in there looks (What ever they do to feel good) then people are ok.

[ILoveTRW]

tbh i can't even be friends with ugly people
they just gross me out

[WOMBAI]

tbh i can't even be friends with ugly people
they just gross me out

What a sad comment!

[ILoveTRW]

What a sad comment!

when i say ugly i mean proper ugly, like 1 in every 100th person

[MeMyselfAndI]

u dnt want to go out with sum1 uglyy lolz

[Braden]

I can be friends with somebody ugly,
but if me and my friends were to hate someone ugly the thing we would properly mock them for the most is there looks.

[Crimson Dynamo]

one only needs to witness all the fat and or ugly tv presenters, newsreaders and game hosts we have to answer your question.

[Stacey.]

tbh i can't even be friends with ugly people
they just gross me out

I do sort of agree with that! lmao.
:laugh:

[Beastie]

Suppose it matters a bit but the personality rules over everything <3

[Beastie]

They just need to be fit and willing to ****, and thats it.

:joker:

[30stone]

You have to find someone attractive on the outside, you just dont go for someone you dont think is good looking.

[Shasown]

they just need to be fit and willing to ****, and thats it.

pmsl

[Captain.Remy]

You have to find someone attractive on the outside, you just dont go for someone you dont think is good looking.

Exactly. I don't buy the "I don't care how he/she looks" because that's bullsh!t and it's been proved by many sociologists that people tend to date people they find good looking, it's then natural order of things.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and beauty can be a lot of things. Personally, my type of girl as far as looks go are blonde, blue eyes and smaller than me. I like her having a dancer type body (oh wait, it's exactly how my ex-girlfriend is and how my current girlfriend looks like...a bit less lol). But for personality, I need a leader, sometimes who has strong opinion and views, who is classy and intelligent. I hate girls who are always scared or don't know what to do and have no opinion. It's not right.

But it happened to me to talk to someone who is less my type but I had a lot of fun with so I'm open minded really.

[30stone]

They just need to be fit and willing to ****, and thats it.

Whoa, aren't you 14?

There is far more to it..


Exactly. I don't buy the "I don't care how he/she looks" because that's bullsh!t and it's been proved by many sociologists that people tend to date people they find good looking, it's then natural order of things.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and beauty can be a lot of things. Personally, my type of girl as far as looks go are blonde, blue eyes and smaller than me. I like her having a dancer type body (oh wait, it's exactly how my ex-girlfriend is and how my current girlfriend looks like...a bit less lol). But for personality, I need a leader, sometimes who has strong opinion and views, who is classy and intelligent. I hate girls who are always scared or don't know what to do and have no opinion. It's not right.

But it happened to me to talk to someone who is less my type but I had a lot of fun with so I'm open minded really.

Yeah for sure your going to talk to someone you like by looks.

[Tom4784]

Personality's majorly important otherwise you're stuck with wallpaper, nice to look at but *****ing dull as hell. Looks are kind of important to me but I wouldn't go out with someone on looks alone. When it comes to looks I like girls that are individuals really, I can't really stand the glamour look and such (so basically anyone in Patrick's signatures I probably wouldn't like :laugh:). I haven't really explained it that well.

[Niamh.]

Well, to be "in love" with someone you need to find that person attractive but what one person finds attractive another person doesn't

[atieah2009]

You don't have to make love to there body, make love to there personality!

[xDramatick]

I couldn't get with someone whom I didn't find physically attractive.

[Niamh.]

I couldn't get with someone whom I didn't find physically attractive.

Of course not because how are you supposed to sleep with someone, or even kiss someone you're not attracted to? It's not fair on them or you!

[atieah2009]

Of course not because how are you supposed to sleep with someone, or even kiss someone you're not attracted to? It's not fair on them or you!

As I said make love to their personality!

[Niamh.]

As I said make love to their personality!

lol, you'll have to tell me how that's done!

[arista]

Yeah but your talking extreme in them pictures..


Yes Extreme Photos posted
not helping this so called Debate.



Life In The Fast Lane

[Beastie]

Whoa, aren't you 14?

There is far more to it..




Yeah for sure your going to talk to someone you like by looks.

I think Patrick wants his English Teacher to take his virginity.

[Z]

BREASTS - because you can't motorboat personalities.


LOL.

If you're obsessed with the looks of a prospective partner, then it's a fairly safe assumption that you're quite vain about your own appearance - like attracts like.

Looks only matter as much as you put them on a pedestal. I only get excited about people with a personality I like; there are plenty of superficially attractive people out there.

[Niamh.]

BREASTS - because you can't motorboat personalities.


LOL.

If you're obsessed with the looks of a prospective partner, then it's a fairly safe assumption that you're quite vain about your own appearance - like attracts like.

Looks only matter as much as you put them on a pedestal. I only get excited about people with a personality I like; there are plenty of superficially attractive people out there.

I see what you're saying but you still have to find someone attractive in order to have a physical relationship with them, they don't have to be super models but you have to be attracted to them

[30stone]

You start with their looks when you first meet someone you have to find them attractive.
Then if you see them more you need to get to know their personalities.

Generally looks are more important at first, but then personality is as if not a slight bit more important after the first time you meet them.

[arsenalforever]

You start with their looks when you first meet someone you have to find them attractive.
Then if you see them more you need to get to know their personalities.

Generally looks are more important at first, but then personality is as if not a slight bit more important after the first time you meet them.

oh looks are everything if your not looking good your not pulling
then after that its up to you to see if she/he have a brain

[30stone]

oh looks are everything if your not looking good your not pulling
then after that its up to you to see if she/he have a brain

Exactly.
Who goes up to meet someone they dont find attractive, disagree with anyone who says looks dont matter.

[Niamh.]

Exactly.
Who goes up to meet someone they dont find attractive, disagree with anyone who says looks dont matter.

Yeah, I agree completly, obviously the personality is what makes you stick with the person but you have to be attracted to them before it even gets that far!

[arsenalforever]

Exactly.
Who goes up to meet someone they dont find attractive, disagree with anyone who says looks dont matter.

i haste people who say its all about whats inside
yeah right its about a fit body and most couldn't care less if she could spell her own name

[arsenalforever]

Yeah, I agree completly, obviously the personality is what makes you stick with the person but you have to be attracted to them before it even gets that far!

i was with girls who were good in bed and looked good but i couldn't stand to talk to 'em cause they were dumb as a donkey

[Niamh.]

i was with girls who were good in bed and looked good but i couldn't stand to talk to 'em cause they were dumb as a donkey

lol, well that's grand for a one night stand but it's not really going to last the distance unless you also like their personality!

[arsenalforever]

lol, well that's grand for a one night stand but it's not really going to last the distance unless you also like their personality!

True i learned that in the end but trust me guys would stay with a girl cause she's good looking rather then cause she's smart plus men don;t like women who speak their mind

[King Gizzard]

First looks - theyve got to catch your eye (everyone who says not is lying)

Then you'll get to know there personality - if its ****e, GET RID

[WOMBAI]

i was with girls who were good in bed and looked good but i couldn't stand to talk to 'em cause they were dumb as a donkey

Maybe guys that only focus on satisfying their physical needs all the time - are the ones dumb as donkeys! Just a thought! :hugesmile:

[Niamh.]

True i learned that in the end but trust me guys would stay with a girl cause she's good looking rather then cause she's smart plus men don;t like women who speak their mind

That's a bit of a generalisation!! You mightn't like women who speak their mind but I'm quite sure you are not like all men!!

[Niamh.]

First looks - theyve got to catch your eye (everyone who says not is lying)

Then you'll get to know there personality - if its ****e, GET RID

True words SuperNathan!

[King Gizzard]

Unless you're Rik Waller of course, you'll settle for anything

[arsenalforever]

That's a bit of a generalisation!! You mightn't like women who speak their mind but I'm quite sure you are not like all men!!

i never said i did i said a few guys i know do:nono:

i know i'm dead sexy baby:joker:

[arsenalforever]

Maybe guys that only focus on satisfying their physical needs all the time - are the ones dumb as donkeys! Just a thought! :hugesmile:

no we all need to satisfied are needs

[Niamh.]

i never said i did i said a few guys i know do:nono:

i know i'm dead sexy baby:joker:

Have a read back Steve you said "men don't like women who speak their minds"!!!

[King Gizzard]

Gwannnn Knee

[arsenalforever]

Have a read back Steve you said "men don't like women who speak their minds"!!!

like you said about war films you did say you hate him then you said you didn't:hugesmile:

i should have said "most"

[arsenalforever]

Gwannnn Knee

speak english:joker:

[Niamh.]

like you said about war films you did say you hate him then you said you didn't:hugesmile:

i should have said "most"

I hate war films when did I say I didn't??:conf:

Alright then, you didn't say most and I was responding to your post minus the most! If you meant to put most in fair enough although I doubt that most men are like that either tbh

[Niamh.]

Gwannnn Knee

You're getting more Cork everyday!

[Jayson]

It matters a lot, same as personality really.